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mattel67

MatterOfTime
Male Submissive, 54, Boston, Massachusetts
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mattel67 - Female Submissive, san jose California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About mattel67

I had been circling the community for decades before finally entering it several years ago after my divorce. I was welcomed with open arms by the wonderful people that I spoke with here on , at Bagg and met offline at munches and various events, and I've made many wonderful friends along the way. I've had many experiences within the community, some good and some very bad. Even still, the time I've spent has been richly rewarding and I have learned a lot. I am a submissive. I have known that for a very long time. I am not a switch, a Top, nor am I a Domme. I have no interest in those roles at this time.

**As to me,personally,** I am fiery, intense, stubborn, feisty, and very much a brat but I'm also thoughtful, caring, attentive and will go to the ends of the earth for the people I love. I prefer small intimate gatherings over huge crowds and can be very domestic as I have had many yrs experience with this. I enjoy everything from long rides on a motorcycle & a good bbq to dinner, the theater and museums. If you've ever seen the movie "UP", motorcycles are my "squirrels". I absolutely love them and hope to one day learn to ride one myself. I enjoy sitting at a coffee shop late at night with friends and quiet nights at home with loved ones. I am also a single mom but my children live outside the home. My children will always come before play.

** As to the D/s dynamic** I find the D/s dynamic enticing and have had several opportunities, but I still have yet to officially wear a collar. I thrive on communication and I admit I am a bit talkative at times. My first experience was mildly traumatic so patience and communication is essential for me. Because of my fiery and stubborn nature, rules, given with a gentle hand, is necessary for me. I do NOT accept silent treatment as a form of punishment. I like protocol. I like to be taken out and shown off. I am a bit of an exhibitionist and a touch of a voyeur. I enjoy going to various events, munches and classes within the community and hope to one day go to these as a collared sub. I have tried a poly relationship dynamic and discovered it is not for me. I do not wish to be just another secondary sub in Their life. What I seek is more of a monogamous ?D/s relationship. My D type is someone that I can trust to be there for me in my humble needs as well as Their's, who will not only make me want to keep in line but who can also make me smile, make me laugh. They are not only my D type but my friend and companion; Someone I can share my interests and life with.?


***** I am only interested in meeting people from the San Francisco Bay Area of California. Sorry*****
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