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	About mdmnatalia WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites - You do not have my permission to use any of my pictures, information from my profile, or anything I post in any of the forums or groups on this website in any form or forum both current or future without prior written consent. You do not have my permission to copy, save, print, or re-post my pictures or information without prior written consent. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to all legal remedies. So you want to know more about me…. The best way to get to know me is definitely to meet me in person, but if you haven’t had the honor and are dying to know more now you can chat with me online, and/or send me a message. In the meantime here are some basic things about me… I'm a year old African-American (mixed heritage actually) Lifestyle Dominant that knows what she wants and knows how to get it. When asked how I identify I state that I am a queer, poly, femme, dominant, sadist with a strong mommy side. I’m slow to anger and have a great deal of patience, but you definitely don’t want to get on my bad side. I rarely drink and don’t smoke or do drugs. I have many interests in BDSM and out. Some of my interests include the arts, fine dining, traveling (I would love to visit Brazil, Puerto Rico, Cuba, some places in Mexico, Hawaii, Europe -- specifically France & Italy). I also enjoy camping, fishing, and boating. I recently embarked upon a new journey of holistic health and have started yoga, tai chi and dance again. I also love to read, learn and explore. My interests in BDSM range from bondage/impact play to body worship (I can be both sensual and extremely sadistic). I am very active in the BDSM & Queer Communities in NYC Metro area … President/Chair of a NYC based women and trans BDSM group and active member of several other groups. And, I volunteer for everything. I’m also involved in various non-BDSM related groups whose purpose is to empower women in different ways. Important Note: Because I am actively looking and I know how people don't always read your entire profile I wanted to make something clear so no time is wasted... I'm a BBW and if you don't find women with some extra weight attractive then I'm not the one for you. Although I am losing weight for health reasons I am very comfortable in my skin and only want someone who is attracted to me at any size. I believe that physical attraction is important and won't hold anything against someone who doesn't get hot at the idea of me stomping on them with my boots or leaving marks with the multitude of canes I possess. What I’m Looking for (not in order of preference): Looking for a decent amateur photographer in the Atlanta area. I don’t have much of a budget so I’m willing to barter. Send a message here and I will give you my email address where you can send samples of your work. Friends: I’m looking to develop friendships with others who share my interests. I’m looking for offline friends more than online but I’m open to either. I’m especially interested in developing friendships with women in the Atlanta area. Bi/lesbian/straight/single/married/sub/domme/switch doesn't matter. You just have to love the lifestyle as much as I do... I do adore women so if it becomes more than just friends I'm okay with that too just friends I'm okay with that too If you are looking to establish new friendships feel free to write me. Play Partners: I’m looking for people who share my interests and that I enjoy spending time with/playing with on an ongoing basis. I am not looking for one time play dates. I like to take the time to get to know the people I’m playing with. I find the levels of intensity reached to be much more to my liking. I am interested in available females, transmen, and/or queer couples (triads, etc – I’m poly and open to many dynamics). I am NOT a switch so you must be interested in bottoming to me. If you are in a relationship your partner must, at a minimum, be aware of the relationship. I DO NOT tolerate liars and/or cheaters. I like to get to know the people I’m playing with before I play with them so expect to correspond online to determine compatibility and then to meet in person. Do not expect to play the first time we meet. I like to keep things relaxed and informal. A “getting to know you” meeting. After that we’ll see how it goes. Just a note: You do not have to be submissive to bottom to me. Masochist are extremely welcome. Also, note that I tend not to mix sex with my play but I am open to exploring the possibilities with the right people. However, I do NOT have "traditional" intercourse with cisgender men. A new personal position is available... I'm looking for a sex slave. Someone who's entire purpose is to serve me sexually. Whether or not this sub/slave is allowed an orgasm is determined purely on whether or not they please me. There will be no traditional intercourse. I may decide to fuck you but don't get your hopes up... it's all about me. The requirements: You must enjoy oral, face sitting/queening, body worship, giving massages, and squirters. Free of sexually transmitted diseases; do not smoke cigarettes; a little extra weight is okay for females but males must be in good shape. You must be able to host at your place or be okay with serving me in semi-public spaces. You have to have minimal commitments (i.e., career/family). You must be available when I call or have a very good reason why you aren't. This is a long-term commitment... could turn into friends w/benefits or sub/slave position but that is not expected. Looking to fill this position ASAP so send a full body picture with your message. Be ready to meet and possible serve right away. P.S. Discipline will be given to those that give mediocre service. Masochist/Slut: This position is will start as a non-collared position. The masochist/slut must either love strapon play or be a masochist. If you’re both that’s a big plus. They can serve other Dominants but I will place restrictions on their play in the weeks preceding a play date (I hate the word session) with me. A few added requirements: They must have their own place or can make