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Looking for friends, and like minded people. All journeys begin with the first step. The step of friends is where it must begin for me. After that door is actually opened, who knows how far things can really go?
I am not perfect, so please don't expect me to be. I am a work in progress. My interests are many and varied. Do not mistake my kindness for weakness as many try and do. Before one can assign any title to anyone, one must realize we are all human beings.
I don't cyber, nor do the online thing. I crave real time in person, as life truly is upfront and in your face.
This is only a tool to meet people, not what relationships are based on. Much like many other things because you know the terms, doesn't make you an expert. Please know what drives you. Know your why. It will take you farther than you ever dreamed, by being in touch with yourself. Chat on here doesn't work for me. Pictures are available after trust is established.
5/31/2013 3:45:20 PM

I know we all come here for our own reasons, but the funny ones to me are the ones who swear they are just here for friends because they have someone in their lives or they aren't looking for anyone in the lives right now and they are then here more then when they were looking. Is it just me or do others see the irony in that as well?

6/26/2012 6:41:08 PM

why on earth do people have to lie?

3/30/2012 8:41:07 AM

As you hold my heart in your hand, realize if you squeeze too hard those blooms just starting to open will be crushed...

12/10/2011 7:11:19 PM

If you don't understand something please ask for clarification. Its a simple way to avoid misunderstandings.

I write for a living...lol and this is the only place I have ever had people not understanding what it is I want or mean. Is it that hard to take people straight up at face value? I fully understand that many on here say one thing and want another, or haven't truly decided what they want, or explored enough to know what they want, but is it that hard to say that?

12/4/2011 7:15:14 PM

Isn't the Internet a wonderful place? Is it not great how people forget, what they put out there? Invite you to join them on another site and all of sudden, everything they told you about themselves, isn't true or a lie? Got to love it.

5/1/2011 9:49:51 PM

Very surprised by what i see in profiles here. Has tolerance jumped out the window? Can people not have respect for others anymore? Is this lifestyle not subject to interpretation? Having been raised in it/ around it, only makes me see more and more that it is. All the profiles, that want a no limits slave, all the slaves declaring they are no limits slaves... is their truly such a thing? Would you KILL for that Master/Mistress? hmmm. possibly a limit.  Of course people have limits. Its human nature.

8/6/2010 11:57:07 AM
It amazes me still how much a hello, or a picture can tell a person if they are interested or not... when they never read the profile. One really has to love it.
I think the human race has forgotten how to truly interact without the ability to hide behind a computer, cell phone, or Ipod. What has happened to human interaction?
3/2/2010 8:45:41 AM
Okay so we have agreed to meet. Its been an extremely long time in coming. The meeting is still a few days out. I haven't heard from you since. Then the big day comes and the only call i get is restricted, which my phone is set up to not even allow through. It does give you the option of allowing you to make your number viewed. Which for what ever your reason may be, you do not do. Do you think i'd be that big a fool to meet someone i have no contact information on in today's world? You claim to be a Master, wanting property. That still doesn't give you the right to not be forthcoming to me. What is it you are hiding? Would i even walk away with my life, if i did meet you? What do i have? An internet name?
This happened not to me, but a very dear friend. Myself and other friends had to almost put her into bondage to keep her from going to meet this guy. She was so drawn in. People please i beg you, trust your instincts. Follow common sense. Use safecalls. Get your information upfront. I am grateful we could prevent this lady from harm which i am sure would have came had she went through with this meeting. Desires are strong, but wait until its right. Only one reason i can see one would not give someone this information and its for harm. No good ever comes out of a meeting with no information.
11/28/2009 6:03:18 AM
I don't understand what this laundry list of do's and do not's help one accomplish on here. Where is the respect, on both sides? Its been a long time since I have seen any on here.
As well as sticking to your word... if you say you want something, please be ready to receive it when/if its offered to you. Be careful what you wish for ...
5/24/2009 10:01:10 AM
How is it that so many forget? A simple picture, a gesture,telling someone of a dream, all can be such wonderful profound things until a person realizes they have seen them before, or they have heard them before. If you know or suspect that simply tell the truth... lying doesn't help it....things like that always come out in the end.
4/15/2009 3:37:29 PM
IF the moth allows the flame to consume it, is there anything left to rise out of the ashes?
4/11/2009 8:01:53 AM
Do vultures come here? to attack their prey in such unflattering ways? Has simple respect really gone out the window? On a site where people should be able to embrace their differences, as this whole site is supposedly about people whom like different than the normal, why must people be so critical of others? I know i cannot change the world, but tolerance really has to start somewhere.
3/7/2009 7:35:42 PM
a long time ago someone once told me told beware the flame, little moth, which is where this screen name came from. Tonight i had someone tell me to stop scaring people away... am i really that scary? or is it more as people have pointed out to me to be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it.
I don't believe in hate, just because someone isn't right for you doesn't make them not right for the next person... its not about people being fake. People inspire other people, you just may not be the right person to open them up to inspire them to open up to you. It seems like many things in life, the grass isn't aways greener on the other side.
3/6/2009 6:06:38 PM
"you are a slave to your own desires not to me, i'm just the person who turns your desires into reality"
3/5/2009 5:58:17 AM
I am not perfect, but i do try to always be polite to everyone. but please if you cannot follow your word, do not talk to me. Don't ask me for something, and then not follow through. I know common sense disappeared a long time ago but did the Golden Rule go with it?
2/27/2009 9:03:11 AM
It never ceases to amaze me the things i come across on this site. Does anyone take time to read what they put out on here? Or does one just gawk through the pictures without reading? Since i haven't any on here does that make me less appealing? A picture is only a 2 dimensional replication of what i look like at the particular time it was snapped. A picture cannot tell you a thing beyond the physical about me, and i have expressive eyes. Why would someone not take the time and invest it in the person, not their picture?
10/7/2008 9:58:11 AM
Why is it that YOU have the ability to wipe all the emotions out of me with just a glance? Where did you come from? So quickly like a storm that sweeps in...one feels the change in the air...and then your touch. It replaces all those emotions you wiped out and leaves me hungering for more.
Now that i know what it can be there is just this constant hunger, this constant ache, to be a part of you.
One can only hope that with time you will realize all i am and can offer to you so  freely.
Will you be the man i see you as, and take all that for yours?
danavslut323
 
 Age: 21
 London Ontario, Canada