I spank nice people and travel a lot in central and northern Europe.
Have been around for some time. Way before FL made kink into some kind of a hype trend.
Not active looking. But if you catch my attention, I might accept to mentor or sometimes accept to have under consideration. And yes, sometimes I start a conversatiosn around here, alltough some females consider it a crime to reply. God knows the idea some people have about a "social network website", if they are anti-social. Beats me. I guess I must be wrong. There are 3 simple and straight forward requisites to deal with me:
Respect
Honesty
Reliability
Having that sorted, one can get along just fine. Turn ons are humiliation, complex role-play and psychological Domination. Or submissive girls very devoted to a Mentor type of Master. For those who care learning about my preferences, I rather deal with persons into devoted or extreme submission as Total Power Exchange rather than merely extreme masochism. Yet, from time to time I feel the sadistic craving to injure pain. On the other hand, if you plan on breaking one of my requisites, by order of importance, it is a turn off and lack of consideration that makes me turn my back.
In Portugal I have taken some active part in the community in the Past. Join the "Portugal" group in FL.
In the media (portuguese): Diário de Noticias: http://tinyurl.com/a8dd476
SIC:
Finally someone explains the privacy dangers of FL:
April 11th, Isabel Freire, the best selling author of "Fantasias er?as das mulheres portuguesas" (Portuguese women's erotic fantasies) interviewed me for an article titled ?retrato de um sadomasoquista? (portrait of a sadomasochist).
It was cover and main article of Saturday magazine inlet of Portuguese two century old daily newspaper, ?Di?o de Not?as?.
Although some loss of privacy, I do not regret accepting that exposure, neither loosing some false friends. I ended knowing better which were the real ones.
Digital version available online in some forums or you can seek for it in www.MestreSADE.com
In 2007, Portuguese private television network SIC contacted members of the BDSM scene for some interviews. The broadcast can be viewed here: ?" target="_blank"> ? My small contribution is on the end of the show.
I had a very interesting weekend in Germany with the only RL 24/7 TPE lifestyler couple I ever met. It was very fulfilling to find likeminded people. Trust me, there are very little out there...
