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Male Switch, 54
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Female Submissive, 35, urbana, Illinois
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Male Submissive, 30, Ljubljana
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About maybeprobablynot
Hello,
Due to the overwhelming response I received – based on my location and age only…
prior to offering any type of profile…
I can see there is little, if any discretion on collarme.
I find it highly unlikely that I will find the person I seek…if indeed he exists at all. Having said that I am 100% certain that Santa will not drop him down my chimney so the odds seem better on collarme, if only slightly. You will need to converse in a straightforward manner in order to establish your sincerity. I will not respond to “Hi” or “tell me more” or God Forbid some sort of misguided Domly statement like “suck my dick, bitch” although that makes me laugh because truly, at this point…have we even established that you have male bits?
I could give you a list of things I won’t do…but as it is quite long I will simply share a few things about myself, and if you are still interested, please do the same. I am a professional woman who has no interest in domestic duties or service. There are things that need to be done to maintain a home, I can generally find someone to do those things. I am in control and creative, can be both sullen and soft, am quick to temper, quick to misunderstand; also quick to laugh and to quick to beg pardon if I was wrong. I am intelligent in ways that will have you discovering them years after we have known one another.
I am going to borrow the next paragraph from OB (begging forgiveness after the fact for not getting pior permission to do so) because it was said so perfectly that I cannot improve upon it.
He said “I look for a woman who appreciates the potential of having two equal but opposite sides of the same coin. I like having her walk at my side in public, yet appreciate what might happen the moment I have her behind closed doors. I enjoy highly discreet play in public - and if you are intrigued by this - you will know that no one else need know what I do in public - but you.”
I want to be that woman to a man. Equal outside of the bedroom and whatever we decide is best inside of it. I am a strong independent woman, capable and respected in my career. Confident in my future and my decisions. I do not need anyone to attempt to micro manage me, or turn me into something I am not. I hope someday to find a man who can assist me in the journey to find out how much more I can become.
I have very little strong beliefs about what I want, because I simply do not know. Here are a few things I would like to experiment with restraint, vulnerability, spanking (a primary interest, and a primary fear), and learning to trust someone enough to allow him to allow me to explore the terrifying bits that I can only face in my dreams.
This profile is a work in progress, as I am. I can wait for days, weeks, and months to tweak it into perfection – but life is short, and I have much to learn and experience so I will shrink and expand this as seems fit.
If you have read this far, then perhaps we can have an intelligent conversation. Please know that I can live without a man, and choose to remain unchallenged and untried in my submission until I find the one that resonates within my dark need.
Oh one more thing*** married men need not apply. I am not looking to get married again...but I will not build my happiness, even for an afternoon, on another person's unhappiness.
Saying that it does not hurt her...is a lot like saying "I'm a lying, cheating, asshole."
I prefer to wait for one who can be honest and trustworthy...so, yes if you are married - Go home and lavish half the attention you spend fantasizing about another on her...she deserves it. |
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