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Mikida

Male Dominant, 61, norwich
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About Mikida

I HAVE been collared.

Well I've been urged to update my profile. The only reason I have not updated is b/c I felt not experienced enough to state exactly what I wanted and needed.

Here goes - I'm 23, trying to find a job, live with 5 cats, two parents, a part time dog, 15 head of cattle and one bull. I want to own my own business. Preferably a coffee shop where I can have dedicated nights such as "Inner Hippie Night". I also would like to have my shop to be known in this lifestyle as a place to go and have a good time, meet new people, and have dedicated nights to trade/talk/ or experiment.

There are several things I can't do. I can't knit, can't speak Spanish, dont know anything about computer programming, and never seemed to stomach the taste of tomatos.

I can obey orders, enjoy domestic chores, like historic movies/novels, know how to fence (as in swordplay), can't seem to resist a good groaner of a bad joke, and love to answer questions.

I would write a paragraph here and what I would be looking for and what I could offer but after being happily owned it wouldnt' be the proper thing to do. Friends are always welcome to pry and ask any/all questions, comments, or just plain rants to a total stranger to 'get it off your chest'. Doesn't mean my advice is the best in the world, but is guaranteed a giggle or two.

If you want just to talk I will not hesistate to answer. Until then I may change this profile depending if my creative little alter ego has anything to say.

Oh my goodness I'm still alive? That's quite a surprise lately. Life has been too unpredictable to me. I paid for the apartment, quit the job, bought new toys for the cats, and a lesson in humility.

Guess who has the money for rent but absolutely no furniture. Seems like it's time for me to channel my inner monk and learn "hardwood floors can be comfortable if I ignore the pain of bruised hips". It's not too bad really. I just keep telling myself it's a lesson in humility.

More soon enough. I have time to write now .... well time and incentive.
 Oh happy freaking Thanksgiving. I'm thankful for the Xbox so I didn't have to socialize. Have a good one (Lord knows mine was *dull*)
Okay so it's been quite a while sinbce I've had an opportunity to post anything that might look like an update. Now where is the gentleman to say "Bad Slave!".

To keep a story short and to the point - The final transition was vindictive, cruel, quick and oh so satisfying! It happened about 3 weeks ago and we haven't spoken to each other sense. I honestly couldn't be happier b/c now it's not a matter of "I still have issues to finish so have to talk to him". Now it's strictly down to "I am NOT REQUIRED to pick up the phone and say hello". That is freedom.

I have another things right now that's more on a happier note and really pleases my Inner Hippie Child. A very important Gentleman asked me to lock his collar around my neck. It was my pleasure to say "yes sir". The circumstances are still a bit unstable (long details involved but not able to be said), but I understood that when I agreed. I trust him to make the right choice no matter the outcome. I will be happy and very supportive.

Time to go and enjoy dinner! I'll post again soon enough.

If have you stumbled across my last post, then you are quite aware of my situation. Pretty stressful huh? I have received several very supportive emails regarding this. To these wonderful people I can only think to say Thank You. There is no way possible to say just how much those messages of support mean. There are some who have been the in the same situation, and some who have simply said to "stand strong". It's those two simple words that have made men into heroes. I'm better now, and will defintely post again upon my return. Can't leave readers without an ending to an unnofficial soap opera can I? You know, I like to think that my life marches to the beat of it's own drummer - only problem is he hasn't quite learned how to play the drums yet. Let me leave you with a wonderful quote that I saw carved onto a bracelet...

"Well Behaved Women Rarely Make History"

Be Strong. Stand Tall. Rewrite The Rules

Wow, vanilla like sucks and my "hidden" life is too close to walking calf deep in sand. wet sand. I know - you want something entertaining but I'm just not up to that today. As some know - I travel at the end of the week to retrieve my things from my divorce. The thought of that has taken center stage in my thoughts lately. How do you face the man who sent you to borderline psychosis. To the point of stuttering, insomnia, haluccinations, and mental shut down (think i'm exagerating? think again.) I'm scared to death but need to closure. This isn't the place to spill my life's story and much less rant, but somehow it's good to write it down where people will see it.  Ever wish the Office Depot "easy button" was real? yeah welcome to my world! All this thinking just brings memories not needed. Can we say "I hate the weekends". Hell, this post is depressing and kinda sad - guess I'm just a bit lonely. Not for bdsm sex, or sex in general, but more to I miss the feeling of true love. Of leaning your forehead against your S/O's forehead and trace their jaw with your thumb. The complete closeness of the moment. Somehow though I keep daydreaming of "eskimo kisses" and how they always seemed to lead to giggles. Okay enough sappy romance junk - that's enough for one pissant of a day.

Now where in the hell did I leave the vodka?
Guess my journal entry today should be about the specifics of what I am looking for in a Master (I will be adding the same to my profile soon). I will NOT relocate so anyone out of state should consider a relationship for chatting only. Laughter is a great way to get my attention. Added note: I'm a total sucker for a groaner of a joke. I CANNOT be a full time submissive for reasons stated in my profile. My divorce is final and now I am having to get on my feet by myself. I will NOT alter any part of my body for anyone! The first person to bring up the subject of breast implants or plastic surgery will be immediately placed on "ignore". That is the only firm rule I have. Right now I can't think of anything else - but in time maybe.

Tomorrow: cute funny posts again! can't let this journal get too boring now can I?

I haven't had much time to reply to emails, which I'm sure is not becoming of a good slave. Seems the vanilla life is demanding more of my attention then ever. My father raises cattle and we were just blessed with a new bull calf. He was born ill, but through several days of touch-and-go nursing (and force feeding Pepto-Bismol)  he is very strong for 2 days old. It's things like that which make you just pause and realize there are times in life which rate as pure beautiful innocence. Now if only he would quit chasing the cats...

I know it's not sexual, but that's really my only news for the past couple of days. Maybe next time.
There is one Master in particular I know that I will be meeting in November. We may not be able to spend much time together, but it will give us a chance to talk and discuss more personally what is happening. Just between you and me, I'm very excited!



Vanilla note: My dog Angel who I was so worried about being pregnant and sick, just had a tiny snake bite. I come home yesterday and she crawls in the jeep before I can get out. So cute to see her take her spot on the backseat as if to say "I'm better now! We go to the park yet? Let's go to the park! I wanna go somewhere! CAR-RIDE!!"
I would have to say the search for a Master is going quite well. I've received several interesting prospects and even a few that have seriously perked my attention.  Wow, what to talk about? --- I reread 128 slave rules last night and am making it my weeks mission to remember at least 25 of them. That and the GOR positions which is taking a bit longer then thought. On a vanilla note I think my dog is pregnant. Would anyone in the Monroe, Louisiana be interested in a German Sheppard/Akita mix puppies (if it comes to her really being pregnant and not a lazy streak)
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