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Male Switch, 46, Siena
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Female Switch, 21, nashville, Tennessee
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Female Submissive, 33, cleveland, Connecticut
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About MinaLynn
Thank you for viewing my profile...
I have the pleasure of saying that I am now owned and he is the most wonderful thing that has happened to me besides my kids. He is the half that makes me feel whole. He feeds my hunger, yet allows me to be me. I love all that he is and all that he does for me. I look forward to being able to proudly wear his collar around my neck even tho he already has one around my heart. He does not restrict my friends or who I talk to, he does not wish to 'tame' what is wild in me. As a matter of fact It is just the opposite, he enjoys setting the beast free... I do not want to delete anything on my profile as its still a part of who I am, what I want, and what I need... So I will just keep adding updates to it from time to time. and kudos for those who get through the whole thing.
Sometimes the thing we are least looking for takes a large leather strap and hits you on the ass with it... It is true I was not looking for One steady Dom, However, things do change and I feel this one is for the better. A while ago I asked one to put my collar on for me. It had much more significance than a simple assistance with wardrobe. Its true my life is still chaotic but he is patiently working with me and allowing me the needed time to work things out in that area.. He has taken me places I never thought I could go. He has given me a light in my life such as I had not thought was possible. He allows me to explore and play. I trust him completely and do not withhold anything from him... If I am messaged and I feel it is something that is fruitful... or that can enhance us or our relationship he will be told about it... If he asks me who I am talking to or what I am talking about he will be told... Now don't get all up in arms... he has not instructed me to give up my freedom of choosing what I tell him... but I have no need to keep anything from him. I am allowed to talk, flirt and play with others, if things look fruitful I ask his permission to go further.
I'm sure those friends who know us understand why I'm not posting that I am collared and owned or a member of a house and the 'cliché' things that go along with it.. Truth be told I want to but the need for discretion outweighs my wanting to strut like a peacock. Which brings me to my next FYI... I am TIRED of people thinking they are helping me, by telling me something I have known from the start. This lifestyle is built on trust and the ability to keep yours and others anonymity. Every group charter I have read has stated in essence... that what is done here stays here... (no mater where here is) you don't out people, I am saying this because I am a big girl, I have a BBA (that's a college education for those who don't know...) ((and if you take offense to that comment you probably didn't know what a BBA was..so have at being offended)) I do not go around saying "omg.. guess what so and so said." or "I see you are with so and so.. I have to tell you what I heard..." or the one that really bugs me.. "guess who I seen Mr X with.. did you know they were...." FUCK THAT! I have had MORE than enough drama with my ex... Leave it for someone else who cares and will listen to you.. I want no part of it. If my Sir wants me to know what was said, who said it, what was done with whom.. He will tell me. I do as he instructs and have to answer to no one else but him.. (unless I have the kids.. then obviously they come first... lol)
Well let me start of by saying I’m a single/divorced (for all intent and purpose) mother of two beautiful boys. They are my life! I’m not looking for a father for them, or another husband. That being said brings me to my next FYI. I don’t get much "alone" time. Late nights when they’re sleeping and the weekends their father takes them. If you can’t handle coming second to them then please don’t waste either of our times. Now that that little disclaimer is out of the way...
About me:
I became aware of the D/s bdsm lifestyle several years ago. It is a fascinating idea for me. I've had several virtual "teachers" and feel I have learned all I can via the virtual world. I still love playing there but I crave more. Unfortunately the things I crave I can’t do by myself. I do want to add however I’m not looking for a "Master" per se at the moment. I want to find like minded people that I can explore and experience with. If it happens that I connect very well with one I may change my mind about a permanent collar. HOWEVER, I am a submissive not a slave, and I will choose who I submit to and when.
Again, I’ve studied D/s for almost 5 yrs now and have been told I'm quite good at what I do. Most of my "teachings" have been in an online environment but with my recent separation from my husband I’m looking to test my limits, both in bondage and pain tolerance.
My sub side:
I am a submissive at heart but I have a wicked some may think evil Domme side.
I love serving and being a good lil girl.
I like a good spanking but canes are out of the question.
I do love my ropes though I currently have a total of 300ft. (smiles sweetly)
In addition I have a vast collection of toys that is continuously growing.
I do enjoy having them used on me as well as using them on my victim...er... sub..
My Domme side:
I feel is becoming quite evil.
I’m finding I enjoy denial, cbt, edging and of course spanking and rope... However I also like the obedient good boy whom I can allow certain pleasures to when deserving.
What I want:
Again, I’m currently not in the market for a permanent/full time Master. However, if things click I might rethink that.
I’m mostly looking for Teachers to help me in the discovery of my likes and dislikes in the lifestyle. As well as help me learn my tolerances.
I am also looking for others (subs) that want to help me explore my Domme side, Male and female, and sub females that would be willing to help me please some of my more deserving Dom friends.
