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Mature & confident. In excellent athletic shape. Well educated.
I am dom and bi - I am seeking the one person whose passions are the perfect compliments to mine. I don't care what gender that person was born as, but the girl who matches my dreams must be passionate about being a woman (or at least, a girl) and enjoy exploiting the strengths that come from beauty. (I sometimes find it sad that only those who work to get something truely value it.)
I prefer a sub or slave who is capable of developing as a woman for me. I live an artistic lifestyle and need someone who accepts a creative approach to defining themselves. I am not insane, I seek someone I can VALUE - not someone to defeat... but the woman devoted to me will be open to ongoing change and exploration (both personal and social).
I NEED to get to know you first; I am seeking my soulmate. I have met for fun in the past, but I am here for a real relationship.
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READ MY JOURNAL BEFORE CONTACTING ME
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I work for an old-school govt organization; I will therefore never post a pic of myself until you introduce yourself.
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Thanks to all who've contacted me. (Although the numbers have dropped off since removing my public photo...That decision will be revisited once I have some non-identifying shots)
I regret that I simply don't have time to detail my goals from scratch for each new contact. Unfortunate, since I've enjoyed exchanges with some who ultimately weren't good matches for me.
Please consider the details in my journal before introducing yourself. I only want contact if you see yourself in the role I have planned:
I am selecting a 24/7 subserviant - call it a slave if you wish, but someone who's full-time purpose is to serve my needs. This does NOT imply that I am the only one with needs; I will take care of the needs of my servant.
You must have an obediant nature. I will discipline if neccessary, but I have no interest in breaking someone's true will. I'm not looking for someone to change, I'm looking for the right person to help grow.
I have a safe, comfortable home. I am not a sadist. The subservient who lives with me will be cared for as I care for myself.
If you still want to get to know me, send a note and tell me about your life - what's missing and what you love. |
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It seems that one of my characteristics is a dealbreaker for many - so up front: I have bottomed and certainly will in scenes again... but not in my primary relationship.
if you are concerned that I am not a "real" top because I can choose to bottom then you may not understand the role of relationships in Ds.
To clarify, I am here NOT to find scenes, but to find my primary relationship. The sub who I can dedicate myself to will be capable of commanding the world around her, but will choose to accept my command. |
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It's time I finally get some details in here so that you can self-filter a bit.
Please, no more msgs from gay men.
(pre-existing friends excepted)
and Please no helpless damsels waiting for someone to do everything for them.
I don't have time to respond to everyone & I'm basically only here to find people with matching drives to my own. This means only those who seek a 24/7 permanent position of servitude.
The requirements I have which may make you re-consider:
1. I must get to know you first.
This means you must get to know me first. I am not looking for hook-ups. I will not bring someone to me until I feel a love for them.
2. This leads to you moving to where I am.
There are no other options. If you won't ever be able to leave your situation, then we don't need each other.
3. You must be capable.
Helpless bimbos please leave me alone. I don't mind if you lack a degree, only speak one language, or have never been to a ballet, but I have no time for someone who isn't willing to learn. Even better if you enrich my life with your own joie de vivre.
4. You must be adaptable.
You must be capable of becoming interested in things. If I need you to get your pilot's license, you must be able to immerse yourself in the new subject. If neccessary, I can micromanage at times, but primarily, you must act independently.
5. You must be obedient.
If I tell you to do something, you must withhold all doubt. This does not mean you don't think - I simply expect devotion enough that you can let the decision be mine. I may ask your thoughts later, but when I direct, you follow.
6. You must strive for beauty.
Attention to your appearance is a dedication to me. We won't even be talking if I do not find you beautiful; I would expect that you respect me enough to maintain that asset. I work out in part to provide masculine beauty in my companion's life - I need feminine beauty in mine.
7. You will need confidence in your role.
When I know have found you, I will be devoted to you. You must be able to accept that unconditionally. You may need to defend our relationship to others or trust that my distractions do not diminish my love.
I want my lifetime relationship to be a very specific one and I am looking for someone who seeks the other half of that relationship.
I have a good career, I need someone who considers supporting my needs to be their career. If you have a outside job, it can not conflict with that occcupation.
If you made it to the end of this then I already admire your patience. Send me a note introducing yourself. If you include a picture of yourself, I will certainly reciprocate. |
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