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I bid you the warmest of greetings. We are all here looking for something, be it a long term partner or simply some fun and games. Why? Because loneliness is truly a terrible tragedy. It is like being in a thick, heavy fog, where it is crushing you, making it extremely difficult to even breath, where it is difficult to see, let alone find your way. It is a disease that has a true cure. That cure is the right partner. Are you willing to explore that possibility? What do I seek? I seek a true partner and friend who serves me as my collared submissive or slave in a long term relationship. Until that happens, I will stave off lonelinesswith my work and casual relationships - not one night stands. When the right partner comes along, my status will change to "TAKEN."
I am not a switch, or gay, or bi-sexual. I am single and have my own home. I am drug and disease free and a non-smoker, non-drinker. I am loyal, loving, caring, and protective. I provide rules and guidelines, expect them to be followed, and am strict and transgressions will be dealt with justly. I have been described as friend, lover, mentor, protector, Dominant, Master, Daddy, teacher, innovative, fun and funny, and well experienced. And yes, I am not perfect and there are times when I show my displeasure, especially when a sub refuses to follow my instructions, but I get over it quickly. I do not claim to be all-knowing or a god. I do not put on god-like airs. I am very straightforward and uncomplicated. I don't play stupid games. Life is too short. The descriptions of a Master and submissive in my journal pretty well describe how I live this lifestyle and would like my partner to be.
Just as a sub or slave has responsibilities to their Master, so does the Master to his partner. With great power also comes great responsibility. The Master's responsibilities include helping his partner to grow and to become the best submissive or slave that they can be, and the best person that they can be. I respect limits as well as test them. My hard limits are no blood or children. Everything else is done in a safe, sane and consensual manner. I can treat you in any manner that you seek, from princess to lowly trash, from gentleness to pain loving slut. I greatly enjoy the variety.
I take the time to learn and understand the needs, wants and desires of my partners. I want to truly know you and what is in your heart and very soul. I listen and communicate very well. I enjoy making true friends and Mentoring those who are truly willing to listen and learn. We might never meet face-to-face, but we may become friends forever. I try not to judge people and what they think. I do evaluate whether or not you might become my partner. I will accept a sub/slave who is honest, loyal, willing and who understands the true meaning of submission and RESPECT.
That person needs to be compatible in terms of personality, attitude, and physical and emotional chemistry, and be reasonably HWP. They should be able to function well in both vanilla and lifestyle practitioning. The only way to find out if we are compatible is for us to get acquainted.
I believe in becoming real friends first. I shudder at what awaits those who become involved in instant relationships. They remind me of instant coffee - made quickly and soon flushed!! They are here today and collared tomorrow, and discarded and disillusioned just as quickly. How can one get to truly know a person in a matter of hours or days, especially over the internet? How can one put their lives in the hands of another when they barely know that person's name?
Active alcoholics and addicts please look elsewhere. I have had my fill of both. I am especially fond of Caucasian and Asian women. I am unable to relocate at this time. I understand that jobs and families can preclude relocating for some. Please just click on the "No Thanks" button if you are not interested or are a player, con artist, or a porn slut. There are so many con artists putting up profiles on collarme. Most of them are very easy to spot. I seek only the real thing, not scams or childish games. Those who do fail to respond at all to a serious and respectful message show a serious lack of understanding and respect. Even a cut and paste "No Thanks" is more respectful and appreciated than no response at all. My responses, even to a "No Thanks," are always positive and respectful, never mean or critical.
I will not lower my standards to respond with nastiness to any nasty messages, so if you have nothing good to say, please go elsewhere. I am a firm believer in courtesy and respect, and will not waste my time and energy on those who are not courteous and respectful. If I have written to you, I am genuinely interested.
