mindsubmitter

To me, there is something wonderfully fiendish and unfair about using a male's urgent need for orgasm as a torture. The principle behind Cum Denial is simple: the victim wants to cum, but is prevented from doing so. The more desperately he needs to cum, the more effective it is - and this becomes a torture when the Top sets about intentionally increasing the victim's need to cum, while also making very sure that he can't obtain the relief he so urgently needs. There are as many ways to do this as there are victims, as each individual has his own turn-ons and fetishes - all of which can be used to excellent effect on him to make him progressively more and more desperate to cum. These may include physical things - the bondage itself; being hooded; the feel of leather, or rubber or some other fetish material; breath control; servicing the Top; confinement; pain (if the victim really gets off on it); boot-licking; cock-sucking; sweaty socks or jocks; - whatever really turns the victim on and gets him horny. It may also include psychological things such as not knowing when he's eventually going to be allowed to cum - or even if; humiliation; seeing the Top; not being able to see the Top; wanting to touch the Top but not being able to - the list is endless. But apart from all of these, there is one other thing that is the most effective of all: genital teasing. No matter what else a victim is into, having his inner thighs, perineum, arse - and especially his balls - worked on for a long period will almost inevitably make him want to cum. And then, of course, there's his cock.

One of the things I usually ask a potential victim before he first visits, is to describe exactly - in as much detail as possible - how he best likes to masturbate. Is he circumcised? Does he have a favourite position? Does he lie down or stand up? Legs straight? Bent? Together? Wide apart? What technique does he use? Fast strokes? Slow? Whole cock or just at the tip? What does he do with his other hand? Does he use lube? Does he use any fetish object or material? Lots of questions designed to tell me the technique I can use on him which will make him cum quickest, most effectively, and most intensely - not that I have any intention of letting him cum. Oh no - I just want to know the best way to get him close and make him want to cum.

There is nothing I love more than to torture a victim like this - encouraging him to want to cum; getting him hornier and hornier and building up his need for orgasm to the point where he is out of his mind with the urgent, desperate need to cum - so that it is the only thing he can think about - and then removing all stimulus so that it's impossible for him to get the relief he so urgently needs. And to do it again, and again, and again, and again, and again..........

In this, I am unbelievably sadistic. I will use every single one of his fetishes and turn-on's as weapons against him - along with slow masturbation and genital tickling (at which I'm expert) - and my favourite sight is a helpless victim struggling and writhing as he desperately tries to find some way of bringing himself off as I leave him on the very brink of orgasm for the twentieth time....