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Male Dominant, 36, FLINT, Michigan
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Male Submissive, 43
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About MoldedMind
Hi! Right off the bat, I'm in a committed relationship with a wonderful woman and am mostly here to learn and make friends, and chat with like-minded people. This seems like an interesting place to discuss the dynamics of power exchange, and I look forward to hearing from you if you have any comments or just want to say "hi."
My main interest is, always has been, and always will be, hypnosis and mind control. On a slightly more prosaic and practical level, operant conditioning and being gradually molded to a lover's desire. The psychological aspect to it, the feeling of control being taken away at its most fundamental level, is incredibly erotic and powerfully seductive to me. The intimacy of letting someone else into your mind when it's at its most vulnerable, trusting someone to "tweak" and condition you -- nothing else approaches it in my view. It's a kind of power exchange that has nothing to do with scening or props or protocol... simply the act of one mind allowing another to enter places once thought purely private, insert or remove things as needed, and once everything is properly calibrated... begin calling the shots. :)
That urge is pretty ingrained in me and has been since young childhood. When it comes to integrating any somewhat abnormal kink with the requirements of real life and real relationships, it's ends up being an interesting balancing act. Like any community that really only exists because of powerful sexual desires, I figure that most people here are somewhat swept away by them. I don't say that insultingly, since sex is a very important part of life and it's up to everyone to figure out how much of their lives they want to devote to scratching that particular itch. At the same time, I've heard more than one dominant woman write about how odd it is that vanilla men can often seem more chivalrous, more giving, and more selfless than self-described submissives. That ought to be some food for thought about what the nature of this thing is all about. The idea of submission being a burden to someone else instead of a benefit is... off, I think. If someone showed up at my door begging to do anything I wanted, I'd probably find it just a tad weird. To me, submission should be deeply emotional, and self-denial ought to mean more than chastity. Giving yourself to someone means *real* prioritization of them, and developing a true understanding their full spectrum of emotions.... and then devoting your life to helping them to glow more brightly.
At least, that's the melodramatic and soap-boxy way to put it. :) I guess the point is, I'm interested in people who live a kinky life but manage to have a full and joyful and healthy one as well. I'll probably add more here later on. Thanks for dropping by my neck of the cm woods! |
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