mocomojo

Male Dominant, 41, Gaithersburg, Maryland

"Wickedness is a myth invented by good people to account for the curious attractiveness of others." [Oscar Wilde] "The sinfulness and wickedness of sex is based on the assumption that God doesn't like sex.This poison has its roots in Ancient Assyria, and the religions of Mythra and Zoroastrianism, which first put forth the idea of "the obscenity of the flesh." The sex drive, being one that cannot be denied, becomes a rich source of implanted guilt and shame, used to manipulate and degrade the individual. Therefore any sexual (natural) feelings need to be accompanied by shame, and therefore kept secret. Somehow this shameful, sinful act is transformed into sacred overnight if accompanied by the right words by someone with the appropriate qualifications to marry people. It does not seem to matter how the marriage was arranged, for what reasons the people are marrying, or even if they want to be married. The only requirement is that they go through the legal process. Without going into it too deeply, a perusal of most mainstream religions show that 1. Many of the ancient texts were written by polygamists, and 2. Most of the rules were based on considering women as property, rather than as a result of a solemn promise between equals." "Serial monogamy is perhaps an unconscious compromise between the cultural ideal of monogamy and the facts of human nature - in other words, we acknowledge that you can love more than one person, but only one at a time. The destructive effects of serial monogamy on children are well documented, with 8 million single parent families in the US, infidelity-fueled acrimonious divorces, through to the spate of spouse murdering lately. Much of the evidence seems to indicate that human attainment of the cultural ideal of monogamy is a myth." If polyamorists were to keep it platonic, not be sexually involved with people they love in numbers greater than one, most would applaud their loving behavior. But when they admit that they not only love more than one, but have sexual relationships with more than one, all the red flags come flying out. "If you watch TV at all, you will know that polyamory is getting a lot of play, from episodes on Ally McBeal, talk shows like Montel Williams, John Walsh, Geraldo, and HBO's Real Sex. There are many poly friendly films available from Hollywood, and of course the Really Rich and Famous can do what they please about relationships and get lots of favorable press. What has brought polys out of the closet is the Internet, where people who thought they were the "only ones" find lots of company." "Current sexual practice can no longer be explained by the old theories and we do not yet understand it in the light of new ones. Racing ahead of history, we now find ourselves in a new territory." June Singer The Energies of Love." Excerpts taken from Polyamory - What it is and what it isn't. by Derek McCullough and David S. Hall, Ph.D.

We are very new to the BDSM/Poly Community. We are not really trying to find "niche" so to speak, in which we can be classified, we are just exploring our sexual, emotional and spiritual boundaries. We do this in an attempt to create and maintain a loving and harmonious lifestyle for us, our children and anyone special enough to become a member of our family. That being said, I now have a special announcement... The kids will be gone this weekend and daddy says I can have a sleepover if I'm really good. Problem is, I don't really know anyone, so I'm hoping to meet someone here. I'm a bi-curious female who has an active sex drive and is embarking on her virgin encounter with another female. All the arrangements have been made to make this my special night, now all I need is you. Considering that I have never been with another woman, it would be really nice to find another lady who was either bi-curious or newly exploring their bi-sexual side. No playmate will be discouraged to respond however. I want to be clear that this is a girly slumber party for me. Daddy wants to see that my first is the best. BYOPJs and imagination and we will supply the rest. Those who are into giving pleasure and massage will be given high priority.

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