Milkmaid

Married men and how to get rid of them

Not my circus, not my monkeys!

My profile is extremely specific and states categorically that I have no use for and am not interested in married men and yet…………….they keep a coming!

I don’t care that your wife doesn’t understand you

doesn’t want sex

blah blah

You have remedies at hand:-

divorce, counselling, grow a pair and leave and all manner of other things in between.

If you’re willing to cheat, disrespect, generally crap on someone you made a vow to; that does not bode well for how you would treat me. I have zero interest in finding out.

Most women stay in relationships they are no longer invested in, maybe she’s bored of your very limited moves, try something new (think Monica ‘Friends’ and SEVEN, SEVEN!)

On paper I may appear to fulfil your desires but I should remind you that I NEED, require, demand some kind of intellectual input and emotional involvement. If you’re married you are already emotionally involved elsewhere, so a no thank you.

If being with married people is your thing, knock yourself out, I’m not here to judge.

And before some entitled prick, states that women also cheat...I don’t date women, so have no interest in what they do.

Holsters finger and steps away from the keyboard!

I need a lie down now, lol

Men are so damn predictable. It’s always a disappointment that once you’ve made contactmost,revert back to type; only seeking to talk about sex and the physical!

Mostly, there’s not even an attempt to get to know me as a person, just a rush to know precisely what I can do for them...be they sub or dom and quite frankly it’s boring, repetitive and tedious.

Talking to a complete stranger about intimate sexual matters is akin to jacking off to porn on a screen or having ants crawl over my skin; neither of which is for me.

Oh to find a real man. One who actually seeks something deeper than the superficial, something with more depth than that of a teaspoon!

I'm NOT a kink dispenser

Kindly stop messaging me with aspects of my profile that you would apparently want me to do to you. That's just gross and incredible bad manners!

Women do not exist as a hole to be filled by guys (Not men as men have manners and can talk on a kink site without resorting to being crude).

Whether I'm lactating or not is also none of your business. If you engage with me in respectful dialogue then I will return the favour and 'may' open up....eventually!

For F*ck sake just man up and behave with dignity.

As individuals we are fluid, we change, adapt, morph with ever changing situations, so why should our sensuality or sexuality remain rigid.

We are ALL so obsessed with labels.

I’m drawn towards sensual, intellectual beings. I accept and know that I am not bi or attracted to females. But all other aspect remain open for me and I would relish to explore them….to the fullest!

Having had the courage and opportunities to explore, I know that I adore bi men. Nothing is more sensual than sharing/worshipping a beautiful tumescent member with another alpha male or being the filling in a male bi sandwich.

Getting to know someone takes time; months. Eventually knowing them enough to absolutely blow their mind, to take the time to learn to edge them, slowly over hours until they shake, quiver and NEED to explode, is just the best feeling ever. Delayed gratification is delicious.

People grow, change, evolve, adapt; whatever. Due to all sorts of reasons and environments.

It’s said that what separates us (humans) from the other animals is our ability to learn from our mistakes. I for one call BS.

I’m not a switch, I am however a sensualist. Different strokes for different folks; which means that I adapt with the vibe I get from people.

Far too much of the life is spent conforming to labels and here, in this world of kink where we should be free to express ourselves, our core inner being, we are once again being herded into restrictive labels; sub, dom, switch.

Sexuality is far more nuanced than those labels would have you believe.

I’m into people, not into being fitted into a box that ticks some obscure label defined by someone else.

Manners, intellect, respect, these are the traits that turn me on.

Romance

Does it still exist?
Do people still indulge in this recreation?
Does it still include subtly, flirting and innuendo no....In your endo!!?

Key components for me in any friendship

1. Laughter
2. Mutual respect
3. Manners
4. Know your audience. Its not one size fits all!
5. Slow and steady wins the race. Crass and quick just makes me sick.
6. You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar!
7. Politeness costs nothing
8. Respect is EARNED and not given away as standard applies to both parties
9. You cant fix stupid, so dont argue with it!
10. You should make each other WANT, NEED to continue communication

over and out!

An extremely wonderful person just sent over my deleted journals.

I feel blessed to be able to re read my words. I'll be posting them one by one over the next days or so.

This was sent to me yesterday.....and I cried.

