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/14/07 Update
About Us: We are an extremely open-minded, non-judgmental, intelligent, creative couple in a peaceful, loving marriage. Our desire to find a third is not a whimsical fantasy, but a well thought out plan that we believe will add to our already very fulfilling lives. Ideally, we want a third person to join us as an integral part of our family – not just a dungeon slave. That said, we can offer a home to a compatible woman or full-time TG/TS without the commitment of forever until we’ve all had a reasonable amount of time to decide if we’re 24/7 forever compatible. He is Dom,striaght she is sub. He is 60, 6'4, 225lb... she is 39, 5'3, curvy,bi .We are open-minded to an extreme.
Our Universe: We live for us, not for what society thinks of us. Our rules for living are that we do what is right for us – we don’t have to worry about hurting others because things that make us happy don’t hurt others. We expect our friends and family to be true to themselves and to understand that we will be true to ourselves. We don’t do well with petty drama and chaos – the Universe provides plenty of that without our coercion.
Our Lives: He is a retired business owner who is now a full-time artist/poet/dreamer working/playing from home. She is a teacher and attends school full-time working toward her PhD. Both of us are pursuing the paths that we were meant to follow. We are lucky enough to have been able to follow our dreams. Though we’ve experienced a few bumps in the road (and a few concrete pillars), we persist. We love to travel, meet new people, attend lifestyle events/parties/activities, host the same, and experience cultural events. More than anything, however, we enjoy having fun. We can laugh and joke even while we’re doing the most menial tasks. We play a lot, we tease a lot, we laugh a lot, we touch a lot, and we say ‘I love you’ a lot.
Who we’re looking for: Your personality is the most important asset you have. We can’t and won’t change that, but we can teach you most other things if necessary. You should be thoughtful, caring, and willing to learn. You should be open-minded and non-judgmental. Obviously, you must be willing to relocate. You can be a submissive, a slave, or a switch. Your duties will be mostly household in nature (cleaning, laundry, cooking, etc), but may also include filing, research, and art-business related tasks, depending on your skills and inclinations. Our home is large enough that you will have your own personal space (and time to use it). You must be mature – we don’t want another child, we want another mate (that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t play and love the child within you, it means that you should be capable of handling responsibility and understanding that any relationship requires selfless give as well as take).
Our Kink: We’re kinky folks. We like the edge – we like to hang right at the edge and even a little over sometimes, but we rarely fall off. We are willing to try just about anything that we haven’t already. The one word not in our vocabulary is “never.” We are all about stretching boundaries, expanding limits, claiming the taboo as our own.
Friends: We like meeting new friends and playmates. If we’re not what you’re looking for in a relationship or if you’re not what we’re looking for in a relationship - don’t hesitate to contact us just to meet and play with new folks in the lifestyle.
BDSM / D/s Life: We’ve both been in the lifestyle for most of our adult lives. We’ve been active members in our local club for about 5 years, as well as occasional participants in other clubs/socials as time and desire allow. We attend and host private parties
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