Matt1958

I became invovled with BDSM over 20 years ago. I joined the "Public" BDSM community 10 years ago. I am a dominant switch. I do not bottom to my bottoms, nor do I top my tops. I am experienced on both sides of the fence with a bent toward heavy erotic sadism. I am knowledgeable in many forms of S/M, bondage, and service skills, and can teach them.

I am looking for a female bottom or submissive. Not a life partner. I am married with children. We are poly and have our own sets of long and short term play partners. My wife is on Collarme under the name MzK. I am looking forward to developing a long term relationship with the right person who enjoys the sensual side of BDSM. Power exchange is a plus. Experience preferred, but not necessary as I am willing to train to my standards.

The bottom I am looking for must be a complete person. In my book BDSM is not therapy (although it can help make a better person). I do not like doormats. The person I seek needs to be strong and self sufficient. Have their own life, so to speak. They must be intelligent and articulate. No drug users. Non-smokers prefered. Being discreet is a must. Being honest is paramount.

The bottom for me must have masochistic tendencies. Extra points for bottoms who can take rough play and channel it into feeling wonderful.

No drama queens or brats. I will respect you for the person you are and the role you have chosen. I expect the same. Being playful and feisty is great. Crossing the line will incur repercussions. Limits, mine and yours, will be respected.

Please be within a reasonable travel distance from the greater Seattle area. I do not expect you to relocate.

References available upon request.