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Before you message me, watch this video. If you know you are incapable of taking punishment strikes as demonstrated in the video then you don't need to message me. The minimum caning I ever give is 120 strokes (not the 40 in the video). Keep that in mind as you review the clip. http://ltrtpe.com/?movie=Caned+for+disobedience%2C+disrespect%2C+and+dishonesty
What do I believe?
I am absolutely AGAINST "women's rights". Feminism was a fad, a war on Men that women lost. Women don't need rights, they need a Man that is better capable to decide what is best for them.
Women are the natural property of Men. I believe a Man has the absolute right to decide how his woman will live her life and how and when her life will end.
I do not believe rape should be illegal. As one girl I use to know put it, a man shouldn't have to rape a [unowned] girl, she should be willing to satisfy any man that desires her. Asking a girl if you can fuck her, is like asking a chair if you can sit on it. How Men deal with a violation of their property is between the two Men.
Women respond to force, humiliation degradation and pain. The best way to get through to a woman's stupid little brain is a good, hard, pussy caning. A girl belongs naked, leashed, and on her knees.
Girls are obviously closer to pets than they are to people. No one honestly believes that women are equal to Men. Women are not equal in any way to Men. Yes, its true that girls mature faster than Boys. The problem is that girls never mature mentally past the age of 14 or 15, while Boys continue to grow into Men. women can't have more than 2 or 3 rational thoughts before it turns to "shoes!" or "i want" At the very least you have to admit women are like children at best and deserve to be treated that way.
I believe that girls are here to please their Masters. girls deserve only pain, constant humiliation, and sexual frustration. I am NOT into training a girl anymore unless she is in a lifetime contract with me. Period. No exceptions.
Girls should always be at their most vulnerable, never getting in the way of a Man. It is not enough that they should be naked and leashed, but they should encourage and anticipate a Man's intentions. If a Man is fondling a girl and starts reaching for her pussy, she should part her legs a bit so that he can get a good feel. If he's coming at her with a belt, she better get on her back, knees to her shoulders, and legs spread as far apart as she can giving him full unprotected access to her precious cunt. that's how a good girl behaves. girls do not have the right to protect themselves from Men, ever.
Its time to stop treating women as if we were people just because you need us to have babies. Yes, women have the pain of childbirth, but its a Man's decision. A Man has every right to knock a girl up by force, or not let her have children. Birth control should be sold ONLY to Men to administer. Its not her decision.
What am I looking for?
A lifetime commitment of consensual non consent slavery in a total power exchange is what I am seeking from a quiet intelligent classy girl. I am 26 years old. If you are older than me or within 2 years of my age, I am NOT interested.
I'm a dacryphilia addict. Shortness of breath, sobs, and tears. I find being the cause of tears from torment to be the ultimate aphrodisiac.
You will need to show me a clean SLRN record indicating that you unowned before you are eligible to be considered by me. If you do not have a SLRN record, go create one at slaveregister.com (YES, it is free) and POST the number at the base of your profile before contacting me.
Much of what practitioners of BDSM do in their daily lives reflects that of a traditional relationship. Life is still life regardless of what particular lifestyle one opts for. Everyday situations need to be handled and responsibilities fulfilled. Many approach BDSM with the belief that it is a way that will fix all the outer problems of life. This is not true.
Promote Inequality
The most basic tenet of BDSM is that it promotes inequality. "All men are created equal" is a mantra for others to preach. In our way of life, people opt to be subservient to others. It is a conscious choice to serve. The ones who choose this path are not seeking to be equal. Instead, they are craving a life where one is in control and directive of all actions. They are seeking a fulfillment that is different from the average. A service mindset is at the core of who these people are.
At the same time, there are ones who crave being in control. For the true dominants, this is not something that comes from a place of weakness. Unlike the "control-freaks" we encounter in the traditional world, a true dominant understands the responsibility that accompanies accepting the submission of another. It is not something that is undertaken lightly.
Therefore, the very essence of a BDSM relationship is inequality. Both parties fulfill a particular role for the other. There is no pretense that both parties are acting in accordance with each other. The dominant is the one who is in charge of leading the relationship. It is the submissive who fulfills the relationship by obeying the directives of the one in charge. He guides, she follows. Inequality at its finest.
Total Power Exchange
Taking this idea one step further, there is a concept in this lifestyle called "total power exchange" (the term "absolute" is often substituted for "total"). This move to a total power exchange to the extreme. The power breakdown under this circumstance is 100%-0%. All power lies in the hands of one. The other is meant to obey and follow. Again, this is a consensual choice that each party makes. However, both have responsibilities.
