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“Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They’re not fond of rules, and they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify and vilify them. About the only thing you can’t do is ignore them because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as crazy, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.” – Steve Jobs, Apple |
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The universe is a war between different reality programmers. R.A.W. |
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I looked at death. Her colors were red, white, and blue. The red blood running down her chin after she devoured me. I only claimed the freedom that she promised. Yet I was the broken one. She the glistening tower. |
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love is evil. darkness pulled to fire, pain beyond measure redemption
Jagged lines, curved and pointed opposing hinged crushing never stopping swallowed, running riverlake soft danger swift anger
clasping, grasping, pulling, thrashing taken used, abused released , crawling to return, evermore to burn
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Lovers don't finally meet somewhere, they are in each other all along. |
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The great darkness is coming. Run to it or away, but you will not escape. |
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Well kids, lets play. Are there any literate subs/slaves out there? Is there no subtlety on this whole board? I guess when the soft way doesn't work , then the tension escalates, then cascades into ?? |
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But certainly for the present age, which prefers the sign to the thing signified, the copy to the original, representation to reality, the appearance to the essence...illusion only is sacred, truth profane. Nay, sacredness is held to be enhanced in proportion as truth decreases and illusion increases, so that the highest degree of illusion comes to be the highest degree of sacredness. |
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Know this slave is a slave caressed or whipped...
Fetters, though of gold are not less strong to bind.
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New slaves are often merely drones of equivocation who are endlessly changing course to cover their fear. Hence they are looking for "real" dominants or masters, all the while reserving the complete and total definition of what that is to themselves. Odd. |
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Are doms or "masters" merely those who have the courage of the knife, but not of the blood? |
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We are all perceivers and that perception has more possibilities than the mind can conceive. |
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Does anyone know what a short term ltr is? |
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say to her, have you ever felt a man's hand touch your vagina? Silence. I take a drag on my cigarette.
She says, sir, this is a suicide hotline, and I say, I know. I say, I'm killing myself.
Don't do that, she says. I ask her how old she is, she doesn't respond. I say, there is a gun sitting in front of me and I need to know how old she is.
There is a gun sitting in front of me, but I'm not about to kill myself. The bullets in this gun are little alarm clocks. Each one wakes people up from the dead. Not the real dead, but the dead that we humans are, trudging through this capitalist pig sty world we created. Each bullet--bang! bang!--each one says, you, fat man--you, business man, wake up. Smell the week-old coffee.
She tells me she's 19. Poor thing. Just 19. I say, what the fuck do 19 year olds know about shit and she says it's not worth it. |
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Double speak prisons of contatdictory terms that appear perfectly rational given constant repetiton. If this makes sense to you, the send me a note. It is my def. of the devolution of the species. Get them when they are young and completely confuse them constantly. Any word now means anything. Just like no language at all. Just ceaseless noise. |
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These then are twelve virtues of rationality:
Curiosity, relinquishment, lightness, evenness, argument, empiricism, simplicity, humility, perfectionism, precision, scholarship, and the void.
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"Are you a time waster"
" Are you not worth my time"
" I want a relationship, not just a fuck"
" Relationships have many colors and reflections"
" You are a time waster!"
" I do apologize. I will find someone who believes they are worth my time." |
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Wish I had a nickel for every Daddy's Little Girl on here.
If you are five two and weigh slightly over a ton, then your daddy must have been a Mack truck for you to be little in his eyes. But then it is all about the fantasy now, isn't it? |
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Often sloppy and poor English is used on this site to cover for the lack of writing skills. If anger and the repetition of the word fuck in several sentences makes one a dominant, then I am totally messed up on the whole meaning. Lol. |
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How important is it? If it is that vital, that true, that complete a picture of you, then distance is just another obstacle to overcome to get to your home. |
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Slavery is the ability to love without expecting anything in return. |
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Can you live in the question without giving up seeking for the answer? If you already know, then watch out the lightbulb in your brain is burning out. |
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"Thou goest to woman? Don't forget thy whip." Nietzsche |
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When you put a chain around the neck of a slave the other end fastens to your own. Emerson. |
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To whit: One little problem with taking another's soul is: What about the million fears that flood into you own when you know without a doubt that this one is yours? When you can see in their eyes they have given you all that they are, or at least all that they believe themselves to be. |
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"To hell with reality! I want to die in music, not in reason or in prose. People don't deserve the restraint we show by not going into delirium in front of them. To hell with them!"
