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Male Switch, 46, st louis, Missouri
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Male Dominant, 41, Dallas, Texas
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Dominant Couple, 30, San Diego, California
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About MentatSensualist
I'm different, a one-in-a-million Woman and Domme
My goal, ?ultimately, is to have a 24/7 relationship; this means living together unless there is a MAJOR good reason to live apart. This does NOT mean D/s sex 24/7 but I do expect a negotiated TPE.
Absolutely NOT looking for a doormat. Want a mature human.
I have some basic ground rules: ?
1.No married subs and that includes committed relationships. ?I know that discreet is code for a side relationship outside of a marriage. ?I am a discreet person but not interested in being your back-door Domme.
2. ?I have kids. ?If that is a negative to you then this will go nowhere.
3. ?I don't call people I don't know. See #2. ?I will email first and then chat online if I have time. ?We can talk after that if I think you have potential.
4. ?I'm not here to be lead on or to be your wank fantasy. ?
5. you have to be mature; not a?commitment?phobe and not an addict. ?That includes addictions to drama, work, sports and being online as well as the typical alcohol/drug stuff. 420 friendly but I do not personally live at 420 Khronic Avenue. I haven't even visited lately. I do think it's a place adults should be allowed to go.
6. I am disease-free
(although I do have arthritis.)? Please also be disease-free.? When it comes to that time, we can get tested together.
?????????????? What I seek:
A submissive/slave who wants a deep, intense, meaningful relationship. Someone who absolutely yearns to adore and to serve.?
What I am looking for is a QUALITY sub who is searching for a one-in-a-million Domme.
I understand that you will have a life. A job is important or if retired, then something that gives meaning and a feeling of accomplishment. I am not interested in extended cyber relationships.
I do want & expect us to get to know each other through email and talking but I won't go for months on end without meeting. you MUST BE SERIOUS ABOUT MEETING and within a reasonable timeframe.
Also, I'm not currently in a position to fully support a "wife"/sub/slave/hubby/mate.? Thus you must be able to contribute to the household expenses.
I have a wide range of experience in the D/s realm. ?I also have a lot of 'vanilla' life experience and interests. I have a great sense of humor and a VERY caring, nurturing?temperament.
I am open to?cuckoldry but BY NO MEANS IS THIS A REQUIREMENT FOR ME.?
I don't have to have everything on the 'laundry list' to be satisfied.
I have very dainty feet and I love to have them rubbed and adored. I love shoes and boots and have a few 'fun' pairs of each.
If you come right out of the box being overly sexual, I will be turned off. If you can't hold a good conversation, we aren't meant to be together.
Most things are open for discussion. I DO NOT switch, so that is not open.?
I try to answer messages a soon as I can. ?Please be patient. ?I'm not online 24/7. ?If we become friends, you will be given other ways to reach me.
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Attn: Domme/Ladies:
TheIronHorse is another asshat. Wants what HE wants, when HE wants it. NOT a sub of any sort. BOTTOM and demanding one at that. |
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I find it appalling how often I form a connection with a so-called submissive on this site, devote time to nurturing the relationship and get my emotions engaged all for nought.
What are you thinking when you date me for a month or more and then just disappear?
What are you thinking when you start out talking to me for 3 hours at a time, calling several times per day, texting, making plans, etc. all while your previous relationship is not resolved?
What are you thinking when you make repeated promises and repeatedly break them with no credible excuse?
What exactly ARE you thinking? Are you thinking at all? |
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I have updated my 5/3/2010 entry to reflect my personal patterns and tastes. |
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Ladies,
sub2females
Is a fake and a jerk who will lead you on, insult you then block you.
STAY AWAY |
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I don't do a lot of journaling but I read the following and feel very strongly that this is my role. I have edited the original to more strongly reflect my specific personality:
To most submissive males, Domestic Discipline is the holy grail of loving Femdom
relationship. Living in a household where rules are clearly defined by a
superior female authority (the dominant "wife") is the core of the Femdom
lifestyle and a source of inspiration for most Femdom couples.
In a loving Femdom relationship, domestic discipline stands for hierarchic order
within a family using disciplinary acts and punitive measures to enforce the
dominant wife's authority over the submissive male husband. While this may take the form of a female Sadist and a masochistic "hubby" I personally am more about Dominant behaviors and expectations. I am more than willing to use punishments as corrections but I don't get a thrill out of doing so. What I want most deeply is for my submissive to learn to ANTICIPATE my wants, my desires, my needs and thus to want to meet those with every fiber of his/her being.
This lifestyle is
very real, where couples are making a conscious decision to incorporate
discipline and authority into their day to day life. I am a natural leader and fully believe that my authority comes from my capabilities and not my gender/anatomy.
The boundaries are clearly laid and actions have consequences. Those boundaries
are typically enforced by the dominant wife on a 24/7 basis. In some cases, a
stern look is all it takes to put the submissive male husband back in line, but
occasionally losing a privilege or exercising physical punishment is far more
effective in making a point. I have learned well how to manage all these point as a result of having raised children.
Domestic discipline is a recipe for true happiness to both parties. It enables a
LOVING and NURTURING relationship usually far greater than in most modern
households, since there is no power struggle between the genders. The submissive
husband simply accepts the dominant wife's role as mentor, protector and
disciplinarian. The wife has the last word, period. The husband is willing to
accept absolute control over his life, financially, sexually and socially,
because he understands that this disciplinary arrangement is driven by the LOVE of his dominant wife and that she will only correct his ways for his own benefit.
There is a very intriguing aspect to this lifestyle, that is how to act in
public, such as how to behave in front of the kids, family dinners, or going out
with friends. Some couples are totally open about their lifestyle, while others
maintain a secretive way of life which they only practice behind closed doors,
but it is always very clear who makes the final decision. For me, being rather subtle is my strong suit. I prefer to discipline privately unless the submissive merits and NEEDS public humiliation.
The intensity of domestic discipline is so immense that there are truly endless
possibilities to this lifestyle. Rome was not built in a day, and so are Femdom
relationships. Domestic discipline sets the perfect stage to grow such
relationship overtime, where the wife gradually embraces her dominant role and
the submissive husband learns to treat his wife as the Goddess she is. It is
really all about LOVE, MUTUAL RESPECT and the freedom to make your own choices
in life. |
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