other arrangements. Boy Toy (not gender specific): I am looking for a casual but long-term boy toy. I am looking for a boy toy in the true sense of the word. I want someone to play with when I want to play with them. A “toy”. BUT, there are very particular requirements for this position. #1: Age – the range is 21-45 for females 25-60 for males (35-45 is preferred) #2: Marital Status: Single preferred. I don’t accept toys who are married unless their spouse is aware and accepting of their outside interests. #3: Appearance – If male, they must be taller than me (I’m 5’3) the taller the better, muscular (not body builder but athletic/cut), and attractive (by my standards so send a photo). #4: Personal habits: They will NOT smoke cigarettes in my presence (I may give you a cigarette break if I’m feeling nice). They will NOT have a substance abuse problem. They will be free of sexually transmitted diseases. #5: Interests: They must be interested in strap-on play. If they share some of my other BDSM related interests that is great and if they are a masochist that’s a definite plus…. Last but more importantly… #6: They MUST be sexually submissive. This is 100% about me. They must understand what it means to serve someone. This could possibly turn into a collared position but as it stands this is an uncollared position. The only claim I will put on the applicant is that they do not serve any other Dominant if they are accepted. Domestic servant/errand boy/girl: This position is a purely domestic position and as such is a non-collared position. The duties are as follows: laundry, washing dishes, cleaning, and minor repairs. Also, they may act as a chauffeur and take me to run errands, go shopping, etc. They must be available some weekends during the day. Note: having a vehicle is preferred but if you don’t have one I can work around that. Also, this position could lead to a long-term collared position. Slave: I am looking for a full-time D/s relationship not a vanilla relationship sprinkled with kinky sex (nothing wrong with it it’s just not my thing). I’m not looking to fulfill someone’s fantasy of “24/7” slavery. I’m a very realistic dominant; I know that literal 24/7 is not possible. However, total power exchange is. And that is what I am looking for. I’m looking for a slave (perhaps more than 1) to serve me in all ways, in a long-term D/s relationship. The slave that I choose is a natural submissive. They are not governed by their fetishes but rather the desire to please their Mistress/Master/Goddess etc. They live to serve not live for bondage or foot worship, etc. This does not mean that they will not experience those things with me. But they should not expect anything. They will be over 21. They will NOT smoke cigarettes (even outside of my presence). They will NOT have a substance abuse problem. They will be free of sexually transmitted diseases. The slave will be intelligent and mature. They will be extremely open-minded. Not just sexually but in all things. They will share many of my interests or be willing to explore those with me. As far as physical appearance goes, they will be attractive and fit. As it is said “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” so I will be the one to say if they are attractive to me. As far as gender goes, I am queer and my preference is women. However, all of my past slaves have been male and I would consider another male slave if I felt he had the qualities that I am looking for. Should I choose a male slave they must understand that my preference is women and that will not change. My feelings for men will never equal that of women. I will never be “madly” in love with them. It is possible that I will grow to care for them deeply but that is all. They will understand that although I will feel more for women I keep my slaves for life (if they serve me well), and they should not worry that my taking a female slave will make me dismiss them. Should I choose a female slave later they must understand that I will not give up a good male slave for them. Should I choose a male slave they must understand there will be NO "vanilla" sex. I do not have intercourse with men. I will not perform oral sex on a man. I MAY allow oral worship to be performed on me, but that is a privilege that they must earn. I do enjoy strap-on play with males so they may experience that with me. In addition, the slave that I choose must be single. I will consider couples as slaves only if they are both submissive. I am a very strict but loving dominant. I expect a lot but I do not expect my slaves to know everything right away. I put a lot of time and effort into training the slave to be MY “perfect slave”, to at some point be able to anticipate my needs and desires. That being said, before contacting me think about what you are really looking for and if you are truly ready to serve as a slave. If you have not learned to embrace your submissive nature do not contact me hoping to be my slave until you do. It is possible that I will be willing to provide you with resources to help you in this but I will not waste time training someone who will decide a month from now that this lifestyle is not for them. So be ready. If you think you are and feel you meet my requirements then write to me. If you would like to be considered for any of the positions you must send an introductory note including the following: Why you would like to serve ME. What you are looking for and what experience you have in the position you seek. If you are applying to be my slave, boy toy and/or masochist + slut you must also include a photo (NOT fully nude). If you really want to serve in any of these positions and are unsure if you meet the requirements just sent a message to that effect stating clearly why you are applying and what qualifications you feel you meet and which you don’t. If I feel you have potential and want to explore the possibilities with you I will reply. Remember… be honest in your messages because if you lie and I find out about it later that could (most likely) be grounds for dismissal. Also, be prepared to meet in person shortly after being accepted as a potential. That is all for now. Be well and be safe!!! ~Lady N

