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Male Dominant, 34, Brussels
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Male Dominant, 39, Palmyra, Pennsylvania
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Male Submissive, 31, blackpool
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About MerlinInChains
**NOTE fin-dommes, pro-dommes, and those for whom monetary exchange is a part of the relationship, please dont waste your time. Hard limit.**
(2nd February 2017)
Lifestyle male switch seeking friendships that have the potential, at least, for something long term.I have been in this lifestyle for over 30 years, and have few limits.
I began as a slutslave in a poly harem, and would be happy to find a visiting sub or part time position again. I lived primarily as a dominant before I left the lifestyle following the breakup of my last household. I have been away from BDSM almost entirely for the last few years.
Now I seek to return, and hope to reground myself as a submissive.I am not seeking shallow play andor just the kink (lovely as that may be). My heart is real, genuine, true, loyal and devoted.When serving, I am completely devoted, obedient and focused on pleasing the desires and obeying the commands of my dominant. That is all that matters.
Limits are few, and are based on safety concerns (scat, unsafe fluid exchange, perm damage, getting arrested) or ethical matters (kids, animals, nonconsent). I live for the smile or the pat on the head that says, good boy, I am pleased. Yes, you must win my admiration and respect, for it is not automatic as some seem to think, but once conquered, my devotion is essentially bottomless.
I realize that what I seek is quite rare and hard to find. I am open to discussing other arrangements, and love to make new friends. I am happy to teach what little I know, and eager always to learn new things. Please be aware, however, that I am not a casual player...my heart has to be involved to some degree or other.
I suppose I should mention appearance. I am old and I am fat, and if that bothers you, there is little I can do about it, other than to wish you joy, and watch you move on. I do not care what you look like, nor how old or young you may be, nor what ethnicity you may have been born to. I go by the heart and mind, although I have to admit to a preference for curvy women.
Quotidian details I am fairly well educated, have recently left a 30-year career in IT, and think of myself as fairly quick witted and perceptive. I have a rather mordant sense of humor, and eclectic tastes in art, music and literature. I am somewhat shy, and this produces an initial reserve that some take for arrogance. I look forward to making lots of new friends here...please, do drop me a line.
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Sigh.
I write with sorrow at the new prevalence of financial "dommes" on this site. I try always to be positive and upbeat, but I must vent this rage, lest it poison me.
Do you pay your friends, just to be your friends? If you do, you are deluding yourself about the nature of friendship. If you have to pay someone to love you, what is it that that person loves? You, your nature, your heart, your mind, your obedience, your devotion? or just the contents of your wallet? What are you to that person? Are you one who thrills the heart, makes joyous the thoughts, delights the body? Or are you simply a source of cash flow?
When it becomes a money transaction, I cannot ever have confidence that any feelings, opinions, thoughts expressed by the other person are genuine, or are simply being acted out for pay. No. In fact, FUCK NO! Go away. Go far away and do not pollute and demean my trust and devotion with your crass insincerity. |
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On the occasion of the Solstice, I extend to all Yuletide wishes of the joys of the season, and for great happiness in the coming year.
Wassail! |
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A happy New Year to all! I hope your solstice feasts (of whatever flavor) were joyous and brought you inner peace.?
I pray that in the coming year all of us experience growth, prosperity, challenge, healing, and joy in our bonds.
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