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I saw an attractive blonde female driving a pickup, and in her rear window she had a sign that said: "If you are going to ride my ass, at least you can pull my hair!" |
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I see some are enthralled with the new "Friends" feature on collarme. Call me old-fashioned, but just because someone sends me an e-mail, I can't bring myself to call them a friend. I hold my true friends close and they are very dear to me, and I know that I can count on them if and when I need them. My friends are not a collection of pictures, but are very real friends. |
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I have to wonder why a submissive/slave would read my profile and journal and choose to copy the words in my profile and then block me. It seems as if one is afraid that they may have found the perfect Master for them, and yet runs away from even getting acquainted, as if she is afraid of achieving the relationship that she truly craves. Opportunities are lost all too often for reasons that defy logic. Such a pity!!! |
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This has been a long and sometimes tiring journey. I've met many terrific people, but just not the right one for me. I would hope that, after reading my profile and journal, I would encourage you to be bold enough to contact me if you felt we might be a match. |
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My thanks to Aeon, who included this in her profile.
A Dominant is a Ruler, but never a
Tyrant.
But to rule requires
understanding and
understanding requires humility.
A Dominant has Pride, but never
Arrogance.
But pride requires dignity and
dignity requires humility.
A Dominant commands Respect,
but never Fear.
But respect requires serenity and
serenity requires humility.
A Dominant employs Strength, but
never Force.
But strength requires knowledge
and knowledge requires humility.
A Dominant criticizes, but never
derides.
But criticism requires insight and
insight requires humility.
A Dominant receives, but never
takes.
But receiving requires giving and
giving requires humility.
A Dominant completes, but never
tries to alter.
But to complete one must be able
to see what is there, not what is
missing and THIS most of all
requires humility.
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I wanted to post these two poems. They capture the essence of submission and Dominance. Thank you babygirl4Master for posting these. One of these was written by someone named Aeon Case. I thank the author(s) for their beautiful words. Yes, there is a soft side to me that is a romantic, but that side covers the very solid frame of a Dom and Master. Those who make the mistake of thinking otherwise soon find the error of their ways.
~*~Two Made One~*~
And it was written that He would be soft
of voice and kind of smile...
Forgiving and loving, caring and tending to her needs, wants, and desires...
Warm and gentle, He would give to her of
Himself, showing her the Way...
His Way, forsaking all Others, the One to whom
she belonged, heart and body, mind and soul...
He would soothe, with open hand, the pains
and bruises of her life...
Tending the Garden of Roses of her being, bequeathed
to Him with Collar worn...
And it was written that she would be warm
of heart and tender of soul...
Kneeling at His feet to surrender herself to His
every wish...
Soft and supple, she would give to Him of
herself, accepting and following the Way...
His Way, forsaking all Others, the One to whom
she belonged, heart and body, mind and soul...
She would see, with open eyes, her nature,
the fact of her submission...
And embrace her own self willingly and
with open arms, giving to Him her Garden...
And accepting His Collar alone,
she would know His happiness...
This is Written...
Never undone...
Know these things for Truth...
And it was written that He would be strong
of will, and Master first, of Himself...
Strong in His faith and belief that He alone
controlled her destiny...
Accepting of His charge to maintain the Love and
trust so willingly placed at His feet...
Gently, tenderly guiding her on the Path He has
chosen, praising her every step...
His affection the fuel for the raging inferno
of her desire to please...
His touch, His words, His smile the only
reward she seeks...
And it was written that she would be humble
yet proud of her place at His feet...
Gladly following in His footsteps, the warmth of
His shadow falling upon her every moment...
Eyes downcast, she would see the reflection of His
smile as His words of soft praise filled her mind...
Meek and mild, gentle as a lamb, she would feel the
radiance of His Love wash over her soul...
Seeking only His praise, she would bend and sway
with the Winds of Fate, chosen by Him...
Striving to grow and change, flourishing in His guidance, accepting His commands, she will sprout wings and fly...
His touch the joy that gives her flight
His breath the wind upon which she soars...
This is Written...
Never undone...
Know these things for Truth...
And it was written that He would not
be blind to her faults and failings...
Forever honest in His desire to shape
her to His own Perfection...
He would be iron of will and unbreakable
of purpose, clad in His resolve...
