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Male Switch, 37, Midland, Texas
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Male Dominant, 38, Mayo, South Carolina
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Male Submissive, 27
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About MaverickMagrew
Hello all, So I have been browsing around, "lurking" if you will, getting the flavor of this site. It appears that the best use of it for me is to just put who I am out there, and if my vibration is the same as yours, then say hello. :)
SHORT VERSION:
Polyamorous, married, happy, Dominant, seeking submissive, looking for 24/7 eventually:
In a perfect world, I would like: - someone who knows they like to serve and takes joy from bringing others joy - someone who knows they like to obey - someone who knows they like to kneel. - someone who is naturally submissive . . . not just during playtime. - someone open to possibilities down the road - someone who is slightly masochistic - someone who is either knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or willing to learn - someone who is open to being trained and spending decent amounts of time - someone who likes to be tied up - someone with whom I can share that rare energy . . . - someone who is open to polyamory
LONGER VERSION (TLDR VERSION)
First off, I tend to be much more "real life" oriented. I am CERTAINLY seeking real life, not online. I have much more real life experience than online, but online offers a much larger pool in which to swim and search, hence, my presence. I like the idea of 24/7 though I have yet to encounter anyone willing to commit to that level. I appreciate protocol and I have had several mentors who are old guard. Thus I tend to think in the old guard ways when it comes to lifestyle.
I am 33, married openly (Yes my wife is aware of all, and in fact has 3 partners of her own, so we are NOT a triad/unicorn hunter couple. I am searching for ME . . . not us. Her one request is that she become good, close friends with anyone I date, and for the last 8 years or so, this has been the case with only ONE notable exception. I am well educated, well spoken, and self confident. I know my value and the value of others.
In BDSM - I am patiently waiting for MY forever submissive to enter my life circle. I identify as a Daddy Dom style. I have been in the lifestyle for about 3 years, pretty actively and almost entirely in real life. I have had mentoring and formal training in fire play, and rigging a swell as impact play though I favor the first two. I continue to expand my skills in other areas on my own, practicing with my wife, friends, my circle of kinky people, and various partners as they come into my circle. I know a lot. I also have much to learn. This is the way with life. I link up well with natural littles. I have enjoyed several DD/lg relationships over the last 3 years.
I enjoy binding my littles, spoiling them, controlling them, directing them, helping them grow and learn. I can handle brats. I believe that submission is a gift the little gives to her Dom by choice. I believe it is EARNED by the Dom through actions and when given, it is given completely such that the little can not help BUT give their submission. It becomes their ardent desire to offer their submission to a true Dominant. I believe that submission and little mentality is inherent in the person, not a "game" or "mindset". It is part of who they are and thus the urge to submit is a NEED for them. They NEED someone to serve or it drives them crazy like an itch they can not reach. As the Dom, it is my duty to provide for this need, and others as they arise.
My personality: I tend to be very calm, collected and laid back. I trend towards obedience, and mental play in conjunction with physical impact play, and rope. I am very slow to anger, and I am seen by almost everyone I know (or at least they all continually tell me) that I am kind, giving, and "intense". I am also one of the most content people I know. There are many who are in turmoil, tossed about on life's sea. A couple years back I learned a bit about mindfulness of the Buddha and since then my life changed. Also as long as we are on the topic, religiously I am a mixture between Buddhism and what I call Weirism (or egg ism from Andy Weir's "The egg") These are the ideas which have changed my life.
About relationships: I believe with every fiber of my being that relationships must be approached like gardens. There must be a seed of interest first. Without it nothing ever happens. The seed must be planted in soil of good conditions, life availability, and mutual interests. The seed needs something with which it can grab, and grow. Then, those making the garden must water it regularly and provide it with plenty of light. Giving the relationship regular doses of time, and energy, spending time weeding problems, using communication, and doing everything in the light of honesty will promote growth and development. And then finally, it takes time. If watering it with attention and activities, weeding problems, and providing it light of truth happens for long enough, in time, it will grow into something beautiful and long lasting.
About my interests: Hiking, backpacking, BDSM (obviously), writing (I have written 3 books and counting), walking around lakes, rivers, cuddling in front of fires, reading to my partners, touching, holding, movies, binge watching our favorite TV shows, Projects around the house, homesteading (We have GOATS!), exercise, running, obstacle races, dancing (Swing and informal groove), . . . they go on and on. Suffice to say I try anything once, and most things I try I enjoy.
So . . . if any of this resonates with you, and you are local (Colorado), or could become local given the right conditions, I formally invite you to PM me. |
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Good god people. READ the profile before you message. You won't do much good as a submissive if you can't follow basic directions. I clearly wrote "real life" not online. If you are in New York chances of me having interest are zero I don't care how hot you are (or think you are) |
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Wrote chapter one of a new book for my little. It is a reward for her very good behavior last night. I hope she loves it. |
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