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Female Switch, 28

Female Submissive, 18, Toronto

LATEST NEWS: Service will no longer be demanded of me. Such a price, and for what? Is it getting me where I want to be? No. With all the men wanting my attention around here, I can't even think! But now I am thinking just fine. I have come to a new conclusion. I have realized the only person who is going to make my dreams a reality is Myself. If you have emailed me and are wondering why I have not replied, it isn't because I am ignoring you. I am simply not using this account any longer. There is no need for it as I have no desire to be a slave any longer. I have found a new focus. The love that I seek with a mate will be mine. I will find it, seek it out. There are romantic men out there and they wish with all their hearts to serve a woman of My stature. It is time I stop behaving like a twit and search for their service to Me and the love I can return to them. Honor, Pride, & Wisdom be with you all.

5 Easy Ways To Prevent Yourself From Becoming A Drama Queen ?What an ugly thing to be called! I certainly don't want to be a Drama Queen, and I doubt you do either. Life is so much better when not muddled up with a whole mess of drama. So, how do we make sure that doesn't happen to us? Well, I was talking to cynthiaq in the Unowned_Subbie_Room just today and between her and I, we came up with some good information: 1. Everyone has emoitons, it is very normal. Know this to be true. 2. Realize that your emotions are your own responsibility. After all, they are created by you, you should be able to handle them on your own. If you aren't sure how to handle your own emotions, I recommend reading "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff and It Is All Small Stuff" by Richard Carlson. It helped me learn a whole new perspective of living life without drama and to 'Go with the flow.' 3. If not that book, then try some counseling. Do NOT go into counceling looking for someone to talk to. Go in with the objective to learn from the councelor how to solve your own problems. 4. Avoid sharing your own problems and issues with others unless they ask you first to share them. And even if they do ask, don't tell them the whole story, just summerize and leave it at that. Let them be a friend for you without burdoning them with all the details. 5. This isn't as difficult as it may seem. At first you may feel ockward about bitting your tongue. Instead, try letting other people talk about themselves. Try to encourage your speaker to talk about possitive things. Have fun. When you feel the need to speak about your own issues, stop! Instead, say to your speaker, "That is very interesting," or, "tell me more!" If you do these things, you will feel calmer and more involved with people. You will find yourself more involved with others and eventually, your need for attention will deminish.

IMPORTANT NOTE: While it is true I am willing to serve a man I love, service is not my focus. I do not have a strong desire to serve as is usually assumed. I simply want to love my Dominant well. In short, I am not driven by a strong need to serve, I am driven by a strong need to love.

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