I believe one is born a D or an S. It has taken me a while to come to terms with the D side, along the way realizing the special gift an S brings to a relationship. I am always fascinated and awed by the committment required of a true S who enters into a binding D/S relationship. I would like to meet committed subbies (female only please...I'm straight after all) on line and exchange ideas, experiences and suggestions with you. I believe that the life of the mind is especially important to those in D/S situations. After all, what we seek is nothing less than our fantasies brought to life.