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Male Dominant, 45, Centreville, Virginia
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About monk44
I am looking for a slave who is ready to be owned, and probably craves to be owned, feels it as a need.
I read from another user's profile (a female slave): "A slave is one who is owned by another as property and is completely subject to their will." At least as an ideal, it is simple and easy to state.
Ownership, as I understand it, is something obviously more extreme, but also a lot simpler and potentially more harmonious than the modern dance that many people with dominant/submissive interests do.
If you want to call yourself a slave, here's what that means in my book: You are property. You can choose whom you will serve, there could be limits agreed to, and there are certain things you can reasonably expect. But, once owned, your purpose and value to your owner comes from your ability to submit, serve, and obey.
As my slave, you would be expected and disciplined to meet a high standard of service, and as for submission and obedience, the standard would be a simple 100%.
There can be love, acceptance, and understanding for a slave, and those things are not hard for me to give. There can also be pleasure, excitement, adventure, certainly passion, and most importantly fulfillment. But other than any agreed-upon limitations (which should be few, if any) there would be no compromise on your status. When your owner decides to set expectations, use you, discipline you, confine you, limit your privileges, or put you through humiliating experiences, there is no avoiding those things. Those are the among the joys of ownership, and they can't be denied. If you resist, you will be disciplined and broken, or you will be simply dismissed.
There is nothing wrong with someone wanting to explore submission within the context of an otherwise "normal" or basically equal relationship. I have had those relationships at times in the past, and enjoyed them, and I certainly understand all the layers of "safe, sane, and consensual," negotiation, communication, limits, safewords, exploring mutual interests, etc.
But that isn't really ownership. Ownership is an unequal relationship, where serving and pleasing someone else become your sworn responsibility, and you getting what you want (other than the fulfillment of being in your proper place in the world) is a privilege which may be desired or earned at times, but it isn't an expectation or a right.
I will invest time, attention, and energy in your training, in making you all I want you to be, and in allowing you some room to be who you are and to grow. I wouldn't expect a lifelong commitment from you to begin with, though I might accept/demand it from you at some point in time.
I am a caring person, and I wouldn't wish to impose this kind of relationship on any woman except one who really desires it and it suited to it. But if that is your desire, then I hope I would prove to be the best owner you could find to give yourself to.
I have met dominants who seem to seek master-slave relationships because they have a hard time relating in any other way, i.e. maintaining normal boundaries, respecting others' autonomy, acting cooperatively, etc. I don't think that would apply to me; In fact I am capable of cooperating, of following as well as leading when it is appropriate to do so, and of having and maintaining those more "normal" types of relationships. But in a master-slave relationship, driven by mutual desire, we step into a different reality, where you will surrender any expectation to those normal boundaries... in the hope of finding peace, passion, and contentment in the process.
You can be loved as a slave, and love will be part of what binds you to me and removes your defenses. If you are a good slave, then you will be respected and valued for what you are. Commit yourself, offer yourself as an object, a possession, a servant. Master |
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While I respect you, I'm on top, always. Master |
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Open your eyes to new horizons and the growth you will see will keep you more focused on a rich path. Tao |
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