I am a sensual curvy plus sized (=BBW) single woman not for the completely vanillas of the world, and this means kink:

I'm definitely on the dominant side of the BDSM spectrum.

However, this doesn't completely define who I am, and I seek a normal connection as well.

I'm entitled, demanding and will expect a lot out of you.

That's why you're going to be my sub ;-)

I'm also a warm, affectionate and loveable person.

But first, let's see how well we connect with each other on every level.

Ultimately, what I'm looking for is someone who excites my mind as well as my body.

I am looking for an intelligent, articulate, sincere man who is kink-inclined in the D/s way, ideally a sub.

Outside of the bedroom, you should be a naturally chivalrous, warm and generous person inclined to making me happy in all ways. I prefer single men.

Note: I am only looking for someone who wants to meet me at some point in real life, so a reasonable travel distance by car/plane is preferred. I am looking ideally for regular meetings.

If you don't fit my search profile 100% but still think you could be a good match, drop me a line and convince me of your qualities.

There is far more to me than my kink-inclinations. I work, travel, read, paint, cook, explore and make sense of the world around me. I am comfortable being alone and entertaining myself with ideas and projects.

I visit London several times a year and I do have a thing for british men ;-)

I have never been married nor do I have children - mainly because the vanilla templates which are readily available, do not work for me.

If anything I have said resonates with you, get in touch.

I love intelligent dialog with others who enjoy the intellectual side (as well as the raw, raunchy side) of kink.

Honesty is non negotiable. I'm not interested in catfish or online fantasies.

German messages are fine.

No need to write in english, if you are german/austrian/swiss.

I appreciate longer mails as I do want to get to know you ;-)

Faces are important to me.

So be prepared to show me at some point a picture of yourself.