Morikvendi

Friendly Warning: This is a long text. Get some drinks.

About me
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I will begin by saying that I am a Gemini.

Not that I have any particular interest in astrology, really. To be honest I am more into astronomy and stargazing than daily horoscopes, but by saying that I am a Gemini I am preparing you, dear readers of these lines, for some duality and conflicting thoughts.

Still reading? Ok.

Professionally, I am an IT specialist. Technology is my thing, but only as means to an end. I would never put technology before humanity. As much as I love working on a computer, I also love to go walking, biking, camping, barbecuing, hiking, bdsming...

Personally, I am a very open, communicative person on and off the internet. I love meeting new people, talking with them, exploring diverse viewpoints. I am curious by nature, I love learning new things and I cherish all of my experiences, good and bad. I had fair share of both and they made me who I am today. Oh, and I am a realistic hedonist. "Enjoy life as much as it is realistically possible".

Sexually, I think I could call myself a "sexual submissive". I have found that definition on the "internets" long time ago and, upon reading, I kind of recognized myself in it. Feel free to read it in my Journal if you are curious about it.

I am not going to talk about any particulars or specifics regarding my sexuality, you can easily see all that in my profile. I might just add that even though I have selected my likes and dislikes, I tend to be open to trying out things at least once before forming a stance or an opinion about them.


What can I offer?
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Before anything else - Friendship.
I am a strong believer that friendship is ground base for everything else. I can't imagine being a boyfriend without being a friend, a husband without being a boyfriend (see the logic here?), etc... The same goes for BDSM. I see BDSM relationship as a "vanilla" relationship with more depth, expanded borders and additional flavors. It must have the same common grounds with vanilla relationship, only we in BDSM world get to have more fun!
:)

Communication.
If you can't talk with me and if I can't talk with you, then how are we going to work it all out? Ordering around and obeying orders goes as far, but you can't have a healthy relationship without communication.

Support.
Any kind of support that I would provide to any and all of my friends, and then some. Support is non-specific thing in my case. It can be hearing your troubles and offering my help, giving you a hug after a long and stressful day or a kick in the butt when you start being lazy. I am not looking for financial submission, but that does not mean that I wouldn't enjoy buying you a beautiful dress or a new flogger, like any gentleman would for his Lady.

Trust.
Last but definitely not the least. Trust is ESSENTIAL. I do not, repeat DO NOT, believe a person saying "I love you" and at the same time not trusting me. Been there, done that. Thank you very much.

That being said, I am monogamous. Always been, probably always will be. It goes well with the way I was brought up in combination with my hedonistic nature (keeping things simple). If it doesn't work with one person, end it and find another one. Again, that is just me; maybe I lack the capacity of having more than one partner, who knows. I'm fine with having one and giving my full attention and devotion to that person, expecting the same in return.

Fun.
Oh, I love fun. I love to experience fun in all of its forms. Life without fun is, well, no fun.

Submission.
"My dear Watson, you have always had a gift for stating the obvious."
- Sherlock Holmes


What am I looking for ?
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whip me mistress, crush me wit ur heelz and make me skvirm like a worthles worm dat im. mistress? hello?

Just kidding.

:)

Really, what am I looking for?

Theoretically - everything, actually. I want it all. I am looking for exactly the same thing as I am offering, except submission. I don't know how that would work out, with two submissives. Then again, stranger things have happened...

[ Following part is slighlty changed for clarification after a long talk with myself ]

Fantasy:

I am a Knight looking for my special Lady, someone to fight for and die for, who will be my inspiration, my strength and my weakness.
I am a King looking for my Queen. Leader of men, ruler of my realm, finding my peace, comfort and guidance in the realm of my Queen.
I am an Adventurer, freedom fighter and man of many roads, looking for a companion to keep me on the leash so that I don't lose myself.

Reality:

I know that the following section will deter a vast majority of Ladies who might be reading this, but that is reality and I am trying to save everyone's time.

I am not quite sure what I am looking for. I think it starts with online friendship, then it might hopefully develop into a relationship. Now, here is something I am a bit reluctant to say since I do not wish to offend anyone, but for that friendship to be able to progress into a real life relationship, You my dear Lady reader cannot be more than two or three years older than me. It is not because I have doubts in possibility to find a soulmate and enjoy immensely the company of a Lady ten years older than me, but because I would also like to have kids with my partner at some point. And as much as I try not to think about it, that point is approaching. I'm not getting any younger.

What kind of real life relationship would that be? It will depend on Her, me and circumstances. Ideally, I think it would look a like a vanilla relationship but with D/s elements to a certain extent.

What extent? I don't know, I'm new to this, remember. :)
Anything is possible...


Conclusion

Well, congratulations to all of you who made it all the way here, to the end of this long story. I did my best to bring out enough reasons to be avoided, but that will only help you to save time and continue looking for your ideal someone, while I can hope that there is that One who will read all this and say:

"...,.!"

Salute,