I don't guess I can lay claim to being a newcomer to this lifestyle. After all I actually run the local munch group, The Lexington Fetish Society. That came about after a tumultuous period last year. One thing I am determined to insure during my reign of terror, this will not be the cliquish group I joined in November of 2008. I refuse to allow a cool kids table to exist in my group! Members may have their circle of friends, but as leader of this group I will strive to see that I am friend to all of my flock. New folks will find me introducing myself to them before the seat they are sitting in has time to get warm.

I love restraining submissives in rope or leather cuffs. Yes I have wielded a flogger many times, a riding crop, paddle, a stick used to stir five gallon buckets of paint, and even a leather belt, during scenes enough times that some would consider me as kinky as a striped ass snake.

That said, let me state unequivocally that I would prestyle not encompass my entire life.

There are times, I will admit that running a BDSM munch group sometimes makes me feel like this lifestyle has consumed my life. Fortunately my relations with women, so far seem to be immune

While I consider myself to be Sensual Dom, I do admit that I enjoy grabbing a handful of hair and forcing a sub to her knees, over the arm of a chair, or across my knee for a spanking, just because I can. I enjoy the sight of a woman with her skirt up and panties to her knees as much as the actual spanking itself.

One would have to recognize that the mere fact that a sub is willing to place herself at my mercy to be a very special gift indeed. Something about the pinkness I just imparted upon that exposed flesh of a sweetly submissive derriere drives me wild.

Before I make my self look totally out there, let me state that I am not looking for a 24 hour a day / 7 day a week submissive. I am looking for a woman to have a long term relationship with. One that friends and acquaintances would see as a good match.

I desire a woman that would make a good lover, even a good wife. A lady that doesn't pick needless fights, but will stand her ground when the situation calls for it.

A woman that likes kinky games regularly, but wants to see her dreams and opinions valued and respected. Yes behind closed doors expect me to be forceful. But I desire a life partner as well.

To me, D/s is a leather case hidden under the corner of the bed of life. A loving committed couple brings it out a few nights a month, when they desire a walk on the wild side. In the morning it gets packed back away and is the source of shared secret smiles for days to come.

I guess I should also confess to being a nerd.
I am not much for most of what passes for entertainment.

I have never wanted to watch reality TV, from the trailers it is easy to tell that they have no concept of reality.

I am not much for movies, however I will tolerate them while on a date.

I tend to be somewhat of a news and political junkie, therefore, if I am watching TV in the evening it is probably something on KET.

While I like many kinds of music, I tend to listen to NPR during drive time in the mornings and evenings.

As for myself, I am found to be well versed in the ways of Redneck Southern Culture, but no my pickup does not have a gun rack in the rear window.

I am somewhat opinionated, & oddly enough rather conservatively liberal in my political leanings.

While I am not a wealthy person I am not close to bankruptcy either.

Socially I am a beer drinker.

The redneck in me, finds shocking my taste for an expensive single malt scotch on the rocks, when contentedly relaxing on the porch at home.

I am interested in a wide variety of subjects outside of sex and submission.

I also find myself in search of a quiet little piece of land outside of Lexington as an escape from the hustle and bustle of modern life. While I will still have to earn my daily bread in an urban locale, I would like to have a place to retreat from the noise on the weekends.

If your intrigued by what you've read or have further questions, I invite you to message me and ask them. I rarely bite and that's usually only if I am asked too!

By the way, unless I have you tied up during a scene, my name is actually Bill, and I would prefer to refer to you by yours as well!

My Ideal Person: If I were looking, the qualities that I would find attractive in a female submissive are quite simple really:

A woman that realizes that while bedroom bondage is fun, it is the vanilla of everyday life that makes us whole.

A woman comfortable in her own feminine skin.

A lady that is not looking for a life of total submission, but for the occasional spice that renews a passion for life and love.

Someone reasonably mature Someone gainfully employed. Someone that's reasonably happy.

A lady that likes to be a somewhat naughty on regular occasions.