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Trust is instantaneous.
You can't learn it, think it, check it, or even really define it. If you do, then it is not trust, it is calculation, measurement, and pretty useless in personal relationship.
Just my opinion, I could be wrong.
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Just another day killing starving Asians with new toys all in the name of Jesus of course. I guess I will go watch pretty woman again. |
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What I wanted to say to all the girls on here. Thank you for the pictures of your cell phone in front of a mirror. Glad to know that you have a cell phone. |
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Anyone out there got Betty Davis eyes, the vision of Joan of Arc, the the pathos of Patsy Cline? |
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Two out of three are twenty-three. Strange. |
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There often seems no end to the beginning of things around here. |
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I have entered the twilight zone. I guess I read too many of those profiles. Is this E harmony? People sure are starting to sound like that in their profiles. Listen up people: You don't get to define the relationship before the fact. It is grown during the fact. The stuff on here reads like a cosmo ad for the relationship for all seasons. smirks. |
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Does anyone know how many of these profiles Collar Me puts up to pad the game so to speak? Might be a totally automated board only overseen by homeland security. Their coming to take me away ha , ha, ho, ho, he , he to the funny farm. |
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"But industrial civilization is only possible when there's no self-denial. Self-indulgence up to the very limits imposed by hygiene and economics. Otherwise the wheels stop turning."
Brave New World.
So here we are, now we have it. Are we happy yet? |
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I am a fake dominant. Anyone who wants a real dominant should not contact me. This is my choice. I am considering "doormat" status but I seem to absorb too much water. |
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Why be a dominant, why own a slave or a submissive?
Perhaps we are insecure. If you own another, then it is much more secure than a piece of paper issued by a comic of a ruling class of clowns we call government. We don't need third party justification for our relationships or our ownership. We only need the pledge of our slave. A truer more secure bond. |
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It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society. Krishnamurti. |
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If you expect a real submissive/ dominant relationship, you must be ready for a shock in your life. If you continue in the one that you are now, the change you seek will elude you endlessly. The shock may transform or destroy you. That is the risk, that is the promise. |
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"there is enough treachery, hatred violence absurdity in the average
human being to supply any given army on any given day and the best at murder are those who preach against it
and the best at hate are those who preach love and the best at war finally are those who preach peace" chuck |
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Passion and intensity are not always sexual. There is no passion and intensity without constant contact though. How much pain do we want to pay with to secure the pleasure? Just asking. I don't think anyone around here is .... |
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If you believe that you are a dom/submissive/slave/domme because it sounds like fun, or you thought it might be great. Forget it. It won't work. Unless your desire goes beyond thought, it will not transform you or your partner. The world is intelligence/thought in service to madness. This is a possible way beyond all of that. |
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Submissives with limits have already submitted to something else and shouldn't further waste their energy and time. |
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There is nothing more debasing than the work of those who do well what is not worth doing at all. |
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I don't believe there are vice-free people.
They conflate a narcissistic instinct for self-preservation with moral superiority. Plus, they suck the life right out of a party. |
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Do something!
I did
They died.
I cried. |
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The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion. Camus |
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There are no part time slaves. Look at what demands the most of your time, your energy, your devotion. That, be it person, place or thing is your master, owner. |
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Seduction and domination are the two sins of this world. The rest are illusions sold to idiots afraid to think for themselves. |
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Judge well. Think clearly. Live passionately. Happiness is a childs game for those who have too much time on their hands. |
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As a slave you have to work hard, live in a shack and do what master says. As a capitalist no one gives you the shack. |
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since feeling is first
who pays any attention
to the syntax of things
will never wholly kiss you;
wholly to be a fool
while Spring is in the world
my blood approves,
and kisses are a better fate
than wisdom
lady i swear by all the flowers. Don't cry
- the best gesture of my brain is less than
your eyelids' flutter which says
we are for each other: then
laugh, leaning back in my arms
for life's not a paragraph
and death i think is no parenthesis
Human Beings believe first, the try and find, rationalize, make up, reasons to support what they believe. They are usually so successful with this that forget they believed before they had reasons. |
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The Chemistry Between Us
If you take the chemicals that create the emotion of love and combine them on a petri dish then have you created love itself? Most people would say that you haven’t, but when this exact reaction occurs within a human brain an emotion is said to have occurred.
