ModrenOldFashion

Modernly Old Fashion is a quick description. Or Old Fashion w/Modern day twist. Good man w/enough bad boy for fun.

Profiles are always a work in progress. A large part of the change in a profile is life experiences. My latest life lesson has increase my cynicism in all. Why can't people be honest? Honesty should be a cornerstone of this lifestyle. Also this latest event facilitates me to encourage anyone interested in anyone, to read a whole profile. Know that a profile is not the whole person but just the beginning of a person. Example; if a person doesn't have a specific interest listed it does not mean a person will or will not partake in a fetish or have knowledge of it. Actually, there are too many fetishes to acknowledge having a interest in.

I wanted to add that even though I'm interested in a LTR,,, I also plan to get involved with local clubs and possible play partners until a LTR comes along. Educating yourself in this lifestyle is the only way to be safe and understand what you are really looking for in a D/s, Master/Slave, BDSM relationship. I've learned that there is always something more to learn.


I've been told by a few life long subs that I'm a natural Dom. (what ever that means) Been told by Vanilla's, I'm too kind or patient with people. Oh well, I've always gone to the beat of my own drum. Not by what a book or others say. I'm kind of the family's brown sheep,, not quite black.

I'm interested in something that has a chance in becoming a permanent life long commitment. Honest open communication is a must! Most of us here have had past unfulfilled relationships. Acknowledgment of our preference for this lifestyle allows us a starting point for communication that vanilla people don't share. As long as we are honest! Hopefully our broken roads will lead us all to a life many of us thought would never happen.

We have to co-exist in a vanilla world but all aspects of a real life, 24/7, D/s lifestyle is what I'm looking for. Mentally, emotional, physically. The whole works. Living a D/s lifestyle in a vanilla world can be fun.

I think a Dom can't bring out all that a sub's gift is offering until they have a mental connection. A woman's mind is her most erotic part. (organ) Something most men forget. A lifestyle defined by what we want and that is right for us together. It is the only way LTRs can work. (vanilla & lifestyle) I prefer to dominate with a soft voice or a look. (but I'm adjustable) Not by what a book or others describe. Even when we are in a vanilla situation. A look from across a crowed room, a touch or a whisper on your neck and ear, a flower for no reason, OR a spanking for no reason, just to hear your moans and then to caress your sensitive bottom. These are just a few ways you'll feel that submissive fire that burns deep in you, flare up from being Dominated.

That sub fire is what makes you one of most exquisite rare women on Earth. Most living the lifestyle will agree that there is nothing better than being loved by a sub/slave woman. You spoil me & I'll spoil you. "Spoil" to me is not by money but with attention to what your need is for your sub fire. Just as you give attention to my need, to accept the responsibility of that sub fire. Witnessing and being a major part of making that fire deep inside you burn brighter and hotter than you thought possible.

Not one of us is perfect but by always working towards our goals and then resetting them, all within our choice of a lifestyle, is but one avenue to achieve what most of us are looking for... Someone to enjoy and share this life. With all the good and bad that comes with it. If we achieve the mental connection I'm looking for, we will make each other complete.

Don't think I'm a total romantic and all mushy,,, (I'm also a cynic) when a spanking is needed, I can sure do that. There's an old saying, "Don't take my kindness for weakness."

Be careful out there and good luck on finding what fits for you.

[Pic w/hat is 2004, w/beard 2006. (my biker period of life) I'm now at a weight some where in between and dropping. Also I'm clean shaved and short hair now. (made my mom happy) Thinking of letting it all grow back. Been told I look younger than my age. What ever that means.