I had to take a bit of a hiatus from collarme and other sites but I'm back now. So if you sent me a message in the last few months you should see a reply in the next few days. I will reply to pretty much all messages.

I had quite a few messages in my inbox so I've only responded to those in the last few weeks. If you sent a message and I didn't reply do send another and I will be sure to respond. All the best... Lady N

Dear Admirers/Friends,

I apologize for being MIA the last few months. I've had some computer & medical issues, but I'm 100% back now and looking to reconnect. If you've sent me a message I will respond to all of them, it just might take me some time to catch up. However, I will be responding to all new messages right away.

Enjoy your day and I hope to connect with all of you soon.

Best wishes,

Lady N

Another Update: If we have scheduled to meet and I had to cancel several times, but you still would like to meet - contact me again. My schedule has changed drastically as of the last week or so and I am much more accessible. I do not like when people flake on me so I will do my best not to flake on you again.

Update: I'm no longer looking for a sex slave at this time. I'm only interested in friends/play partners or long-term subs/slaves. I will be updating my profile soon.

Just to clarify... You do not have to be a live-in to serve me. That is only one of many dynamics that interest me.

Major Update: Over the next 6 months or so I will be deciding if I am going to live in NYC or Atlanta. It will mostly be determined by who I decide to take on as a live-in slave. And if they can easily relocate. I am looking to have a household with at most 3 slaves. One of them being female and one being a black or mixed race possibly even a hispanic male who is bisexual and can be an alpha top over my white male subs/slaves as directed. This is desired not required. If you are interested in this household dynamic you can send me a message but be prepared to chat via IM, phone, and be available to meet shortly after chatting. It is important to determine compatibility right away so we are not wasting each others time.

I had to take a little hiatus to make some major decisions, but I am back and still open to meeting new friends & subs/slaves.

FYI: If we've been chatting and you see that I've made a journal post that I'm looking for something and you meet that just tell me. I speak to alot of people so I may not have realized that that was your interest as well.

Looking for a cuck that has a spare room that I can use to host (or I can take over your room). You may even be allowed to watch but be assured you will be bound and unable to masturbate. Race/age/looks are unimportant as you won't be serving me sexually anyway. I may allow you to serve me and my guest(s) food/drinks, etc and serve as a whipping boy but that is it. If this sounds good to you send me a message. You must live somewhere in the Atlanta metro area.

I'm looking for a painslut that enjoys anal play who I can torture in person as well as by cam and also where I can photograph and video/voice record my torturing of them. Your face does not need to be shown. The photos and recordings will be posted on my website but also on some of my profiles on various sites. You must be in the Atlanta area or travel here often as that is where I spend much of my time. I am looking for any gender but if you are male I have a recently discovered preference for attractive, tall (6'2+), white, european, or mixed race men that are over 200lbs but in shape. Don't be discouraged if you do not fit that as I enjoy playing with people of all colors, shapes, and sizes. Note I am looking for a long-term play dynamic potentially turning into more.

Traveling back to Atlanta... had a wonderful time in NYC. Didn't play as much as I thought but quality is more important than quantity. I had a wonderful play date with sub j. I love being able to let my sadistic side come out. I was able to finally give the caning that I've been wanting to give for some time. And of course I always enjoy our connection. It makes our play much more intense. We've discussed adding D/s to our dynamic in the future and I think that will make our connection even stronger... I also met a new boy on Saturday night. He's a novice but eager to learn/please. I didn't bring toys because I wasn't planning to play but we did do some foot worship, hair pulling, breath play (choking), and I introduced him to a little cbt. All with my bare hands... So all in all I had a wonderful day which made my trip that much more enjoyable. Looking forward to July already!

LOL... I'm so flattered. Someone actually blocked me and I wasn't even the pursuer. I don't pursue anyone. If they don't keep in touch I move on. I must have been too much for them that they didn't want the temptation of receiving a message from me. *wink*

In NY... Yeah! Going to be at Paddles tomorrow night. Have plans in the works but may not work out. Anyone want to play?

How sweet... someone who thinks the dirt from under my shoes is a wonderful birthday gift.

Traveling to NYC. I'll be in town tomorrow (6/20) until next Wednesday (6/26) possibly longer. If you want to meet while I'm in town send me a message here or chat with me on yahoo.

Just realized I can get collarme on my phone so I'll be able to respond to messages after all.

Leaving for NY today. Probably won't be able to check messages until later tomorrow. I will be able to chat on yahoo, through text, or email. So if you have my contact info get in touch with me I'll be traveling all night.

Leaving for NY tomorrow... Yeah!

3 more days until I leave for NY. If you want to meet me while I am in town you should be in contact with me soon. And everyday thereafter so you can stay high up on my list of people to spend time with.

Okay... I've said this before but I'll say it again. Do not contact me if you are not serious and ready to serve. And if you are chosen to be my slave you will be required to sign a contract with a minimum of one year of service. Or a lifetime service contract depending on the type of service. Play partners are not required to sign a contract of course.

I'm looking for a bi guy in NYC or New Jersey. I have a very eager boy ready to suck your cock. You must be able to host or get a hotel room. Send me a message if you are interested.

Okay you might be wondering... why is she looking for switch men? I need a bi-sexual man that takes instructions from me but will enjoy participating in forced-bi scenes as a co-top of sorts. I run the show but you are my tool to torture my other slaves. I'm looking for someone who is black or mixed race and very well endowed. You must be d/d free.

If you are interested contact me. If you are you must be local or able to travel to NYC and/or Atlanta often.

All the best.

Lady N

I really try not to put all subs/slaves that contact me on here in the same box but sometimes it is hard not to. So many have contacted me and either have no intention of meeting or just looked at my photo not reading the profile that I put alot of work into writing. There really is no excuse for not reading someone's profile since this site is free. I know mine is long but it's long for a reason. So that you are clear on what I am looking for and can determine if you fit that. I do have admirers from a distance but that is different. They tell me upfront that they can only admire me from afar and I welcome their messages. But the rest of you have no excuse. From now on you must name one place I would love to visit so I know you've read my profile. If you can't do that then you can't follow simple instructions and I'm not interested in talking to you.