Steadfast, never wavering in His conviction
He would close His fist in admonishment...
His punishment swift and severe, He
closes His own pain away...
His tears forever unshed as He wails within His
heart at her cries rending the silence asunder...
And it was written that she would forever
seek to please and obey Him...
Consumed by her purpose, always to grow
and change at His direction...
Honest with herself, and most of all with Him,
she would know and admit of her failures...
Seeking not to avoid His retribution, she would
instead accept and cherish His gift...
Never to slip into despair, she would know and
be aware of His hurt, hundredfold of her own...
Begging on bended knees His forgiveness, she
would willingly, yea, even eagerly, accept His
correction...
Shedding her tears, crying out her pain and anguish, she would feel His loving touch in every stroke of the
whip...
This is Written...
Never undone...
Know these things for Truth..
And it was written that He would be wise
and intelligent, knowledgeable in the ways of the
world...
Forever seeking to grow and learn
maintaining His trust and responsibility...
Granting to her the answers she seeks
always curious to learn...
He would foremost forever seek to learn
about Himself, His wants and needs...
He would listen, and seek the answers to His
own questions, learning how best to care for her...
Given freely, of herself, to His care, belonging
to Him, He would know all of her, as well...
And it was written that she would be forever
curious and innocent, in the manner of a child...
To grow and learn, she would be
unafraid to ask questions of Him...
Secure in her belief and strong in her faith
that He, her Lord, would answer...
Truthfully and willingly granting to her that
most sought-after of prizes: the prize of Knowledge...
In her devotion, she would seek to learn
of Him, His every desire her very life...
Quick to ask of His wants and needs
she would listen and dutifully obey...
Forever learning anew of Him and herself
her curiosity unbounded, never ceases...
This is Written...
Never undone...
Know these things for Truth...
And it was written that He would accept
her unto Himself, bound body and soul for Eternity...
Giving of His life and Love to her, He would
take her burdens upon His own shoulders...
Releasing her so that she might grow
and stand tall, proud to serve Him...
And He would know Trust, both
given and received...
Forever to be the beginning and the ending,
both the Alpha and the Omega of her soul...
He would cherish her for who she is, binding
His Soul to hers, two made One...
And it was written that she would give
herself unto Him, bound body and soul for Eternity...
Taking of His life and Love to her, willing giving
herself over to His unbridled bondage...
Belonging to Him and Him alone
she would know peace and joy...
Finding happiness Eternal in the warmth
and comfort of His arms...
Knowing serenity, she would kneel
at His feet with downcast eyes...
Accepting the long-desired chains of submission
she would find freedom at last...
And she would cherish Him for who He is, binding
her soul to His, two made One...
This is Written...
Never undone...
Know these things for Truth.
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~*~ I am a submissive woman. I find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive to another in a loving relationship. I am not weak, or stupid. I am a strong woman, with firm views and a clear concept of what I want out of my life. I do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength.
~*~ I look to find a loving Master for guidance and protection, for never am I more than when he is with me. I know that he will protect my body, my mind, and my soul with his strength and wisdom. He is everything to me, as I am everything to him. His touch awakens me and his thoughts free me. Only in serving him do I find complete freedom and joy.
~*~His punishments may at times be harsh, but I accept them thankfully, knowing that he has my best interests always foremost in his mind. He desires my body for pleasure, I shall joyfully give it to him, and take pleasure myself from knowing that I have brought him happiness. However, the pleasure of the flesh is but one facet of any relationship. The love, trust, and sharing, the words spoken and felt, those are all parts of this relationship.
~*~ My body is his, and if he says I am beautiful, then I am. No matter what I look like to others, I am beautiful in his eyes, and because of that I hold my head high... for who can tell me that my Master is wrong in seeing the beauty in me? If he says I am his princess, then I am that.. regal and graceful, and if I see laughter at me in the eyes of others, I do not recognize it, for who are they to call my Master wrong??
~*~If he says I am his toy, his slut, his tramp, then I am that... as wanton and lustful as he wants me to be, and if others do not see this then it is they who are blind, not my Master.
