mindthegap

I have a hopelessly romantic notion of kink. For me, submission is a gift from a lover, to be treasured and cherished. I want that gift. It excites me to receive it.

I have vanilla relationships on the go and I am not available full-time. I am looking for a beautiful, personable, sincere sub who wants something occasional and long-term with me.

Submission is a gift, a very intimate and precious gift that is freely given, wrapped up in trust and with a shiny bow of woven admiration, respect and affection. It is laid at the feet of a -lover-.

Domination is about reciprocating that gift, by learning how to and then taking your sub where he/she wants to go or explore, being worthy of that trust, reciprocating with the gift of catharsis, and gratefully sharing in the experience and of course getting what you want and need out of the experience yourself too, since at the heart of it all, that's the nature of the gift.