I'm very real. Prove that you are too.

~ Lady N

Yippee... counting down to my NY trip... 9 days before I leave for NYC.

My NY trip is fast approaching. If you want to meet me while I am in town you must send me a message soon.

All the best.

Lady N

For those that have contacted me about blackmail & financial domination... I am not a financial domme. I don't have the time or patience for the games. If you're looking for someone that is going to spend time humiliating you and trying to convince you to cough up your money you'd best look elsewhere. Not to say there aren't real financial slaves out there; just that unless you have something else going for you I'm probably going to say no thanks.

I can't believe how easy it was to setup a train... lol... 2 days and 10 guys. But my girl can't come until the end of the month. *pouts*

I'm planning my next NY trip... there are quite a few subs that want to serve me in the area so I'm going to do "interviews" while I am in town. And potentially play with more than just my pain slut.

If you want to meet send me a message and be ready to have a detailed chat. I won't meet unless I have a feeling we might be compatible because lets face it... there are more subs then dommes and why waste time on someone who isn't going to meet my needs... Just being honest.

I'll be in town the week of June 17th for about a week. Be ready to meet. No bs, no games. You'll only get one chance.

Happy hunting!

~Lady N

Three days later and I have 7 interested guys. But I also have two couples looking for a white girl. So, if you are a local sub bi white girl that loves big black cock let me know. I'll be involved in any encounter so you can be assured of your safety.

All the best.

~ Lady N

Yippee! I have my first hung black man for my girl. 1 down 9 more to go to complete her train. I also almost forgot... I need a white male with a nice size cock but a very large mushroom head for a black female friend of mine. You must be able to travel to CT for her. This encounter will be done in front of me and her husband. Contact me for details.

Call me the matchmaker... lol

Kisses,

Lady N

I am looking for hung black males for my white male slaves to suck and be fucked by. I want to setup a gangbang too. I have one possible slave in NYC and one in Atlanta. Send a photo with your reply. Serious responses only!

My website it almost ready... yippee. If you want to know when it's up just message me. It will probably be up tomorrow, Sunday, May 19th.

I had to reset my yahoo messenger account and lost some contacts. If you want to be added back to my list just send me a message there. ~ Lady N

One thing I recently realized is that some subs/slaves have been taught to never initiate contact. But because I receive so many requests it's out of site out of mind. Don't wait for me to contact you because unless we are setting up a meeting I've moved on to the next sub/slave.

If you want to show you are serious about meeting then be persistent. I'll tell you if you become a pest.

Also, if you're just looking for online then be honest about it. I have more than my share of cam sluts and I'd rather focus my free time on the ones that already serve me online or may serve me real time.

If you've read my profile and aren't sure you qualify or don't know where you would fit in then just ask. I promise not to bite the first time around.

All the best...

~ Lady N

I found my oral slave! It's rare to find someone who delivers 100% on the first meeting, but he did. Everything he said in his messages/phone conversations were true. No games, no drama. Just the way I like it.

Ladies if you are in the Atlanta metro area or Savannah, GA and are looking for good oral pleasure let me know. I am willing to loan him out. The only condition is that I must be there. And if you're bi even better you could have both of us please you orally. *winks*

Now that I've found my oral slave I'm not looking for male sex partners. Only females or couples. However, if you share some of my interests in BDSM acts (see my profile) then I'm still open to meeting you. And I'm always open to new clients for pro sessions.

Best wishes,

Lady N

My plans for today (Thurs.) and Friday didn't work out. If you are interested in meeting send a message. Serious inquiries only.

Okay... I have to jump on my soap box for a minute. These are my pet peeves if you do them I will ignore you. No exceptions.

1) Send a one word message (i.e. hello) and have nothing of substance in your profile.

2) Send a generic copy & paste message.

3) Send me dozens of messages about how you want to serve and then disappear. Or go through the process of setting up a meeting date but don't respond when I'm confirming (I always confirm).

4) Send friendship requests without sending an introductory message.

5) Send explicit emails and photos without asking for permission. If I wanted to see your cock I would tell you.

6) Send a message telling me all about what you want... like I care. I'll make sure you get what you need but I could care less about what you want.

This is not a pet peeve but if you are only looking for cam sessions you'd best look elsewhere. I have two cam sluts already and don't have time for more. I prefer to spend my time on them and the subs/slaves that serve me real-time.

If you don't do one of these things I will respond to your message.

Off soap box now.

P.S. I am a nice person really... lol... some things just get under my skin.

My New York trip will be around May 15-20. Saturday & Sunday are pretty busy so I can only add in clients those days. There is only one exception to that. The rest of the days I can come into Manhattan for lunch, dinner, or just drinks. My website will have an appointment scheduler but for now just send me a private message here.

