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I am a demanding, articulate, creative and sensual domme, looking for….an equal partner. A man who is confident, intelligent, honest, caring, loyal, drama free, has a great sense of humor and realizes that a D/s relationship is a 50/50 prospect. I know that the power exchange swings in my favor, just that, when you get down to it, the Dominant (me) cannot take unless the submissive gives….and for that to occur, the underlying relationship must be equivalent.
About Me PLEASE READ CAREFULLY
You MUST message me before you attempt to add me as a friend.
If you want to talk to me, have the common decency to have a picture on your profile, one that is not of your cock.
Also, I'm a Domme, not a whore. I'm no one's cumslut.
If you do not live full time in the Kansas City metropolitan area or within a reasonable distance, do not contact me, unless we've met and agreed on it!
If you only want to chat and talk dirty, move it on down the road.
If what you are looking for is a true Domme, with experience and you are wanting a real D/s relationship, then we might have a start.
What I look like: Average height, curvy, short brown hair, casual dress, mature (41), a stern expression, big smile.
My personality: Tough exterior, sweet nature, endlessly curious about people. I like adventures, all sorts of music, rebel souls, I also tend to laugh at stupid jokes.
Former subs say: They feel safe with me, That my presence is calming and I inspire confidence. I've also been told I have a very naughty and flirty energy.
I’m NOT one of those deadly serious Dominatrix types, I'm serious about what i do, but I like to have fun and giggle.
What I Look for:
Men are welcome. What I ask of you is a genuine interest in kinkiness and a joy in exploration.
I have reservations about women, so you must be something I find exceptional.
Whether you are a complete beginner or some one wishing to have their limits pushed, I offer a safe pair of hands and a wicked imagination to take you there.
Fetish specialities: Domination, power dynamics, role plays, fetishism and sensation play.
Curiositites: S&M. I seriously would love to explore my darker side. I know it's there, every once in awhile it rears it's head. Seriously? I have a real dark side that most people don't get/want to see. Do you want me to walk you through the shadow lands? Do you wish to go where I can take you? Do you trust me to walk you through and past your fears? No? Tough shit bitch, I'll do it anyway. Don't like it? Fuck you. I'll push you through and past it. You'll either come away a stronger person, or a quivering bitch.
Aren't you grateful I merely list it as a curiosity?
Dislikes: Liars and game players. Do not approach me unless you are serious about getting to know me. Whether we work out or not, or even get past the first meeting is one thing, but playing games beforehand and being disrespectful, will get you booted.
I have age issues. You have to be over 18 and under 45. You must be self sufficient, and be free of relationship "complications" such as a wife, or girlfriend or what have you, who doesn't know about your kinks. Do not approach me looking for a causal hook up, or booty call. I am polyamorous, not polyfuckerous. My time is valuable and I do not appreciate game players. Understand that developing a D/s relationship is, at first almost like vanilla dating. Don't make it harder on yourself by lying. Those are my rules and as the dominant, I do not expect them to be challenged.
Your boundaries as a sub, will be equally respected. After all, your safety, security and well being are very important to me.
Tell me what things you’d like to explore. Let me see how far you need to go and take you to the edge. I will demand your full, obedient attention.
Along that vein, be real. Be honest. And be willing to meet within the next week for coffee and initial conversation.
CONTINUE READING! IT IS IN YOUR BEST INTEREST!
I am a Domme. As such I have a strict protocol that must be followed. A brief outline then a timeline is as follows:
A. No sex with me ever. You do not get to touch my breasts or my genitalia. The only time I will touch your penis and or balls is when I am binding them, caning them, or inducing CBT.
B. You are celibate while in my service. Completely. No girlfriends, no boyfriends, no masturbation.
C. You will experience boundary pushing sensory play from extreme bondage to extreme flogging and caning.
D. You will be used as a pincushion for needle play.
E. You will be whatever I wish you to be.
timeline
1. We meet. In public, with my security team in place.
2. Repeat step 1 until I am comfortable in your presence.
2b. You sign a contract with me for 6 months to 1 year of study. This will include a list of our mutal hard limits.
3. You attend study classes that I present.
3a. You will attend public functions with me. Being ever silent and not speaking unless I give you permission.
4. You attend all learning activities I assign you.
4a You will remain celibate. I will know if you haven't and I will drop you and blackball you to the other dommes I associate with.
5. After approximately 6 months of steps 1-4, then we move on to our first session. Terms of the session will be discussed beforehand.
6. After the session is complete, we take a few days to reflect on it. At that time, we meet in public for coffee. At that time we discuss the good, the bad and the hard limits. I also decide whether or not to pursue you as a potential full time submissive.
7. We attend monthly dungeon activities at a local private dungeon.
8. We pursue all of the above for one year. At the end of which, I either release you from your contract or we mutually agree to continue the contract with you in a provisional collar.
9. After 18 months, provisional collar is changed to permanent, should all parties be amenable to that.
My husband is in complete awares of my activities, I am outfitted with state of the art GPS tracking and I have a professional security detail. I feel I must tell you this ahead of time as I have had issues with stalkers in the past.
Should you be amenable to these terms, my first interview opening is the second weekend in April.
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