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ISO open minded girls, guys, couples, and groups for safe, sane, and consensual sexploration... Dom? Sub? Switch? Which one am I? All of the above? A little of each? None of the above? If you put me over a fire and torture me I'd have to say that I am more submissive than anything else. I truly enjoy giving other people pleasure and if I had a choice about it... I'd rather be the one on bottom doing what needs to be done to make sure that you are happy. BUT... not every situation requires us to always be the same person... because of this, there are times when I can enjoy being in charge and making all the decisions... it all just depends on who my play partner is and what we have planned. See my journal entries for more information about me and my interests.

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4/14/2013 8:49:07 AM

I am here!

 

It was a long time coming and took me a while to get it done but I have finally moved back to my hometown.  Looking forward to seeing what kind of trouble I can get into now that I am here.


11/20/2012 12:29:11 PM

Relocating -

 

For the last 10 years or so I've been stuck in Las Vegas, NV.  I moved there when I divorced my now ex-wife because I still had family in Vegas... after my divorce, I went home to hang out with Mom, but now... almost every single one of my family members has left the town in one way or another and I don't blame them.  The city is depressing and the friends you make are less than supportive.  Everyone seems to assume that everyone else wants something from them.

 

Anyjawhozits... I was able to sneak out of Las Vegas and am now staying with some friends in Prescott Valley, AZ but I am only part way home.  When I left my ex-wife in San Antonio, Tx I also left my darling daughter.  It was a painful choice but it was the only one I had at the time since my family in Vegas was my only choice for starting over.

 

A lot of time has passed since I had to make that choice and now I am working on making my way back to San Antonio.  My daughter has made the ultimate plunge and decided to get married and make babies... since her mother has passed away she only has her grandparents and other family members to take care of her so I am trying my best to make my way back to San Antonio so that I can be there for her like I have yet been able to.


11/15/2012 5:07:06 PM

Computer Expert-

 

I put this on my profile because for the last 4 or 5 years I have been slowly teaching myself some of the basics of design and development for web sites.  I got started with my now ex-girlfriend when she started doing web cam.  I taught myself some of the basics... html, css, and a smidge of so that I could make her profile for her webcam business more interesting.  Now... I believe I've reached a point in my education where I can do more than just accumulate knowledge for the sake of accumulation.

 

If you have a website that you've been thinking about building, if you have been thinking about kick starting your very own e-business and need a website for it... or if you have just been thinking about creating your own website to use as one big huge massive social networking profile... please let me know.  Be one of the first people to approach me for work and get an outstanding rate for my time.  

 

For more information about my website building skills... please feel free to visit my personal website at ldmiv.com


10/16/2012 7:38:23 AM

Why Candaules?

Some people may ask, "Why have you chosen the name 'Candaules' as your online persona?"  To answer that question requires a bit of an explanation of my own sexual evolution.

The story begins with my first foray into the realm of BDSM (since you are here I'll assume you know what those letters stand for...).  When I first entered the BDSM world I was very much a submissive personality whose only desire was to give some one else sensual and sexual pleasure in any way I could. I was willing and able to do almost anything to satisfy my dominant and I was quickly collared.

I was lucky and my very first Mistress was not only gentle with me but she spent a lot of time training me in some of the "old school" ( high protocol ) kind of ways. I was punished  very rarely since it was obvious that I was a sensual kind of slave and not a masochistic brat. I enjoyed the collar for some time and managed to learn a lot about my new favorite kink. Eventually, as all things eventually do... My relationship with her came to an end.

After leaving the collar to work on my life. I was a live-in slave and began to feel the need to support myself and have a significant other of my own. Being a slave to a married woman was great but it didn't fulfill all of my needs. As I shared my kink with others I found myself accidentally in the dominant role explaining how things worked and I enjoyed it. Thus, I became what is known as a switch and eventually found my true personality.

I realized that it wasn't the dominance or the submission itself that I enjoyed. It is the gift of pleasure in what ever form possible that turns me on and makes me excited.

I spent lots of time online reading and researching. I learned a lot of interesting facts about how the mind works and how pain and sexual feelings can be confused in the brain. I learned about our primal nature, basic animal behavior, and how it is all connected to our survival instinct.

If you are still reading... about now you should be asking yourself... "Okay, but how did you pick the name?"

During my research and exploration I dabbled with the notion of the cuckold fetish. I watched as my girl got railed over and over by men whose proportions made mine  insignificant by comparison. I enjoyed every minute of it, not only relieving myself while watching but able to participate when I was invited back into her to relieve myself again. The incredible turn on of watching live porn and having that emotional connection of a relationship where I enjoyed giving her pleasure was beautiful. I was able to enjoy giving her pleasure in a new way.

Of course, being the research nerd I can be at times. I spent some time researching that particular fetish and came across the story of King Candaules and how his story of deception became the birth of the cuckold lifestyle. I read his story and compared it to my own way of enjoying my partner(s). When I was done I realized that two things had happened.

One, a great injustice had been done. King Candaules' only sin was to love his wife and appreciated her beauty so much that he wished to share it like a work of art with his closest companion. The head of his guard. Most likely his best friend and trusted ally. If you read the story you know what happened, if not I won't spoil the surprise. It's on wikipedia and a few other websites.

Two, I respected Candaules. He didn't want to give up sex with his wife. He only wanted to share her beauty.

It was then that I realized the cuckold fetish and it's connection to this disaster in sexual history was completely unfair. I decided to take ownership of my fetish and re-establish his name as one that is not connected to a cowering sniveling small dick boy who can't satisfy his wife and has to succumb to her desire to fuck other men due to their own incompetence or impotence.

I chose the name of Master Candaules because while I do enjoy sharing my woman with other men, I am also the master of my own domain. I enjoy being in control and being the one to help some one else blur the line between pain and pleasure. If I haven't said it before... I enjoy "inflicting pleasure". Which is a whole other journal entry.


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toastybrat
 
 Age: 48
 Edinburgh, United Kingdom