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merlotred

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merlotred - Male Submissive, Cedar Rapids Iowa | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About merlotred

From a young age, I have thoroughly enjoyed being disciplined and humiliated. I've come out of the closet, I have overcome my embarrassment. My closes friends know, Now the world knows with my profile.
I want to try new things! Quite frankly, I know little about the lifestyle. I seek a princesses to help me achieve my goal. I like being tied up, helpless, being talked to like the little bitch I am and at the complete mercy of someone I trust by faith. The idea of not being in control and having my limits push excites me. The idea of being humiliated exhilarates me. I do not yet fully know what I want, except I know I want to be a submissive.

A little about my personal life; I am a full time college student, with a part time job. I play an active role with my immediate family. I am a gentlemen who give the utmost courteous towards other. I'm am genuinely a nice guy and go out of my way for strangers.
Speaking of strangers, I am very outgoing! I find it fascinating to find all walks of life and gain their perspective, step into their shoes. I can carry conversations with people I barely know for hours. I am very chatty, and curious, sometimes to the point of annoying. I say the darndest things, sometimes what I mean to say doesn't come out exactly how I planned. I have bad habit of giving my two cents about anything. I ask too many question. I have always socialized with people who are older than me as a kid and now as an adult. People my own age bore me, I like to lessen.

I am freaky and geeky! I am focused in my studies! I don't give a dam what other people think, i am a free thinker. I dont judge, because I have no room to judge.

I don't think a dominate bone in my body exists,

Sorry boys, Looking for females only.

Hard limits,
no edge-play, SSC , IE No; asphyxiation, fire, knife, guns, scat, cutting, bloodplay or barebacking!
no kids, animals, drugs, diseases, & stupidity

Clean and sterile!

This is from that BDSM Quiz that I keep seeing on others' profiles. Its accurate
Submissive
93%
Experimental
93%
Bondage
79%
Switch
75%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur
75%
Masochist
61%
Sadist
57%
Dominant
18%
Vanilla
18%

things that intrigue me...
age play
after care
OTK spanking
BDSM
blindfolds
teasing
receiving discipline
handcuffs
rope
leather
lingerie
leashes
oral sex
good pain
scent
spanking
touching
bondage
hair pulling
humiliation
Body worship
giving massage
power exchange
1950's household

BDSM is far more than just pain...
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