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Female Dominant, 30, Malmo
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Female Dominant, 25, PANAMA CITY BEACH, Florida
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About matin
The first and greatest rule is to "Love Thy Neighbor as Thyself." This is often mistakenly shorted to 'Love thy Neighbor.' Mistakenly because no one can love anyone truly, can give of themselves fully, without first fulfilling the caveat "As Thyself."
I am my best self with a woman kneeling at my feet. I am looking for a submissive who is her best self with my hand in her hair and my teeth on her skin. I am at the same time savage and infinitely gentle. I am not for the meek of spirit or body. I revel in control, in pain, in debasement. I will push one who is owned by me to be their greatest self in every facet of their lives. I will not keep you on a pedestal and protect you from the world. I want no doormat on my floor to step on, but a blazing fire of a woman, to warm myself by your passion for life. You will know that your owner is worthy of your submission, and I will know you are worthy of my hand.
Bdsm to me is the manifestation of fantasy, grasping at dreams and visions of desires and then finding people to manifest them with you.
I have no illusions that 24/7 bdsm is some "Sleeping Beauty" myth. I have lived it. It is real life, as messy and dirty and rich with life and mundane tedium as the vanilla world is, save that we get the incomparable joy of living our fantasies out with every breath we breathe.
I laugh. I joke. I tease. I play. I work and I study and I am every bit a real human being with real foibles as you are. If I wanted a perfect submissive I would buy some ridiculous japanese video game, or rent porn. Come to me with your flaws and your fire and your goals in life still to be met, and I will push you to meet them. I will push you and nurture you and shape you and make of you something that you will gaze upon with laughter, delight, and wonder. Come to me with your desire to serve, with your deep seated need to find someone worthy to kneel before, because I am he.
I am a capricious and infuriating owner. I take joy in your playful frustrations, in your soul shattering orgasms, in your fear, your pain, and your debasement. You will be my toy. Or chewtoy, if you will. I bite.
I need a partner in life. One to share the silly, geeky, fantastic, and terrible little moments with. One to help me shore up the weak places when difficult times hit, to bear their own weight in our joint lives. I will not fix something that is broken. That is not why I am here. For that matter, Bdsm cannot fix a soul that is not whole in and of itself. It can only bring out the best in those who bring their fullness to the relationship, who understand that we will both equally give, and take.
I have a wonderfully clever and perverted mind. If ever you despaired of finding someone who will jump down the rabbit hole with you, with a smile and a steady hand, I am that guy.
Send me a message. Let's talk.
-Matin
You can find me under the same name on fetl1fe
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