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| Insatiable libido... can you keep up with me?
A little about me:
*Intellectual, capable, rubenesque woman. (Let's be brutally honest here- overweight by way too much but have a pair of enormous G-cup assets to compensate..hehe.)
*Practical, level-headed and easy-going.
*Enjoy most cultural things- live theatre, music of many types (esp jazz and folk), a good view (harbour, south or north coast, national parks, gardens).
*Prefer socialising in small groups, delving into people's minds.
In you I am looking for:
* integrity and openness
*assertiveness, confidence, command, control but measured with an element of humility and caring.
* bonus points if you're a 702 listener!
I won't hang around:
* smokers (at least, not around me in any way or form- unless you want an allergic reaction on your hands)
*people who are pretentious or arrogant, gossips or bitchy (in girls or guys).
*people who can barely string an intelligible sentence together (including in your profile and any messages). Sorry, but I'm a 'grammar snob.' I won't judge your background, upbringing, education, etc, but I will judge your ability to communicate informatively via written text. This is not for the sake of being snotty, but it will guide me to know if we are able to communicate on a similar level.
*men who are just 'experimenting' with their 'dominance.'
*men who think that domination means getting their own way all the time, or simply, rough sex.
C'mon fellas- you'll know if you're a true Dominant. Be honest with yourself and with me about this matter. I've known that I'm a submissive my entire life.
Now, onto what I'm looking for in sex (oh, I forgot to mention, I'm really straight to the point- no inuendos here!):
*I'm looking for someone who can engage my mind, and through this, take control of my person.
*I am very assertive, feisty, cheeky and playful but I will naturally want to submit to you if you ignite my mind first. If you can really get my mind humming to your tune, I'll have no choice but to obey- my mindset will not allow me to protest. This is what I was born with. I cannot fight an urge to obey once guided. I do like to have fun and sometimes push your limits just for a laugh but if you truly capture my mind I'll obey you without question.
* I am a life-long-learner and happy to be taught, corrected or reprimanded when appropriate.
*I totally get-off on control- but not without the right mindset. I can orgasm just via imagination and words- you don't even have to touch me, but please go ahead anyway!
*I am not into costumes and toys just for the 'lifestyle.' This does not appeal to me greatly. I'm not into the 'scene' or parties, etc. However, I do like the idea of roleplay, despite not having experienced this for real so far.
*For me, D/s starts and develops, first and foremost, in the mind. But leading from that, I want real sex- none of this internet stuff, thanks. Call me old-fashioned if you must, but I like things for real.
*Did I mention that I want actual sex as part of the play? Not just 'play' or oral (or other) stimulation.
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What power art thou, who from below
Hast made me rise unwillingly and slow
From beds of everlasting snow?
See'st thou not how stiff and wondrous old
Far unfit to bear the bitter cold,
I can scarcely move or draw my breath?
Let me, let me freeze again to death.
Purcell- King Arthur- What Power Art Thou |
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Just received a lovely message from someone who asked me if I was a rude bitch. Here's my reply:
Sorry, I have no idea who you are. I don't tend to be rude to anyone so don't know what you're talking about.
If you thought I was rude, why would you bother to contact me?
I, at least, bother to reply to people. If I'm not interested, I will be polite but tell them I don't think we're on the same page.
And I certainly don't send messages to random people accusing anyone of being rude/stupid/lame, even if their profile indicates this.
The moral of this story is, if you don't have something nice to say, don't bother saying it. It only highlights YOUR poor character, not mine. |
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Hello
I'm sorry for the delay in replying the last couple of days to those that sent me messages. I had the site open but was out at the time or was browsing the forums (then forgot to close the connection).
Not feeling too well last couple of days so not sure when I'll get a chance to be back. Hopefully not too long.
cheerio, meouw
In the meantime, here is a little collection of quotes of note:
I myself am made entirely of flaws, stitched together with good intentions.
*Augusten Burroughs*
You have to penetrate a woman's defences. Getting into her head is a prerequisite to getting into her body.
*Bob Guccione*
To tame a tiger one has to know its nature.
*Unknown author*
Discipline isn't just punishing, forcing compliance or stamping out bad behavior. Rather, discipline has to do with teaching proper deportment, caring about others, controlling oneself and putting someone else's wishes before one's own when the occasion calls for it.
*Lawrence Balter*
What is passion? It is surely the becoming of a person. Are we not, for most of our lives, marking time? Most of our being is at rest, unlived. In passion, the body and the spirit seek expression outside of self. Passion is all that is other from self. Sex is only interesting when it releases passion. The more extreme and the more expressed that passion is, the more unbearable does life seem without it. It reminds us that if passion dies or is denied, we are partly dead and that soon, come what may, we will be wholly so.
*John Boorman*
The fact is that love is of two kinds—one which commands, and one which obeys. The two are quite distinct, and the passion to which the one gives rise is not the passion of the other.
*Honoré De Balzac* |
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I'm back.. following the death of my last relationship! Well, not really a death, more like a subtle ending.
Looking for life, love and fulfilment. Who isn't, huh? |
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Why is it that when someone sends an email, they don't include a photo (if there isn't one in their profile)? Why do they not bother to write more than a word or two? Is this an indication of the level they are willing to go to in a relationship? Merely, on the surface? Brief encounters? Momentary meetings?
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| Age: 32 |
| Ventura,
California |
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