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Hello I am a mature, intelligent, fit and fun man who is comfortable enough with my desires to explore my sensuality. I am seeking a lady friend who is mature, fun, intelligent, sophisticated and sensuous. She should enjoy teasing and playing with a man as well as FM spanking play which I prefer in a household/domestic setting. I am into suggestive to provocative dress, talk and demeanor. Understand I am not into an affair - I am into being sensually-firmly spanked. Some will understand that distinction; some will not. The lady I would like to find will likely have a lot of the 'sexy woman next door' qualities as much as hidden yearnings to sensually dominate an attractive man. She could and likely is in business and likes to dress in a fashion that celebrates her womanhood. She must be mature and at least in her 30s. I enjoy quality non-judgemental people. Friends first is a must as trust is paramount in being open with each other. As the oft used saying states - sincere people only please. I am open to quality correspondance with those that wish to only do just that - however the key word is quality. Expressing yourself in writing can be cathartic and there is value in doing so in an anonymous environment. Most of us - not all - will only state our private intimate thoughts in such a fashion. This fellow is far less submissive than I choose to play that role with the right lady friend. There is strength and courage in being honest enough with one's feelings and I am seeking to address my yearning. That said I am 100% masculine and very much a man in all other endeavors. I am as comfortable in a sharp suit as in a pair of jeans. I like to laugh. I am an intelligent, attractive (inside and out), happy and healthy man (late 40s) would like to further explore the world of sensual FM domination - lots of tease please:-)! When the mood strikes I crave to be teased, scolded and spanked over the above woman's waiting lap:-).
I love a blouses with split or short skirts - anything showing your legs is a definite asset - as is a take charge but respectful attitude in a teasing, provocative way. I love crossed legs and a straight posture - especially when sitting on a chair .... . A woman who lets me know what is coming well in advance has the right idea. This first happened to me long ago when I was properly - and might I say expertly - seduced by an older woman when I was just 20. My summer love provided an amazing awakening on many levels. Over time she gradually introduced me to sensual, mind-blowing domestic discipline and, before long, I was more than eager to crawl over her lap - once in front of one of her girlfriends who also joined the play. Spanking was intermingled with sensual stroking -both front and back; an escalating balance that made all most pleasurable. It was wonderful and I became a sensual FM domestic discipline fan. Spankings can be very erotic when done right and intermingled with plenty of tease. So I am looking for that wordly woman friend who is less interested in an affair than in a like-minded occasional play partner. As said, friends first is mandatory as is an attactive attitude - a take charge attitude and attractive lap are definite assets:-) In all liklihood she has similar interests that few if any know about. I look forward to hearing from her.
MistressRed81
 
 Age: 47
  Idaho