For those subs/slaves that have contacted me in the past... don't be discouraged by my journal posts. When a position is filled I will change my profile to mark it as filled. Because of the amount of flakes out there I don't consider the position filled until I collar them. Or as in the case of play partners the position is always open. The only position that is restricted in the amount of people that can serve me is that as a 24/7 live in slave. I only have the desire to train at most 3 people to be in my household 24/7. If you have any questions about serving me just ask. All the best... Lady N

If all goes well I'll have my first pro session this Thursday and with a woman no less. It's going to be a long one (6 hours) so I'm doing all the prep work now (picking the stores creating the shopping list, etc). I never knew how exciting it would be to turn a classy executive woman into a slut for the day. Complete with shopping for sexy clothes and lingerie and then going back tieing her up and teasing her for hours. I don't know who is more excited me or her. If all goes well I'll have her every month. I love my life... lol

Just a note about circle/friend requests... if you send a request without sending me a message first I'm going to ignore it.

Okay... so I thought I'd be nice and post a little something for you cbt lovers. It's only my side of the cam session but here it is...

yes... let's start with the clothes pins... put them on your balls one by one

[12:28:39 AM] Ladyn Nyc: I will tell you when to stop
[12:29:40 AM] Ladyn Nyc: how many have you had before?
[12:29:55 AM] Ladyn Nyc: okay... let's do 20
[12:30:35 AM] Ladyn Nyc: good boy
[12:31:28 AM] Ladyn Nyc: very good
[12:31:46 AM] Ladyn Nyc: now flick the clothes pins
[12:32:35 AM] Ladyn Nyc: put a couple on your cock
[12:33:25 AM] Ladyn Nyc: now take the crop and hit the ones on your cock
[12:34:01 AM] Ladyn Nyc: move to your balls
[12:34:38 AM] Ladyn Nyc: good boy
[12:35:27 AM] Ladyn Nyc: do you think you can get the plug in with the clothes pins on?
[12:37:06 AM] Ladyn Nyc: good boy
[12:37:17 AM] Ladyn Nyc: now hit your balls with the crop
[12:37:58 AM] Ladyn Nyc: very good
[12:38:26 AM] Ladyn Nyc: slowly
[12:38:50 AM] Ladyn Nyc: every time you remove one flick another
[12:39:46 AM] Ladyn Nyc: slap the clear part
[12:41:08 AM] Ladyn Nyc: lol... it hurts doesn't it
[12:41:15 AM] Ladyn Nyc: slap your balls
[12:41:41 AM] Ladyn Nyc: LOL
[12:42:42 AM] Ladyn Nyc: now slap your balls 10 times
[12:43:11 AM] Ladyn Nyc: good boy
[12:43:32 AM] Ladyn Nyc: let me see the dildo
[12:43:58 AM] Ladyn Nyc: use the pink one
[12:44:09 AM] Ladyn Nyc: I want to see you suck it first
[12:44:41 AM] Ladyn Nyc: good boy
[12:45:38 AM] Ladyn Nyc: you like to be fucked in the ass don't you
[12:45:57 AM] Ladyn Nyc: slap your balls
[12:46:15 AM] Ladyn Nyc: okay fuck yourself
[12:46:20 AM] Ladyn Nyc: lol... slut
[12:46:44 AM] Ladyn Nyc: the only way you can cum is being fucked in the ass
[12:47:02 AM] Ladyn Nyc: slap that cock
[12:47:18 AM] Ladyn Nyc: good boy
[12:47:36 AM] Ladyn Nyc: deeper
[12:47:54 AM] Ladyn Nyc: we have to get a bigger one
[12:48:00 AM] Ladyn Nyc: for next time
[12:48:21 AM] Ladyn Nyc: you like the vibration don't you
[12:48:29 AM] Ladyn Nyc: lol
[12:48:38 AM] Ladyn Nyc: the other one works?
[12:48:56 AM] Ladyn Nyc: okay... switch
[12:49:38 AM] Ladyn Nyc: good
[12:50:24 AM] Ladyn Nyc: pull it out then go deep... each time
[12:50:45 AM] Ladyn Nyc: you don't have to pull it all the way out
[12:51:21 AM] Ladyn Nyc: hold it deep
[12:51:32 AM] Ladyn Nyc: push it
[12:51:47 AM] Ladyn Nyc: let it out a little and push deep
[12:51:57 AM] Ladyn Nyc: keep doing that
[12:53:11 AM] Ladyn Nyc: good boy
[12:53:56 AM] Ladyn Nyc: clench on the vibe it will feel good
[12:54:46 AM] Ladyn Nyc: lol... does it make you want to cum?
[12:55:02 AM] Ladyn Nyc: yes
[12:55:13 AM] Ladyn Nyc: on your stomach
[12:55:44 AM] Ladyn Nyc: good boy
[12:56:23 AM] Ladyn Nyc: slap your cock one last time
[12:56:42 AM] Ladyn Nyc: my way of giving you a kiss... lol
[12:57:05 AM] Ladyn Nyc: lol
[12:57:33 AM] Ladyn Nyc: you can go get cleaned up
[12:57:47 AM] Ladyn Nyc: yes, you pleased me
[12:58:03 AM] Ladyn Nyc: yes, we will do it again
[12:58:13 AM] Ladyn Nyc: you too

Had a great time at the Flesh & Fetish Ball. Didn't get to torture anyone but got to use a new machine called the Jeanie Rub Massager (A wonderful couple from TN brought it). It gives off the most wonderful vibration but left me wanting more. Took care of it but left a big wet spot from squirting so hard even though I had pads down... Definitely saving up money for that massager :-)

Going to my first party in Atlanta tonight... hopefully it will be fun.

