Mindlord

I am looking for a real time submissive woman for training and/or service in the Monmouth / Ocean County area. I can offer a safe, private setting for those who need to be discreet (vanilla husband, etc.). I have been in the lifestyle on and off for almost 12 years, and I am a member of the local Munch club. I am single and would consider a LTR with a deserving unattached submissive.

I am open minded and I am willing to help those (Q&A) who are new and curious about the lifestyle. I am a dominant, which is different than just telling a sub or slave to get on her knees and then beating her up. I have limits on the things I will do to a sub (no blood, scat, etc.). Likewise, I have certain expectations of a submissive who approaches me, or whom I approach. You want to be treated with some dignity and I expect to be treated with some respect. I also don't have a problem with a sub expressing her expectations, as long as it is done in the proper manner. If you want to know what to expect and what my expectations are, feel free to ask. I am not going to type on here all day long...

My privacy is EXTREMELY important to me and I only talk to or approach those who I feel are worthy of my attention. I will share a pic (and expect the same of you if you don't have one posted) when I am sure the individual I am talking to is genuine.
Just as you are tired of the "wannabe Doms", I am equally tired of the "pretend" submissves/slaves.

I also ask that you please be local -- within 1 hour.

If you feel the need to top from the bottom or if you "need" to see a picture off the bat, move along, I probably would not be interested in someone as shallow as you.