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Female Submissive, 41, Twin Cities, Minnesota
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Female Submissive, 40, London
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Male Dominant, 45, Boston area, Massachusetts
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About merrywench
I need to preface this by saying just a few things...
First: No, I do not expect you to be willing to be my one true love before we even IM. That said, I DO expect you to be available, emotionally and physically, for an actual relationship - complete with friendship, mutual respect, interesting conversation, care for each others' well-being - all that jazz. Please be interested in me as a person, and in sharing your person-ness with me. We should be able to have conversations about life, philosophy, TV and movies, hobbies, and so on - not just sex.
Second: if you're married and want to play behind your wife's back, do NOT contact me, period.
Third: I am a large woman/BBW/ Rubenesque/fat chick. If my body will be a problem for you, please let's not waste our time. Fat does not equal unfit or unsexy in my world.
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Now, about me:
I have known I was sub and kinky since long before I knew the words. I had my first fantasies of kidnapping, bondage, "non-consensual" acts before I was a teenager. I have explored in various ways, and still have lots to learn and explore.
I know that I do not fit into the all-too-often-expected role of a standard scene "sub" -- I am neither a doormat nor willing to pretend to be one. :) I have a brain, a mind, and a soul, and lots and lots of strong opinions. I will submit to you, when you/we choose, but I am NOT a 24/7 please-collar-me-and-run-my -life kind of girl.
I am submissive, but strong. I believe my strength (psychological, physical, intellectual) is what makes my submission meaningful.
I know a lot about what I need, but also am self-aware enough to know that I have much to learn.
Most of all, I want the romance, the whole package. The fact that we play rough, go intense places, is all made possible by our eventual deep and committed relationship. Do I ask a lot? Yup. And I want it badly enough to hold out for the real thing.
I hope you're it... |
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All I can say is, it was a surreal week last week. It was my spring break (yay! teachers get a week off, too!). I met a bunch of people from here - 3, to be precise - and 1 longtime friend from Alt dot you know what. None resulted in a relationship, but each had some nice stuff about it. (See earlier note about playing daddy/girl for the first time.) Still looking for that relationship, though...*sigh* |
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I just played daddy's girl for the first time a couple of nights ago.
Much to my surprise...it was amazing...
*Looks shocked and kind of turned on all at the same time.* |
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I hear there's a South Bay munch on Friday nights. Anyone know details? Go regularly? Know if it's friendly/good? |
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Well...it's been quite a week. Hooray for drama.  |
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