Many take exception to the idea of a total power exchange. They believe that a slave will retain some authority no matter how dedicated she is. Debates often arise in those instances where one works or has duties of tending to children. How can one be completely in the control of another when she has managerial tasks at work or is in charge of disciplining the kids?
I answer this question simply with the notion that it is his will for a slave to do these things. If it was not, she would not be doing them. Take the job as an example. Some slaves works outside the home. She is responsible for getting to work on time, performing the tasks set out by the company, and earning monies which are turned over to her owner. Her job position exists because it is permitted by her owner. If it is decided that she is not to work, then the slave would quit immediately. Of course, the owner must be accepting of the financial consequences of the decision.
That is an example of what it means to be under another's control. In a total power exchange, the other makes all choices for you. This is fundamental in a M/s relationship. A slave's position is to obey. The Master dictates the direction of the relationship.
Acceptance of Responsibility
One thing that few ever mention when discussing this topic is the acceptance of responsibility for all that transpires. It is easy for a dominant to blame a slave when things go wrong. This is the wrong approach. If a slave is following the directives set down upon her, then the Master is the one who takes responsibility for the outcomes. It is his decisions that her actions are based upon.
Few are up to this task. Newer people are drawn to the idea of having someone do all that he tells her to do. Usually, sexual antics are at the top of the list. Aside from this, many are not suited to take responsibility for another. In fact, they cannot take control of their own lives. This creates a quandary when one is looking to submit to another. There is nothing that is accomplished by submitting to one who is unable to run his own life. Sadly, most seem to fall into this category.
I always caution newer people to think about the responsibility side of the BDSM equation. It is not all fun and games. The reality is that there are many pitfalls to a BDSM relationship. Effort, communication, and discipline are required if people are to succeed. There is a higher degree of responsibility that is needed than in most vanilla relationships. There is also a lot more to a BDSM relationship than just sex. People need to look beyond that.
In the end, is there a BDSM relationship without an exchange of power? I do not believe so. It is the one aspect that is fundamental to this way of life. Those who are seeking to maintain equality are not entering into the BDSM lifestyle. Instead, I think they are simply seeking to add some kink to their lives. This is a far cry from living a life with the exchange of power as a central theme. Total exchange of power is at our core.
What is Consensual Non Consensual Slavery?
Slave ownership is a selfish and one-sided institution that exists solely and exclusively for superior beings to exploit inferior creatures for their own personal sake and benefit. Slaves are not friends, companions, or lovers. Slaves are inferior life forms, naked animals, beasts of burden, and pieces of livestock in human form that serve, function, and perform in whatever manner is required so that their owners can enjoy an enhanced and more comfortable lifestyle.
Real and true slave ownership becomes life's greatest luxury only when the slave owner adopts the attitude that they have taken a slave creature into their home so that they can literally take total possession of a human body and make use of it in any ways that suit their needs, satisfy their desires, and serves their purposes. THAT is what REAL slavery and REAL slave ownership is all about.
When I take you as slaves do not expect me to care in the least about your thoughts and feelings. You are here because I want your bodies and for no other reason. You are there because I want bodies to do my hard labor, so I can sit back in leisurely comfort and enjoy my free time while you sweat and toil on my behalf. You are here because I want bodies I can impose my immoral, indecent, and perverted sexual urges on without having to ask if it's alright beforehand, and without having to offer any apologies afterward for the vile and obscene things I imposed on your naked flesh and exposed body parts. You are here because I want bodies I can humiliate, debase, torment, and torture for no reason at all except the personal satisfaction I get out of venting my cruel and sadistic urges on a living creature, the personal gratification I get out of exercising power and authority over something alive, and the personal enjoyment I get out of making you suffer simply because I feel like doing it.
Labor, sex, and torture are the only three reasons for wanting to own a slave, and the only three reasons for bringing a slave creature into my life is so I can have in my possession a body that can do that work, provide that sex, and endure those tortures. THAT is the harsh reality of slavery and you must understand this and accept it as the reality that has to be faced when you give yourselves to me as a slave.
Lets face it, a slave can not really be friends with someone who has forced them to scrub their toilets with their bare hands, been beaten until you have welts with a whip, or made her stick her tongue up my butthole. I can not sit down with someone for a friendly drink and idle conversation about politics or religion after I have spent all day fisting a slave's ass, spitting on it's face, and dragging it around at the end of a leash like a whipped dog. When I step on a slave and grind its face into the dirt under the heels of my boots and it honestly fears me, it respects my authority, when it comes to accept the fact that it is inferior, and it simply can not relate to me any longer as an equal.