Scientists can describe the physical properties of a single human thought by recording the electrical and chemical activity in the brain, yet what they are mapping is simply matter and energy moving through space, it is not the thought as experienced by the thinker. The qualia is “lost in translation”.
There is a gulf between the dimensions of objective facts from subjective experience. The two can influence each other, but between them is a fundamental divide.
As an example, the fundamental laws of logic hold true whether there is anyone around to define them as true, yet it takes a mind to conceive of those laws and of the concept of truth
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Your soul mate, the great love of your life will twist and turn you to your core. He will dance on your pain, do unimaginable things to you and with you. Leave you lying in the gutter, crying, defenseless, hurting to your bones. Just to see if you will come back to him. This ladies, is your soul mate. If you do not want to become a new creature then pray tell when you meet him/her fly away with all possible speed. |
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Heart shaped is not actually the shape of a human heart, but rather the buttocks of a woman bending to the right position. |
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"Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes. She has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve.
Find a girl who reads. You’ll know that she does because she will always have an unread book in her bag.She’s the one lovingly looking over the shelves in the bookstore, the one who quietly cries out when she finds the book she wants. You see the weird chick sniffing the pages of an old book in a second hand book shop? That’s the reader. They can never resist smelling the pages, especially when they are yellow.
She’s the girl reading while waiting in that coffee shop down the street. If you take a peek at her mug, the non-dairy creamer is floating on top because she’s kind of engrossed already. Lost in a world of the author’s making. Sit down. She might give you a glare, as most girls who read do not like to be interrupted. Ask her if she likes the book.
Buy her another cup of coffee.
Let her know what you really think of Murakami. See if she got through the first chapter of Fellowship. Understand that if she says she understood James Joyce’s Ulysses she’s just saying that to sound intelligent. Ask her if she loves Alice or she would like to be Alice.
It’s easy to date a girl who reads. Give her books for her birthday, for Christmas and for anniversaries. Give her the gift of words, in poetry, in song. Give her Neruda, Pound, Sexton, Cummings. Let her know that you understand that words are love. Understand that she knows the difference between books and reality but by god, she’s going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book. It will never be your fault if she does.
She has to give it a shot somehow.
Lie to her. If she understands syntax, she will understand your need to lie. Behind words are other things: motivation, value, nuance, dialogue. It will not be the end of the world.
Fail her. Because a girl who reads knows that failure always leads up to the climax. Because girls who understand that all things will come to end. That you can always write a sequel. That you can begin again and again and still be the hero. That life is meant to have a villain or two.
Why be frightened of everything that you are not? Girls who read understand that people, like characters, develop. Except in the Twilightseries.
If you find a girl who reads, keep her close. When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her. You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you. She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are.
You will propose on a hot air balloon. Or during a rock concert. Or very casually next time she’s sick. Over Skype.
You will smile so hard you will wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled out all over your chest yet. You will write the story of your lives, have kids with strange names and even stranger tastes. She will introduce your children to the Cat in the Hat and Aslan, maybe in the same day. You will walk the winters of your old age together and she will recite Keats under her breath while you shake the snow off your boots.
Date a girl who reads because you deserve it. You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable. If you can only give her monotony, and stale hours and half-baked proposals, then you’re better off alone. If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, date a girl who reads.
Or better yet, date a girl who writes."
