MNdominant

I am your average all-American man (D/D free) who just happens to find fulfillment by dominating my partner. I'm just this way, there's not a single submissive bone in my body. However, while strong and a leader, I am not needlessly cruel; I believe that abusing a woman and brutality is far beneath what I am all about. ( My motto: "Thrill her, don't kill her..." ) I am about commanding women and bringing out their best--in the bedroom, and in life. I will lead you; I know who I am, and what I want....and I will get it. Sex is only a (important) part of life, and this lifestyle; Still, sex can be so much ...love, art, expression, tenderness, exotic erotica, and intoxicating discovery--it is NOT 'all there is' however, the best part of D/s is in the mind. I will share my deepest parts of myself...I will get in your head, and make you the woman you long to be. I will show you things about yourself you cannot believe. I will make you glow in the joy of being a woman, celebrating your femininity to the very pores of your being. I will bring your mind to dizzying , startling, incredulous places and discoveries...IF you are worthy of us. I believe that a worthy Master is a skilled custodian of a woman's gift of submission and trust in him. Does this mean I am soft, or lack strength? Heh...far from it. (Test me...I dare you.) It means I am strong and smart enough to not have to be brutal, a bull in a china shop. I will see to it that my girl gives me all she has to give ... her utter, total self. Her thoughts, her body, her spirit...head, hand, and heart. I will not be satisfied with part of my girl...I demand it all. Indeed, I will demand, command, and reprimand, until she is fully pleasing to me. Simply put, that is how it must be. I lead a woman from inner strength, wisdom, and earned respect, not because I am bigger. I am the real deal, the Master that women dream of and that sort of quality is hard to convey in such a limited space. If you REALLY want to know me, it will take much more time than just reading this profile, and 4.2 minutes of chat. I had been living in a small town out in the farming country of Southwest Minnesota to stay in the region of my kids, which had made finding a superb girl rather challenging; I am now living in the Detroit Mi. Metro region with my collared 24/7 slave. I've been exploring real-life D/s for years, and online longer than that; I am a very experienced Master. I am a sensitive and sensual man, not just some bully looking to cause pain, and "get off". My style is a very relaxed one...I enjoy truly submissive women, not mental combat with brats, but I encourage a lil spunk, too. I have a marvelous sense of humor (if slightly silly sometimes) and enjoy women who do also. I am highly educated, an intellectual, and a philosopher. I have a wide variety of interests, and intend to sandwich a superb girl in with them. (Country/Western dancing, stand-up comedy, writing, reading, chess, tennis, foreign cultures...just to name a few.) Don't get me wrong...my slave will be the most important part of my life. I was born to have a superb woman kneeling at my feet...I push myself every day to be worthy of her when I find her. When I do, I will bind her to me, body and soul.

Looking For: A woman for active participation

Ideal Person: First, the critical basics: Great character, brains, beauty, personality, truly submissive with a sincere love of D/s. What does all that mean? Here's the follow-up. You need to be healthy mentally and physically...D/D free, with rock-solid integrity and character, sincere in adoring your role as a submissive woman. You will be submissive to me yes, but not a mindless doormat, that is boring and demeaning. I need a smart, imaginative, beautiful, and warm woman, who will challenge me to better myself, that I can be proud of, not a plastic doll who cannot think for herself. I certainly am not foolish enough to be 'intimidated' by intelligent, beautiful women...I appreciate them. I am not seeking someone who wants to fight about "Who's the Dom, here" ...there are better things to do with our time........ *Winks*. I will expect an imaginative, intelligent, sensual girl , if you are not such, do not respond to me. I will allow you much freedom IF you are responsible enough to deserve it. I will not put up with brattyness, nor juvenile behavior. You will have integrity and honor, as I do, or you will be gone, and I will find someone who does. I expect a lot, and I give a lot. I don't care if you are an experienced submissive or not...we will explore together, regardless. If you are not fairly attractive to men, including a decent figure, we are probably not going to be a match. I am ultimately searching for a 24/7 relationship, but until I find that, I am very open to less committed scenarios (Plus I understand that many 24/7 relationships start out casual). I don't expect perfection in a woman, but I do expect at least someone with the desire to be the best she can be. We will do a lot of things living life, along with D/s, so relax, and feel free to anticipate spending a lot of time enjoying life, and making the most of it. How we get along outside of the D/s dynamic will be crucial also, naturally. I want someone who is emotionally healthy (THAT is asking a lot, I've found, but it's true just the same) who is positive about life. You will find pleasure in giving to your man because it is honestly how you feel. I have changed my profile, and bared my soul, because I am tired of the goofball fluff girls who reply. I trust only sincere (or sincerely curious) girls will respond. Be one, or be gone. If you don't have a webcam, don't be amazed if I question your profile pic, or commitment to this lifestyle. Be well.