I don’t think that I have cried so hard in a very long time. I periodically come here and search, talk to some very lovely men but ultimately there appears to be a lack of spark. You know, the elusive chemistry, even via the interwebby, so I disappear for a while and return hoping that things have changed that men who behave like boys may have strapped on a pair and grown up by deciding to try to behave like gentlemen.

You know, the little things, not only conversing about sexual ects via the first email. Yeah I know this is not a dating site but...........well...........actually...it is! But actually wanting to know more about you and being just a tad interested that you may be more than just a package of body parts ah well, one can live and dream.

And then someone emails me this post and I realise that YES, Yes,YES, there are REAL men out there who are in touch with the emotions and know precisely what they desire. They can articulate it in a sensuous manner that is enticing in the extreme. To be honest, I love this mans mind already Id worship the rest of him in a heart beat!

Trouble is he’s in the U.S.!!!!! Bugger, bugger, bugger!

Wanted Submissive Milk Maid for a DS ANR ABF LTR.


That’s a lot of letters, but that’s because I know exactly what I want. Were going to have an ANR, but unlike most guys, I’m not looking for someone to play mommy. Im a dominant man, and though the nursing may be tender and sweet, it will con to and strengthen the dynamic between us.

I want the bonding of it, the closeness of it. I want to take my breakfast from you every morning, and I want to know each evening that you’re swollen and aching for the release that only my hungry mouth allows. You will need me, and I will take what your body offers.

Does it capture your imagination, the thought of being milked by your man? Feeling my lips and tongue on your hard nipples, feeling my rough hands working each of your soft breasts in turn? Knowing that I draw nourishment out of your body every single day, and this suckling makes you my creature, and grows my hunger for you?

Its a serious commitment, inducing lactation, so this only makes sense in an LTR. There are other ways for us to taste your submissive side as well, and well map the contours of your desires. Chances are some of our other interests overlap, but the breastfeeding will binds us most of all.

In private and in public, I’m intelligent and quick witted and thoughtful and even sweet. Im a good listener with an absurd sense of humor. Sure, Im prone to spanking you over my knee whenever you’re rude or naughty, but its for your own good. Maybe you’d like me even if we didn’t both share in this secret desire for the closeness of a breastfeeding connection. But how delicious is it that we do?

Read this and weep boys read it and weep. THIS is how a man captures your heart he grabs your soul first!

I sincerely hope you’re all enjoying a blessed, productive day; whilst the lunatics keep on running the asylum that is the world economy!

After years on various sites etc, I’ve come to realise that I’m not an online person; just can’t make that connection via the interwebby thing. I NEED to see the person in real time; see how they react, see how I feel about their company etc; and being in their company.

It’s been stated millions of times, you can be anyone online and I now realise that most guys online are cretins, with the social skills of troglodytes i.e. Egor’s less able brother!

There are the occasional diamonds but they are usually miles away and most are in the U.S. I seriously fear for the long term fate of the human race.

I have friends on here, hence why I log on from time to time but unless you’re articulate, with a cracking sense of humour and empathy; I’m incredibly happy to remain single.

Just because you’re in a forest, doesn’t mean the only thing you can talk about is trees! Ergo, being on a sex site doesn’t mean all I want to talk about is breasts or sex. In fact, should you attempt to engage my brain by engaging yours, I’m likely to respond.

Sex talk without intimacy is just so trite, boring and quite frankly; repulsive.

Thanks for viewing my profile.

Just want to clear up any false impressions you may have on reading it.

I am NOT here to fulfil any one's bucket list but my own, so sending a message stating that you are into lactation as an opener, is quite frankly repulsive. I don't know you from Adam and if that is what you feel is a suitable introduction; maybe you should grow up a tad and then interact with women!

I am looking for a person not a kink. I want a person who is kinky, open minded but who is also articulate, caring, who lives in London and desires an eventual relationship. If that is not you; then you'll be wasting your time.

Enjoy your day.

As you were!

Not really sure that this is working as it'snot appearing with my profile

My previous journals were deleted by the site and unfortunately, I never made back ups.

Some things that may interest you; erotic lactation has nothing to do with adult babies (yuck) and everything to do with intimacy.

I need an intellectual connection before anything else and I am NOT seeking anything casual. No intellectual connection = end of discussion.

Chemistry is a MUST and that can only ever be established via a meeting (for a coffee)

My eventual partner could NEVER be too breast obsessed.