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Behind every player there is a girl who broke his heart. |
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"you boys can keep your virgins
give me hot old women in high heels
with asses that forgot to get old. " |
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Why do so many "submissive" profiles only go on and on about what they want, and what you should be. How submissive is this? I am here to get as far away from that as Schroedinger is from the cat. |
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Just a word in thanks to collar me. It makes BDSM like the world at large. A scrambling mass of people trying to find what fits them. |
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Panty hose and neckties must be for women. They certainly offer no advantages to men. Check that. Neck ties are rather good for silk gags. The wide end can be used to further cover the mouth when she just gets too ditzy. |
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What is it with the people who ask for creative introductions, but lack the will or talent for creative profiles or journals? What is that all about? Why would any dominant waste his time with such a warped perspective? Curious. |
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What is with these pictures in the dark? I guess I miss the point.
If you can't show yourself, then just don't put up a picture.
Your taste in flowers, brik-a-brak, and various other inanities is approximately equal to a man depicting their most decisive act of loving their latest boy toy. If we are going to do this, then at least let them be good pictures. Hmmmm. Just my opinion of course. |
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A conservative is a person who would rather the Chinese government own General Motors than the American government. |
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I have seen many admonish that they seek what is real. I have been real for a long time. Maybe I will try unreal, bizarre, insane, and put up some more stupid cliche words. let me see I saw a profile somewhere that I can copy and paste. Happy Thanksgiving! |
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Recent news item says it takes less than a second to fall in love. Seems they got it backwards. Everyone can fall in love. What is much more difficult is to stay in love. Relationship is not created by love alone. |
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There seems to be some overbearing respect for finding without looking. Like some magic trick pulled from a hat that doesn't fit. A badge of wanting to be found talking through the walls of a public urinal. |
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Luck is best. Talent a distant second, and the vaunted american euphemism"hard work" only when the other two don't show up. |
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I stay on this site so that I can share the absolutely simplistic adolescent fantasies that still haunt me , I guess, like they do everyone else. Some would give the fantasy a bad rap, call it not real. Well, "reality" isn't so great or fantasy would have no purchase. |
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As far as I can see the health hazards of sugar are greater than those of cannabis. oh, What is good for us depends on who is selling it. Can you get that flouride in chewable tablets? |
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God says he is sorry. He sent a new employee to create you. It wasn't exactly his best work. did you buy the warranty? |
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Some profiles are so boring that the medium gray ooze slips off the edges of my monitor. C'mon I know June Cleaver died, but surely there is something more to you than a soccer mom on the front of a baby diaper box. |
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What is this " I am who I am" stuff? Sounds like something from a Popeye cartoon. Who else would you be? |
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Mostly our minds are slow and dingy places, and most thinking a slow and muddied flow, full of unidentified emotional debris, obsolete concepts, frightened rites and superstitions. |
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If you slow dance with truth, you may get cut, but then the hole beneath your skin will disappear. |
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Look Mabel! This is how it works. You fill their brains with silly slogans, with homilies then they go spill their blood in a patriotic furror . Their blood fills our corporate pockets with gold, power, and property. Ya gotta love this country. |
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The compassion of woman is regularly deceived in its powers. They would like to believe that love can do anything. It is their characteristic superstition. Whoever knows the human heart guesses how poor, helpless, pretentious and blundering even the best and deepest love is. It destroys more easily than it saves. Martyrdom comes from knowing about love. It is good that a god should take pity on the human condition. One who takes pity on human love as it is so wretched. |
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Slaves focus on truth, honesty, yours not theirs. |
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A woman learns to hate in proportion as she unlearns to enchant. |
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What the hell does a picture without a face in it mean? I guess those are real slaves or subs. |
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want a real dom? read his journal. thats a start. but then the other way is more adventurous. |
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Swinging in the usual sense is merely dead meat fucking dead meat. |
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Just another de Sade without the intellect, the circumstance, or the energy. Okay. |
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Kissing is more personal and sexual than fucking. I wonder why the men don't see that.
Women usually do, but they pretend. |
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If love is not all there is, then it is nothing at all. How many have died on the cross of conditional love, never knowing that is what they are. |
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I am seeking a slave who is fine without the theatre, who knows who she is and is okay with peace. |
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If you are a sub/slave and your profile begins I want : Do you really get it? |
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Why do these no limit slaves not post their prices? Cmon, it is only fair. |
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