MrBeardedWonder

Male Dominant, 50, Arlington, Virginia

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Male Dominant, 20, New South Wales

Went to my first Rope Bite event. It was amazing! I'm hooked. Buying rope, learning holds, and hopefully finding a willing model soon. I am very excited about this leg of my journey!

My beard and I have had a discussion. And we have decided he is interested in learning about being switch. I will be protecting him on his journey to self discovery. If you would like to know more here is a link to his profile. http://www.collarspace.com/personals/v/2639110/details.htm Or you can search MBWsBEARD on CS. Thank you for your support on this journey.

"It doesn?t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for ? and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart?s longing. It doesn?t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool ? for love ? for your dreams ? for the adventure of being alive." -Oriah Mountain Dreamer

Just because we may end up doing weird stuff to each other down the road, doesn't mean we can't have fun, be respectful, and try to have positive experience overall.

I need to ease up. Take a breath. I am admittedly new to all this. It is extremely exciting. As I talk to some wonderful ladies and approach my first explicit encounter, my excitement is only building! Which fuels a fire, a desire in me to learn more about this stuff and why it makes me feel this way. That is a double edged sword. My eagerness and passion can be mistaken as me being pushy or overbearing. I am trying to correct this. I understand I am on here a lot. I understand that it may look weird that I like a lot of profiles. I try to make friends. I will always only send respectful messages. I won't get mad or upset if you don't respond. I may send another message. Hopefully its more charming than the last. I hate seeing all the stories of men lashing out at women because they aren't getting the attention they want. That's not me. And I don't like being lumped in with these men because I am simply attempting to date online. It's hard to make connections when everyone seems so guarded. And I understand that. It is smart to be guarded meeting people online. Especially judging from some of the stories I see women posting. I am optimistic! I have had some very nice conversations with some women from this site. And I am making some cool connections. I plan to keep plugging away. Being the nice guy Ying, to the internet asshole Yang, until I find someone who takes my attention away from dating. Heads up ladies I'm sure I am no the only good guy on here. If you think about it though, post about some of the nice things men have done for you from this site. Maybe you weren't feeling good one day and a random message telling you your beautiful made your day! Let's spread some positivity on these boards/journals!

Impulse thought: "Controlling someones mind with your thoughts is amazing. Controlling someones heart with your passion is devine." I have not flushed out this thought at all. I am kinda trying it on for size, so to speak. Any thoughts?

I was reading an article that says all men are dominant and all women are submissive by nature. And the article uses that as justifucation for saying ant woman can be made into a slave. Hey look I just started looking into this part of myself recently. And I am calling bullshit on that. I know submissive men. I used to be interested in being one. When I felt responsible for the people working for me in a small business I helped build for 13 years. All the stress of making important decisions that effect people jobs, peoples property, and our reputation as a business. I would have loved to feel like giving up control to a woman I could trust. Now because of the control I feel I have lost, I am exploring my dominant side. And I am fully enjoying learning and eploring this side of intimacy. I have made some woman friends on Fet that are extremely dominant by nature. And are in full control of exploring their submissive sides. People change depending on their circumstances. That is the beautiful thing about people is how diverse we are. I typed this out on my phone so i hope y'all get what I trying to say.

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