If interested here is the information: Flesh and Fetish Ball Saturday 5/4 (Couples free before 10) - http://www.fleshandfetishball.com/

Looking for a sub male/female/couple for body worship/massages. Other things are possible. Must be near the Atlanta Metro area or NYC.

I will be in NYC May 16-20th... filling my calendar now so if you want to see me make sure you contact me right away. ~ Lady N

So many slave applications... It's too bad I don't have one with a house in NY or GA that I can take over to be my leather household... lol

Looking for a female for fun play this weekend. Can be as sensual or sadistic as you can handle.

Just finished giving myself the best pedicure. Letting the moisturizer set in with the spa socks I recently purchased. Will take pics before painting my toes and after.

~ Lady N

lol... I can be sensual too just feeling my sadistic side more today. :-)

Need to setup a few clients so I can make the trip to NY next week. Giving discounted rates from now (4/17) until next Wednesday (4/24/13). Contact me here or on y messenger for details. ~ Lady N

Really in the mood to give someone a good caning... enough to leave marks for weeks. Could be a personal or pro session. If it's a pro session I'll give you a discount if you take all I can give.

~ Lady N

I realized my profile was a little difficult to read with adding the journal entries at the top so I changed it. If you have any questions about my profile or what I'm looking for just ask~ Lady N

I would love to develop friendships with women in the Atlanta area. Bi/lesbian/straight/single/married/sub/domme/switch doesn't matter. You just have to love the lifestyle as much as I do... I do adore women so if it becomes more than just friends I'm okay with that too :-)

Too many one hit wonders sending me messages... I'm looking for ongoing R/T relationships. If you want a one time thing you have to schedule a session. And if I post that I've met one person it doesn't mean you can't send me message. I will let you know if I have too many subs/slaves in training.

Someone asked me a question and I thought I should share my answer... what three things can a submissive do to make you smile?

Take a good caning from me; lick my boots; give anticipatory service.

Looking for a decent amateur photographer in the Atlanta area. Will trade a free session for a photo session. Send a message here and I will give you my email address where you can send samples of your work.

Having some issues with trillian so only yahoo messenger is working right now. Screen name ladynnyc.

Finally getting to pamper myself... Pedicure first :-)

I think I scared off some potential R/T subs/slaves. I was supposed to meet them but now they've disappeared. Unfortunately the ones that are sticking around are too far away for R/T to be practical right now.

Don't send chat or friend requests without sending me an introductory message first. ~ Lady N

lol... another little bitch wants to do tasks for me. They do all the work and I get to see the results.

So, I generally don't get into online domination but I couldn't resist tonight. This loser sub sent me a list of 25 things he would do for me and asked me to pick one. He wants to do one new task every day. For tonight's task I chose "23 - hit his balls 25 times with a stick". I wanted evidence of course so I told him to send a photo. He did what was required but I was hoping to see marks. He's forgiven this time but next time I expect better. I love my life... lol

I've been thinking and in my ideal world I would have both a female and male sub/slave, a sex slave, and clients to keep me busy. Some kind of play if not every day then several times a week. Who wouldn't want that right??? lol

Met a potential sex slave yesterday. He expressed that he was very talented with his tongue. After trying him out I must say that it's true. We'll see how it progresses...

Yeah... finally get to do the whole beauty regimen (hair/mani/pedi) so I can post new photos.

A new personal position is available... I'm looking for a sex slave. Someone who's entire purpose is to serve me sexually. Whether or not this sub/slave is allowed an orgasm is determined purely on whether or not they please me. There will be no traditional intercourse. I may decide to fuck you but don't get your hopes up... it's all about me.

The requirements: You must enjoy oral, face sitting/queening, body worship, giving massages, and squirters. Free of sexually transmitted diseases; do not smoke cigarettes; a little extra weight is okay for females but males must be in good shape. You must be able to host at your place or be okay with serving me in semi-public spaces. You have to have minimal commitments (i.e., career/family). You must be available when I call or have a very good reason why you aren't.

This is a long-term commitment... could turn into friends w/benefits or sub/slave position but that is not expected.

Looking to fill this position ASAP so send a full body picture with your message. Be ready to meet and possible serve right away.

P.S. Discipline will be given to those that give mediocre service.

Happy Hunting!

~ Lady N

In the past I've been very adamant about not accepting subs/slaves that are in a relationship with someone that is unaware of their outside interest. I still feel very strongly about that for my personal subs/slaves. I do not believe that someone hiding their interest will be able to devote the time/energy needed to serve me.

However, for pro sessions they only need to devote the time/energy during our session what they do the rest of the time is their business. So, if I've turned you down in the past because of your relationship status you may contact me now for a pro session.