~*~ My mind is his, to expand, to explore, to know as only he can. I have no secrets from him... for secrets are a thing that would keep me from brings more perfectly his. Secrets would put a wall up between my Master and myself ... and Ido not want walls. His lessons are not always ones I would seek on my own, but they are lessons he has decided I need, and so I learn from him.
~*~ My soul is his, as bare to his touch as ever my skin could be when I kneel naked at his feet. Never a moment goes by when I do not feel his presence, be he miles away or standing over me. If I were to ever displease him, his displeasure would be a blow to my soul, worse punishment than lashes could be. The anguish of my soul that I feel when I disappoint him is harder to bear than the physical anguish when I feel his crop caresses me with fire.
~*~I spend my days knowing that the energy and thought he puts into our relationship is as much for my benefit as for his, and look forward to each lovingly crafted scene we do together. His part is much harder than mine, and I know this and am grateful that he cars enough about me to spend his time and energy so freely on me. I have the easier job, to feel, to experience, to let myself go and abandon everything to him.
~*~ I am his pleasure and his responsibility, and he takes both seriously. I am a submissive woman. I am proud to call myself that. My submission is a gift that I do not give lightly, and can only be given to one who can appreciate that gift and return it tenfold. Only to he who has that strength will I give myself fully, because I am strong and proud. I am a submissive woman.
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For those of you with inquiring minds, my screen name, mrcuddles, was adopted because cuddling is one of my favorite activities!! |
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I am a true believer that a Master has the responsibility to help his submissive or slave to become not only the best sub/slave that she can be, but also the very best person. Striving for perfection is the real never ending journey. Sometimes it is extremely difficult, but the rewards are magnificent. Are you willing to put forth the effort? |
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The True Meaning Of Master
A man who displays sensitivity will be a Master who is sensitive to you.
A man displays humility will be a Master who will show your respect.
A man who is not afraid to cry will be a Master who understands your tears.
A man who is quiet will be a Master who will hear your quietest whisper.
A man who knows fear will be a Master who will not leave you to face yours alone.
A man who will listen to a child will be a Master who will always work to understand your words.
A man who can stand alone will be a Master who will not crush you under His weight or pride.
A Man who controls Himself with ease will be a Master with the ability to control you in the same way.
A man who does not have to prove His point will be a Master with many worthwhile points to share.
A man who never makes demands will be a Master who treasures anything you give.
A Man who doesn't run after you will be a Master you will never need to run away from.
A Man who is calm will be a Master who can weather your storms.
A Man who does not shout will be a Master who will never deafen you.
A man who knows Himself will be a Master who will have time to know you.
A man with an open mind will be a Master who never stops learning.
A man who takes the time to know and understand your wants and needs and desires and helps you to fulfill them is a Master who will not leave you wanting.
A man who never stops learning will be a master who never stops growing.
A man who overlooks his flaws will be the Master who will overlook yours so you can share souls.
A man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only man truly worthy of being called Master.
A man who inspires you to always be the best you can be is the only Master you shall ever want or need.
A true submissive
Listens to her heart
Listens to her Master
Listens to her soul.
A true submissive
Seeks to be lead
Seeks to be taught
Seeks to be instructed.
A true submisive
Desires to please
Desires to be loved
Desires to be treasured.
A true submissive
Needs to give
Needs to kneel
Needs to follow.
A true submissive
Cries with her Master,
Cries for her Master,
Cries from the joy of love.
A true submissive
Is not a door mat
Is not a barbie doll
Is not a trophy.
A true submissive
Is never to be abused
Is never to be taken for granted
Is never to be harmed.
A true submissive
Is a lady
Is a lover.
Is a best friend.
A true submissive
Is always treasured
Is always honored
Is always respected
Whether in a satin gown
Whether naked in your collar
Whether vibrant
Whether ailing
Whether happy
Whether sad
Whether smiling
Whether crying
She is and always will be His true submissive. |
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| Age: 20 |
| Edmonton,
Canada |
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