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	About mitchem Status: In San Francisco. East Coast / MA at various times this summer. In addition to my usual interests, I'm currently working on shibari skills and am experimenting with hypnosis. -- I especially enjoy intense creative scenarios - abductions, training, chains, sensory depravation, intimidation. I don't go all out every time - often just a little bondage and flogging is good fun - but epic, unforgettable bondage adventures are my specialty. Want to tell me where you live and leave the door unlocked while you wonder if or when I'll show up, and what might happen? Want to go camping in chains? Or be my prisoner in a cabin for a few days? Want to be hypnotized and trained to cum on command? (I've studied the Relyfe techniques - want to find out if they work?) Want to be gagged, hooded, and covered in cane strikes until you forget who and what you are? I can strap a remote electric shocker under your clothes and make you obey me in public, or patiently tie you in beautiful shibari rope bondage. Or maybe you just want to meet for coffee, an art showing, or need a date to the opera... most of my life wouldn't raise any eyebrowse so we don't always have to be doing kinky stuff. I like kink.com - particularly devicebondage.com (I have the means to make my own equipment - send me ideas!) and trainingofo.com. If those sites don't turn you on, we probably aren't sexually compatible. Outside of all this kinky stuff, I'm grounded, confident, intelligent, creative, and sociable. I can walk into a bar or coffee shop and meet any girl or guy - I'm here because I want to meet the others with a wild side who are brave enough to explore the extremes of their sexuality. I have a pretty lucrative freelance business so I can often make time for adventure. Other interests: - Spicy Zinfandel and sparkling Syrahs - Meditation (hoods are good for this) - Exploring interesting spaces - old forts, dungeons, buildings - Kayaking to remote islands- Obscure martial arts - Travel to obscure places (I've been all over the Northern Hemisphere) - Mandarin Chinese (I can speak) - Snowboarding down a fresh line of powder - Lonely natural hot springs- Rope swings over creeks on a hot summer day (let's go find some!) - Ice hockey (I play) - Bonfires on the beach - Martial arts I don't watch TV (or own one) and I don't care about professional sports. If you do, that's fine, but I probably won't be able to hold a conversation about anything related to pop culture or sports. My best bondage adventures have started when women email me hot fantasies out of the blue and had the courage to follow through...

I love bondage equipment, especially on the more extreme end - heavy hoods, effective gags, locking restraints, cages. Between the imagery and the absoluteness of control, I can't stop collecting the stuff.

My favorite these days are hoods. If you've never worn a good sensory deprivation hood, it is a special kind of meditation. After some time, your mind begins to drift no longer fixed to the world by sight and sound. A paranoid awareness makes you alert to slightest sensation, but unable see or hear what caused any surprises, panic is a real risk. No, you must breathe, because you're staying in for now. The reward is too great when you succumb to not knowing, to the unexpected lashes, indefinite abandonment, confusion of time - then your senses are at their sharpest and your mind at its most submissive.

Here is a hood I recently picked up from the closeout sale at Madame S. This hood is great for beginners, because it feels pretty unassuming with the front unzipped, even if it looks a bit humiliating. The red interior is a nice touch, although it disappears when the front is zipped closed. Don't get too comfortable with that open front though - within a few seconds though, I can zip the world off. Your breathing is labored, hearing is difficult, and there is nothing but darkness. With your hands tied, you are helpless to dodge anything coming your way for as long as your tormentor wishes.

While I couldn't try it in the store for obvious reasons, I lucked out in that my penis also just fits through the mouth hole - how many full head hoods can you wear with a cock in your mouth? :)

As many here are fond of saying, the gear doesn't make the Dom. The mastery is in

all those mindfucks and sensations while you're wearing it.

Hood

One of my favorite sites is http://futurity.org. Mind expanding articles on new science.

I thought this article provided for some interesting insight some D/s scenes:

http://www.futurity.org/society-culture/instant-relief-leads-to-false-confessions/

There is often an assumption that the will can overcome any situation. That everyone is Braveheart, and can be tortured endlessly before confessing. It turns out we are not. More interestingly, it may be easier to get someone to make a false confession than a true one, because of faith that the truth will come out.

I've done a number of interrogation and punishment scenes and have found inducing false confessions can be a lot of fun. It forces the sub to lose sense of who they are and what is true. Ultimately, these moments can change behavior and implant deep influential ideas about the self. Used properly, they are key to "training."

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