I'm a successful, handsome, confident, 48 years young white married male who enjoys being a real life dominant. Being a “Dom” to me is not abusing a woman or using her as a "doormat". I am passionate about sex, but that does not become the only element in the relationship. I like a woman who can function normally while being able to identify with her submissive nature in private...

As a submissive, you are not abused or mistreated I am emotionally secure and I want my sub to feel safe and comfortable. Guiding you with loving discipline are important things to share and you will value and appreciate this. I tend to start you on a journey of pleasure, dominance and excruciatingly SLOWLY in order to begin to create both trust and need within a submissive. If you are new or fairly new to submission, you need not be concerned that I might just go 'beyond the line'”.

I can be strict when I need to be, and playful. Hand spanking is just one of my teaching tools. Just as passion and kissing is a loving reinforcement for your good deeds. You will be prepared and expect to withstand intense physical sensation, in the aspect of prolonged erotic anticipation – and I will have you aching and craving for more! When you are good . . . You will be rewarded! IF you are bad. . Punishment will be your reward! I am fair, and I am open-minded. Yet, I am a strict disciplinarian when needed, and I will discipline you when you require it.

I seek a woman who is serious in her desires to submit willingly to her submission. I would prefer that she be intelligent, eager and strong, who needs the strong hand, comfort and trust of a powerful, assertive male, who is capable of EARNING her gift of submission. I would prefer someone who is as comfortable in a dinner dress as she would be in jeans or kneeling naked before ME. Can you now imagine quivering in a mixture of excitement, fear, and anticipation at the sound my voice?