As for me, I discovered kink and BDSM by ?accident? in April, and although it is a new lifestyle for me, I am learning new things everyday, and everyday I am more comfortable and confident that this is my path to self-enlightenment.? I consider myself to be more of a bottom than a slave, and am most interested in the mental, power and control aspects of BDSM.? I like being pushed out of my comfort zone, although I have a few limits on some extreme activities.

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I am interested in developing a relationship with a couple or a man that is ongoing and contains and emotional component, however I am open to just play as well, but my goal is something more ongoing.? Ideally, someday I could develop a live-in situation with a poly family, but that's obviously way down the road, so don't let that scare you off:)

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Outside of the bedroom, I am an independent woman, working full-time and finishing my college degree.? I am not interested in people who talk down to me or treat me poorly outside of play.? I want someone who can be strong, controlling, rough, and tough, yet in an instant can turn sweet, gentle, calm, and caring.? That unpredictability is the sexiest part of BDSM for me. I need someone who can seperate the actions during play from the actions of real life.

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Being that all we know of each other is online, photos are important, since mutual attraction is a must, and I am always willing to send more to a personal email address if we are both intersted in one another. So if you want to say hi and think we have a lot in common, take the leap:)

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