~ Lady N

If you tried to send me a message through AIM it didn't come through. AIM keeps disconnecting so use yahoo messenger or gtalk to contact me. ~ Lady N

If anyone knows of a pro domme space in NYC that rents by the hour to visiting dommes let me know. I have a space in ATL that I'll most likely use but I'll need a space when I'm in NYC. I'm working on getting my website up but in the meantime you can reach me here to setup an appointment. My profile lists everything I'm interested in, although in general the exchange of body fluids is not going to be apart of any session. Only my personal subs/slaves will have that privilege. When you contact me make sure you state that you are looking to make an appointment for a session. I'm still accepting applications for personal subs/slaves so I don't want to get things confused.

Happy Hunting!

Lady N

Yeah! My Trillian account is setup... you can send me a message on gtalk, yahoo, and aim. My screen name is ladynnyc

Because I am actively looking and I know how people don't always read your entire profile I wanted to make something clear so no time is wasted... I'm a BBW and if you don't find women with some extra weight attractive then I'm not the one for you. Although I am losing weight for health reasons I am very comfortable in my skin and only want someone who is attracted to me where I am right now. I believe that physical attraction is important and won't hold anything against someone who doesn't get hot at the idea of me stomping on them with my boots or leaving marks with the multitude of canes I possess.

On another note: I will be posting more recent photos of me soon. Don't get your hopes up... the most you'll get to see is a little cleavage.

My yahoo & google talk accounts are live for chat... I'm still trying to remember my aol password. I use trillian so I'm connected to all at once. You can connect with me now my screen name on all is ladynnyc.

Note: I'm only using chat to connect with friends, potential or current RT subs/slaves and clients. I don't have the patience for small talk so if you're just looking to shoot the breeze or be dominated via web cam don't waste either of our time.

Happy Hunting!

Lady N

I was just asked if I will travel for pro sessions... yes, but space rental and travel costs must be paid upfront.

I've decided to do some pro domme work... For those that are unable to meet my requirements for a long-term play partner or slave you have the option of scheduling a session with me. My fee will be to cover the cost of space rental, travel, toys, etc. Once I figure it all out I will launch a site with all the details. If you want to be notified when I am accepting appointments send me a message and I will add you to my list.

For those that are applying to be my personal sub/slave know that you will NEVER be asked for payment. My pro sessions are completely separate from my play dates. I'm a lifestyle domme that loves to play and loves to be treated like a Queen but I'm not into financial domination unless it's a part of a TPE slave situation.

If you have any questions about this just ask.

Best Wishes,

Lady N

I've been considering doing some pro domme work. It's not something I normally do but I may be interested with the right person. But it has to be an in person session. No web sessions and it has to be something I'm interested. Not sure if I'll actually do it but I have been thinking about it.

I'm currently living in GA, but I do travel to NY monthly. ~ Lady N

Looking back at my post from a few weeks ago about playing with married men I realize that the post sounded pretty harsh and it didn't express exactly what I meant. What I meant to get across is that I will play with married men but it cannot involve what can be seen as sexual acts (i.e. anal play). I will do impact, cbt, etc but no strap-on. I know it seems like a strange distinction but that's my quirk. ~ Lady N

I'm a lifestyle dominant and typically am not interested in pro sessions but a few have asked so I may consider it if our interests match. Specifically if you are interested in impact play, cbt, and anal play. Note: You do NOT have to be looking for pro sessions to contact me. I am more interested in long-term play relationships but am now open to pro sessions if it's doing something that I love.

On the off chance that someone here is going to TesFest next weekend I am looking to setup play dates. If interested contact me. ~ Lady N

Just a clarification... I'm not only looking for bi guys but painsluts as well. Masochists are preferred.

Just a point of clarification. If you're a married man don't bother sending me a message unless you want to be my painslut. I won't do anything remotely sexual with a married man whose wife is not aware that at the very least he is exploring outside the marriage. I don't care if she doesn't know you're kinky but if you're looking for more than pain it's not going to happen unless she knows that you're seeing someone.

I'm looking for a couple of bi guys that are interested in forced bi with straight guys. If you're a switch and share my interest even better.

I'm always up for new friendships and new play partners.

Contact me if you're interested but please read my profile first so you know what I'm about.

~ Lady N

Update to Profile: Because collarme.com does not give me the option to choose queer I've decided to change my listed sexual orientation to bisexual because I felt that being listed as lesbian may be discouraging to some female/male couples. However, it is important to note that I am not interested in sexual intercourse with cisgender males (male identified people whose assigned gender was male at birth). At least not in the traditional sense. When it comes to relationships and sex I prefer women/trans but cis-men are fun to play with. It's complicated yet quite simple.

Potential Opening for Personal Assistant - Long Island, NY and beyond

I've been considering this for some time and the only way to keep up with all of my commitments both in the BDSM community and my personal life is to find an assistant. At this time monetary payment is limited but I'm sure we can come to an arrangement that works for all parties. The details of the service to be provided is dependent on the skills the person has. I do vend at various events with My Lady's Toys so helping with loading/unloading and setup/breakdown will most likely be a part of the required services. Also, running errands and some minor domestic chores may be required. The rest will be determined upon interview.

If you are interested in applying you may send a personal message to me here on collarme. Be sure to include your skills and general availability.

Only those willing to meet in person for an interview need respond.

Best Wishes,

Lady N

Good Evening,

I tend to forget to check my profile here so if I do not respond right away don't be discouraged. I tend to spend more time on . You can view my profile there. It is listed as LadyN.

