MatureBlkSir


maturesub2003 Female Submissive, 46	maturwench Female Switch, 58, Fort Wayne, Indiana	maturebb Male Dominant, 55

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	About MatureBlkSir The ideal Dominant controls himself, so that he might control his submissive. He will, as a stern dominant, cause tears to flow, and as a lover, kiss them away. An unashamed romantic, he cherishes his submissive lady. Yet always, he remains aware of the difference between fantasy and reality. When there is need, he is ready to leave the roles behind to be a friend. He understands that to own a woman, one must court the mind with intelligence and humor: win the spirit with compassionate and warmth; and take the body with determine strength. He is honorable sadist who uses pain to extend the bounds of pleasure, vigilant that no harm comes of the hurt. He is the mentor and guide who takes his lady into flight, the wind beneath her wings and her tether to the earth. Enveloping the submissive in his strength, he lends her the courage to reach new heights. ? The good Dominant is not lazy, mentally or physically. He researches carefully his toys of choice. He seeks out those having the skills and knowledge to teach him to use those toys properly. Then he practices each skill he would have, whip to cane. Trusting nothing to chance, he test everything first on his own body.? He is patient enough to learn his submissive well. Aware of the fragile nature of the human mind and spirit, he would not violate those entrusted to his keeping. He knows that submission to him will deepen as trust grows and control will extend as affection increases. ? Confident in his dominance, he has no need of silly posturing. He accepts titles as token of respect and kneeling as outward expression of genuine feeling. He has no desire to cheapen these by compelling rituals. He understands that the compliance that comes out of fear of punishment is weak at best, while the obedience engendered from real submissive feeling and the desire to please one?s master is unequivocal. ? He is secure enough to laugh at himself and the absurdities of life, courageous enough to accept assistance, open-minded enough to learn new things, and strong enough to grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit and soul, with assistance from whip, chain and blindfold. He understands that each partner gains from pleasure the other. Most of all, he knows love as the only chain that truly binds. ? I have had the pleasure of being actively involved, in the BDSM, lifestyle for almost twenty years and honestly believe that I possess many of the qualities previously cited. I am an avid reader and try to learn more and more each day, because knowledge is essential in the lifestyle that we all choose to live. ? ?

Someone asked me a simple question, what is it that I want? Ultimately, I would like to be seen as some sort of visionary. Whose goal is to place you in an environment or situation where I can see something, in you, that other people simply believed wasn't there or chose to ignore . To prepare you to reach the potential that was always there; but, covered up with doubt and insincerities or by others whose intentions were to treat you as if you have no value and/or substance. It is My responsibility, which I gladly accept, to cherish you; but, more importantly show you just how important you truly are. When I have accomplished my goals and you and I have completed our journey, I want you to look up at me and say, “Thank you for I have value and I am in need of nothing,”

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