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About Mikas
BDSM can be defined as any kind of practice where power play is involved. In these scenarios someone is in control, and the other person is handing over their control, if even for a few minutes.
Popular misconceptions have prevented many people from exploring a sexual variation that is actually highly creative, cerebral, sensual, and playful. Let’s look at the truth.
Myth 1: All Dominants are Abusive.
The partner who plays the role of ”dominant” actually cares deeply for the physical, mental and emotional well being of his “submissive.”
Myth 2: The Dominant is in Control.
A dominant’s job is to fulfill the submissive’s needs.
Myth 3: Submissives are weak and have low self esteem.
Only a strong individual with emotional fortitude can agree to let go and entrust herself to the care and protection of an honorable DOM partner
Myth 4: If you enjoy BDSM your brain isn’t wired correctly.
Most dominants will tell you that their submissives could not be more normal. They are confident, secure and mentally stable.
Myth 5: BDSM is primarily about pain.
It is a power exchange between a dominant and a submissive. |
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