Slavery, by its very nature, forces a huge separation in status, stature, worth, and value between slave owners and the creatures they dominate. Once a slave has licked their owner's feet, and showered in my piss, it just can not relate to that person as an equal ever again. Once a person is dominated by another they can never again view that person from anything other than a subordinate position. I find it hard to understand how someone can think that when the chains come off, and the clothes go back on, that everything can revert back to how it was before we started. It can't and it shouldn't.
I am seeking people who are REAL and SERIOUS slaves. I am seeking people who want to give me their bodies. I am seeking people who want me to own them for MY purposes and give them orders not choices. I am seeking people who know that once I have had them, I will never be able to relate to them as anything but slaves ever again and people who want it just that way. If you are serious about slavery. My kind of slavery, true slavery, then I would like very much to get to know you better.
What is the Difference between a submissive and a slave?
There have been many articles about this subject and the views aren't always the same. BDSM has been around for quite some time and some definitions have been developed to describe someone's role and point of view. It helps to define roles, as it helps people who are looking for a partner to distinguish exactly what would turn them on and also restricts the number of possibilities to interact with. Unfortunately there has been a disturbing trend to use definitions loosely or to disregard them completely, adopting the stance that each person determines who or what they think they are. Therefore some people call themselves slaves when they are definitely not and some call themselves submissives, while they are in fact slaves. I have tried to avoid writing on this topic, as the word slave could attract different types of searches that I do not want to be associated with. These searches are the ones looking for non-consensual slaves that can be forced into servitude or slave trade, that in my opinion is detestable. I wanted to distance myself from that before I even defined anything. If you wanted to find anything like that, then you may as well go elsewhere, because this is focused on consensual slavery.
There are several distinctions and differences between a submissive and a slave. I will take the term submissive first. A submissive is a person with an intense desire to serve that does so under some conditions. The conditions would typically include terms of service, length of service, which areas of the submissives' life the dominant does not get to control, what the hard and soft limits are when they play or just interact, and of course the safe word. In many ways the submissive controls play. Hard limits are activities that a dominant will not be able to indulge with the submissive. Hard limits broken would lead to the end of a scene, relationship or arrangement and a serious breach of trust. Soft limits are limits that can be broken, but only after it has been discussed with the submissive. These are things the submissive is not excited about doing, but will try if it seems to excite the dominant or causes some latent excitement and fear in the submissive as well. The safe word ends all play. The dominant has free reign as long as he or she stays within the set limits.
After a scene, many submissives go back to controlling their own lives. They slip in and out of the role of submissive in most cases. They continue to make their own decisions and even in a 24/7 situation will continue to control those areas of their lives that are off limits to the dominant. A submissive submits every time a scene starts or some activity where the dominant has been given control commences. The choice is hers or his every single time the dominant requires submission. A submissive can walk away from a scene because something is not working for them and completely slip out of role whenever they feel the need to discuss something about the situation with their dominant. This does not indicate a lack of the need to submit or serve though.
Now we turn to the slave - the consensual slave. The slave gives up all rights to make their own decisions, becomes the "property" of a Master or Mistress, takes on the limits of their Master or Mistress and does what is asked of them regardless of their feelings about it. Sometimes a slave will give up all rights to property of their own and will continue to work for the household, having to ask permission to use any money they earn. Slaves earn privileges and do not have rights. A slave submits once - when the collar is placed around his or her neck and when something is difficult, has to ask for help to accomplish it. Slaves are not kept in basements or locked away forever. They are strong people who have an intense desire to please another human being and now has the freedom to live that desire and not have to submit to anyone else but those chosen by their Master or Mistress. Taking on the limits of another means that slaves have to ensure that the limits of the dominant they are talking to matches theirs, as their only choice is choosing the dominant. It is responsible to make sure that the person does match them or their preferences.
Can a slave be sold to another? No, most Masters or Mistresses would never do that. Remember this is consensual slavery, a 24/7 arrangement with one person fully in control and another person obeying all the commands and wishes expressed by the other because both of them want this. There is often a lot of love involved in this type of relationship as well. There are mock slave auctions that are used as fund raisers in the community, and slaves would go and serve another man or woman for the evening, but they always go back to the person they chose to be with. Can a slave end a relationship? Yes, they can petition their dominant for release and no responsible dominant would say no if nothing could be done to heal the relationship.
The difference between the two does not make one better than the other. I have seen countless submissives that serve as beautifully and perfectly as some slaves do and prefer not to be called slaves because of the negative connotation to that word. I have also seen many wannabe slaves struggle until they eventually found their place as submissives. It is difficult to devote one's entire life to another person but it is also incredibly rewarding.
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