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Female Submissive, 31, Los Angeles, California
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Male Switch, 30, santander
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Male Dominant, 53, Lake Elsinore, California
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About MinaM
I'm a sub who keeps getting mistaken for a top because I'm a troublesome thing. Look closer and you'll see the real me.
It's been three years since I ended a bad marriage that never had the least bit of kink to it. That relationship messed me up so much with my expectations that I forgot how much of my previous sex life had been kinky. Maybe I was protecting that part of myself. Maybe I put it away because I didn't have the mental resources for it.
Either way, these last years have been a period of rediscovery for me. I've come to understand and accept my submissive nature. And with that has come understanding my interest in other bits and bobs on the kink spectrum.
Right now I'm looking for some community as well as maybe some people to play with as I start back into the world. I'm not looking for someone to swoop in and suddenly be my master or daddy. And I certainly don't believe that just because I'm submissive by nature, that I am going to be your submissive after one conversation. (Oh, man, ask me about the last time someone tried that trick on me.)
I'm geeky, love movies and tv, am seriously liberal/progressive in my politics, and am an atheist. And I...have no idea what else to say.
(Additional note: For now, I'm really not interested in hooking up with couples for play. Maybe later, once I've gotten my feet wet again, but that's just a lot to process for me right now.) |
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Spending some time answering messages on here. Am STUNNED at the people who don't use proper English or real thoughts. I can take some ignoring of punctuation, etc, for complete thoughts. I'm sure it's because I'm a writer, but...yikes!
Also, I took switch men off my profile, but I might put it back on. I keep getting requests to top under the guise of "But you switch." That's just NOT the same thing. Only ONE today was a real switch convo. |
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