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Male Switch, 36, colorado springs, Colorado
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About MDragonfly
I have been disillusioned with the lifestyle for some time now. It seems as if there are a lot of people who can't even be honest with themselves much less someone they approach for a meeting. This has led to many disappointments. I took a break but know in my heart I need a relationship that incorporates an ongoing and continuous power exchange.
So this is what I am looking for:
I would like to find someone who is willing to grow together and eventually live together. The man I have in mind is Alpha in his day to day life and someone no one would ever believe is submissive. He is successful and able to make my life easier by the addition of him in it. A potential slave must be willing to give 100% effort to growing as a couple. A power exchange relationship must function in the vanilla world so he should be willing to have me in the vanilla part of his life and he be in the vanilla part of mine. He should be able to commit the time necessary for us to get to know each other. We will need to know that we are compatible, because no matter how enslaved someone is if the whole is not compatible then a live in Ds is doomed to fail.
We both must understand that life is full of real world commitments and that a real world power exchange will not always be naked house cleaning and on demand body worship. Sometimes dinner and bed time will be all we can manage.
Family is very important to me and should be to my partner as well. A man who tells me he can just up and leave his kids is not someone I want to be with. I expect and understand that if you have children, aging parents, other family issues you will need to be there for them. I will support you and them just as I expect you to be there for my family issues. And as a couple we will face family issues together.
I am a sadist, and as such need a slave who is at least a bit masochistic. With out some masochism it just doesn't do it for me. While I love to see a man suffer, it turns me on, I don't believe someone should suffer all the time with out some pleasure.
I am very sexual, I love to be the whore and slut. I love aggressive sex, that doesn't mean I give up control when I am fucking, it just means that do me men that need to be told when to move here and how to move there every single time we have sex are not my cup of tea.
I hate to admit this but I am a romantic, I want to be in-love with my slave, to care for him as much as he for me. I want to grow old with him.
If this sounds like what you are looking for please consider sending me an email and we can chat to see if we have some compatibility.
But if you are just looking to play or you only think you "might like being a slave" please pass this profile by. |
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My first picture is me skydiving for my 50th birthday. I am embracing my second half of a century with all the gusto I can muster. Want to join me? Lets explore and create grand adventures. |
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Boston again for the 4th of July, would any interesting elegant gentleman like to share a spot of grass on the Charles for the fireworks? |
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Heading to Boston March 2-4th if you know of any kink events that weekend please send me an Email. |
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And if you see this Gent here is my reply: "And you are a fucking asshole and unlike you I happen to be quite happy with myself." |
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TheGent is a complete coward. First begging to chat then when turned down resorts to childishness, but instead of allowing a reply he blocks messages. How sad that he has no life.
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I don't usually do this but unworthyhuman you are a very rude man, I attempted to answer you twice but you have me blocked. So get over yourself and think before you send nasty messages.
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I am sorry to say that I need to be specific here. I am not interested in CD's while I love them as friends I am not looking to own any man who wants to be feminized. I would think the complete lack of references to CDs in my profile description would make that abundantly clear how ever this is not the case. So let me state it here.
If you want to be force femmed, if you like dressing in womens clothing in any way shape or form then we are not right for each other. So please do not message me asking for my time. |
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The new pictures are some of my fetish designs. I am delving into the world of fetish fashions. If you are interested please drop me an email.
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Hello All,
I am Katherine, Madam Dragonfly from the Albany, New York area. I am in the process of writing an article about depression in lifestyle dominant individuals. I am not sure what direction the article will take but I am soliciting anecdotes from others with regards to their own personal experiences with this mental illness. I would like input from both dominant and submissive types, as well as those in and out of relationships. I am looking for input on how it affected your dynamics and strategies that you and your partners used to deal with the situation. Privacy will be respected, I will only quote from a story if ok?d by the writer and their partner(s) and then only with pseudonyms.
I believe the article will provide insight and strategies to others as well as providing a way for me to examine my own feelings and issues with regards to my own depression. I will be collecting material until the end of February 2009. Any anecdotes can be emailed to me here .
Please repost freely to other sites and groups you belong to as the more input I get the better the article will be.
Thank you for your time.
Katherine |
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A new picture with a few more to come in a couple of days. Happy New Year to you all. |
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I am a non-monogamous woman. I truly believe that no one person can satisify all of my needs and I believe this is true with most individuals. However society has manipulated most of us to believe that we have to stifle some of those needs in order to be happy with one individual. I will not stifle my needs nor do I expect others to. This does not mean that I don't have comitted relationships rather the reverse the relationships I have are deep, long term and comitted, they are strong bonds meant to grow and be nurturing. If one can understand the boundries of my life they just might fit into it.
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How much cowardice does it take to insult someone in email and then block them? |
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New Pictures
Finally I have a few new pictures. I was at a party this past weekend and took advantage of the ambiance to get some lovely dungeon pictures. I also had a wonderful time playing with my first fully transistioned transgender. |
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Don't call me mistress. The privilage of calling me mistress has been earned by only a few excellent submissives. If you can ever live up to their level with me you might earn the privilage as well, but starting out with that word just leads me to believe that you have been to too many chat rooms. My name is Katherine, use it, it works. If you have a need to use some title then try Ms or Miss or Madam, but Mistress should be earned by both the dominant and submissive. Other wise it looses it's importance and becomes no more important then a store clerk calling you ma'am. |
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Tips for subs who want to meet me... and other female dominants.
1) Read my profile, and don't just see the words you want to, but see them all, if there are things there you love and I don't mention them it's quite likely I am not interested in them. So think on that before messaging me. If on the other hand something is in Bold, Capital Letters or Highlighted you want to make sure you're at least somewhere close to those interests.
2) Be clever, telling me that you're very submissive is something every other sub who messages me says. Originality is a wonderful trait for a sub to have.
3) Don't be a pest if I don't return your email for a day or two it's likely because I am a mom and a nurse who works evenings and nights. I have other things to do then anxiously await your email.
4) No, means no, means... no. No matter how much fun begging can be in the dungeon being nagged by someone I have no interest in just pisses me off and you're likely to be put on the ignore list.
5) Know what your wants and needs might be. Hell if you're just starting out you still likely have ideas of what you want to explore.
6) Expect to communicate, to talk to me about what is inside you.
7) Don?t rush me for further contact on the other hand don?t hold off to long or I will likely loose interest. (Ask me, if I say not now then don?t push but if we have chatted for several weeks and your still not willing to talk to me on the phone then I start to wonder what you have to hide.)
8) Don?t hide things from me, if you?re in some sort of committed relationship say so, if not and I find out later there will be hell to pay. And I will find out later.
9) If I turn you down, it just wasn?t right, please try not to take it too much to heart.
10) If I turn you down and you ask why, then be prepared to deal with the truth. I don?t sugar coat things.
11) If I turn you down DO NOT ask me if I have a friend who might like to meet you. First off most of my female friends are submissive and secondly I don?t pay attention to that sort of shit.
12) If I turn you down, don?t try to goad me into anything by saying the totally stupid line, ?I thought you were real.? In the first place real is in the eye of the beholder, and to let you in on a big secret, someone who is confident in who they are doesn?t need to prove anything so they will just likely laugh at you. Where as someone who might just be out for cyber or a cheep thrill will take the bait and try to prove they are real to you.
13) If I turn you down, insulting me only makes you look a fool and gives me a good laugh.
14) Finally if you?re self-defined Dom, don?t even bother with any of the above. I am just not interested.
This is just a short list of the things that have popped up since I am back on the prowl for new blood. While these tips won?t work with all dominants, they might help with some.
Katherine |
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