My bisexual experiences are limited. But, I would love to have a female friend/play partner to experiment with as well. Saying that, my sexual orientation listed is straight... I have no desire to be with a woman, however I’m not apposed to the idea of playing with them sexually, I have had a few experiences but I defiantly prefer cock. Lol. But again that don’t mean if a special one comes along I wouldn’t take her as a cherished pet/submissive. I unfortunately wouldn’t be able to bring myself to take a Mistress...
For a male pet I’m looking for someone that is willing to bear with me as I learn what I like on the Domme side of things. I also would like a sub that would enjoy pleasuring me with someone else there, giving the directions and even joining in. (and not in a male bisexual way. again unless that is also a turn on.)
Turn ons:
(Goodness where do I start?) These don’t have any order of preference and not all have been actually done, but I would like to some day.
Toys (I love mine, see pics :-) )
Ropes (love)
Bondage (love)
Sensory deprivation (blindfolds, earplugs) (love)
Gags (love)
Collars (love)
Anal (love)
Gagging (while performing oral) (love)
Spanking (ass and breasts) (love)
Ping pong paddle (like)
Fisting (still debating)
Hot wax
Forced orgasm
DP
TP
Multiple partners
Gangbangs
Force/rape
Being tied to a bed or table and teased and/or used
And I have a huge Daddy fetish
Turn offs/hard limits. NO:
Children
Canes
Animals
Piss and scat
Blood
Permanent scars
Dismemberment
Death...
** On a side note not to sound like a total bitch. but from now on i'm not going to accept friends requests without at least a hi, or hello i’m so and so from such and such a place, read your pf. blah blah blah.. You get the idea. Don’t get me wrong I love requests and new friends no matter who you are, what fetishes you have or where you’re from. I just think it’s polite to at least introduce your self first and tell me a little bit about why you want to be my friend. I wont turn them down, Unless you totally creep me out.
Oh and if I happen to go threw my list and remove you as a friend. Don’t take it personal. It’s most likely because we haven’t talked or something along those lines. Seeing so many screen names and having several yahoo addresses gets confusing who I’m talking with so its nothing personal, and if I do remove you from my list and you think it was on accident its possible, just im me and ill add you back**
And a final fyi, if I don’t say it then I’m just asking for trouble... Yes I’m a submissive at heart, I’m not a slave and I’m not into Gor, (I do know what Gor is and have no issue with anyone who is into it). I am a mother and an independent educated woman. I feel I have a very intelligent mind of my own and I tend to speak it quite often. So for those of you that call yourselves Doms/Masters. (and truly aren’t) you will be offended by this... and for those who are truly Dom's and Masters (I still offer my apologies Sirs, but this doesn’t apply to you) Grow up and get a fucking clue. If I’m not your sub, don’t treat me like it. Don't IM someone for the first time and say stupid shit like "Kneel before me and suck my cock" or think that cute pet names such as cunt, slut, whore, etc are the way to get a devoted pet/submissive or even to get laid for that matter... those titles/pet names are something that comes after at least the first in person meeting unless stated otherwise. If it helps... To be on the safe side, ive found, if your trying to be cute or endearing the term "lil one" or "girl" work just fine. Also, if im not your Domme or Mistress, Ma am or Miss is fine also.
If I decide to "play" with you or for you either in person or otherwise, then we can establish what else you can call me and what I will do for you. But not until... and if you do get offended by this "fyi" you might want to rethink your title... |
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It has happened at last. I have found a Sir that compliments me very well. We have the same likes and desires. He enjoys watching and participating and is expanding my experiences wonderfully.
With that being stated, don't think that I'm not approachable. I am still looking for subs/pets/toys of my own. And we enjoy playing as a couple too. So other Dominants are welcome. I tell him everything so please don't ask me to keep our conversations between us. (just fair warning) If you are interested in playing with us don't be shy. |
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I just want to say I thank you and appriciate the messaged that everyone sends me.. However, with my current situation long distance meetings are out of the question. It is absolutly nothing personal. But there is no way I can come meet you and the chances of not having my kids for the time needed to enjoy a trip like that (if you were to come here)is unlikely. Also I do not come onto CM as often as I would like or for as long as I would like. So if you have sent me a message and I havent replied I do appologize Im not trying to be rude. I have most likely seen the message and even read it but havent had the time to get back to you.
What I want and need most in my life right now would offend most people and If I were to put it in my profile Im sure I would get nasty emails like on a previous one I had.. even tho I was upfront and honest with what I was looking for. I have a soon to be ex husband that is almost 2k behind in child support. I dont know if I should hate him or feel sorry for him, But because of it things are stressed here beyond belief. |
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Well i go to log in today and everything has poofed.. all my friends, emails, pics. i have no idea why or how or what happened to my messages and the rest of my profile.. im not a happy camper.
That being said please bear with me as i rebuild my profile.
Also I have the same name as before so that hasnt changed. If you messaged me and i didnt respond i most likely didnt get your message. please resend and/or atleast say hello |
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