Best Wishes,

Lady N

Good Morning Everyone,

I took my site down for a while because I didn't have the time to maintain it but its finally going back up in the next couple of weeks. I won't give an exact date because the perfectionist in me wants to make many changes to the design, etc. So if you're interested in knowing when it comes back up, just subscribe to my journal or send me a note. If you're looking to be my little research slut then send me a note... I could always use someone who will search the web for various items.

Enjoy your day.

Best Wishes,

Ms. Natalia

Good Morning Everyone,

I made some major changes to my site and plan to make even more over the weekend.... So, check it out...

Enjoy your day :-)

Best Wishes,

Ms. Natalia ?

Good Morning Everyone... my new site is finally up... I'm still in the process of transferring things over and posting new content, but you can sign up to receive notices when various things get updated... So, check it out...

Enjoy your day :-)

Best Wishes,

Ms. Natalia

My site is undergoing a complete redesign. If you'd like to know when the new site is up send me a message or check my journal again soon.

New Position: Weekend Companion/Slut ? Don?t get your hopes up boys (or gals)? lol? this is not as easy as it sounds at first. I have high expectations and you must meet all the criteria. The following are the criteria: 1) You must be single. 2) You must enjoy the Arts 3) You must enjoy fine dining 4) You must be a good conversationalist 5) You must be attractive and fit 6) You must know your place 7) You must have the money to pay for our outings (there?s no going ?Dutch?). You might be thinking ?why does she want a companion/slut? why not just date someone?? First, I don?t date? I like things my way, by my rules. There?s no negotiation on what we?ll do. Maybe I want to go to dinner and that?s it? Maybe I want someone to pamper me for the night and clean the house. Maybe I want to bring out my strap-on? maybe torture someone a bit. All depends on my mood and what I want that day. You have to accept that and enjoy the fact that you?re being of use to me. Don?t like those rules? Don?t apply. This position probably will be short-term and you probably won?t ever receive my collar, but if you have the potential to be a good slave we can discuss the possibility of you serving me more. You may be thinking? ?this sounds perfect? I can just be her companion/slut forever?. Wrong? You?ll be the bottom of the totem pole so when I start training real slaves you?ll be the first to go. I devote my time to those that devote themselves to me? not my part-time play things. Maybe I scared a few off with that last little bit, but hey? it?s all about me anyway :-) - Best Wishes, Ms. Natalia

I'm working on adding a photo gallery to my site... check out what I've added so far.

Because of some of the messages I've received lately I feel it necessary to state that I have ZERO tolerance for rudeness and vulgarity. If you're jealous and think sending me vulgar messages will hurt me think again. The only response that your message will get is to be reported to collarme. So, if you don't want to be kicked off the site don't bother sending me a message.

New Position: Foot Slave. I've decided to actively seek a foot slave who is experienced in give pedicures. I love pedicures, but I don't want to pay for them anymore... lol. If you are chosen you will be required to serve once a week. To apply, send a letter of introduction along with a photo. You must outline your experience in your letter or your email will be ignored.

Best Wishes,

Ms. Natalia

I've added more things to my site so check it out.

I've decided that it is time to actively seek a domestic slave and/or sub. Their duties would consist of household chores and some errands. This is a non-sexual/non-play position. As time goes on and I see that they have potential to be more of a true slave/companion I will reconsider this decision, but for now those are the duties. To be considered for this position you must write a letter of introduction and include a photo. You must be available for interview immediately and available for use immediately after being chosen. This is a long-term position so you must be serious about serving. Because I live on Long Island, NY you will need to have your own vehicle or access to one. Days and times can be negotiated but you must be available at least two times per week. Should you have any questions prior to applying feel free to ask.... Best Wishes, Ms. Natalia

I've added more content to my website so be sure to check it out... Over the weekend I might add an announcement list so check back for the info on how to join.

Best Wishes, Ms. Natalia

So much has happened since I was last actively on this site. One great thing is that I'm finally working on my website. I should have the basic site up this weekend. So if you want the link send me a message. My website is all about ME and my interests so for those of you who are interested in what I enjoy/think you'll love it. I'll post more again... Best Wishes, Ms. Natalia

If you are hoping to be a part-time sexual slave don't waste your time... you will be turned down. Only full-time slaves that have proven themselves worthy will serve in any sexual capacity... And I'm not a pro-domme so don't bother trying to proposition me it won't get you anything but to be ignored.

Being that good slaves are hard to find?. Until I can find a good full-time slave, I am accepting applications for part-time house-slaves/chauffeurs.

For Potential Slaves: Keep in mind that I receive numerous messages every day from subs wanting to serve me. If you want to keep my interest you must make a point to show that you are sincere and eager to serve. Contacting me once every few weeks is a sure way to get put at the bottom of the list of potentials. If you fear being a pest, don?t? I will tell you if you are becoming a nuisance.

For those men who cannot read... I AM NOT INTERESTED IN HELPING YOU EXPLORE YOUR FETISHES. I am a lifestyle dominant. My needs and desires come first yours come secondary. And, you must work hard for pleasure ? anything that you may enjoy (if you get it at all). So, don?t waste my time or yours contacting me.

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