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matanda - Male Submissive,  Missouri | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About matanda

I've been around the block, been there, done that, and had fun doing it just about all of it. I like popcorn and dark chocolate, but not necesarily together. I'm a pretty good cook, a terrible singer, and can be a devoted lover. I am heterosexual, submissive, and monogamous. I'd like to develop a loving relationship with that special Dominant Lady. Drop in and say, "Hello" or anything else you think might catch my interest.

Finally remembered to upload a photo! It was taken in 2011 and is, I think, the most recent photo I have of me. Let me know if you like it!

A First Submission

 A gentle reminder; I am a novice with a bucket full of fantasies, not an experienced submissive or slave.  I am inteligent, articulate, and eager.  I'm also opininonated and strong willed.  I don't want you to break me, I want you to create in me the desire to bow down to you and obey you willingly and cheerfully.

 Here's my first submission to what appear to be the accepted rules of online D/s.  i will try to remember to use only lower case "i" when referring to me as a public act of submission to "the rules".  i shall also try to remember to use upper cases when speaking to or referring to You.  These are concious decision made to show You my respect and willingness to learn.

 Whew, that's a mouthful!  Tongue Out 

 Oh, and something else about which i've been approached:  tributes and financial submission.  i respect Your right to enjoy the life style in anyway You wish, but, please, don't ask me to pay for it.

My, how time flies when you're having fun.

 I've been chastised for not responding quickly enough to messages here.  I think there might be some validity to those complaints if I waited days or weeks to reply.  But to be told I must respond in less than 24 hours is...disapointing, at best.  Most of us have lives that don't revolve around CM -- or do we?   Although I can't drop in every day, I do look in as often as possible.  Sometimes it might be 2 or 3 days and, on rare occasions, I can drop by as much as 2 or 3 times in one day.

I shall answer all messages, but unless we have agreed upon a specific periodicity, please be patient with me if I don't reply as quickly as you think I should.  There might be a legitimate reason, yes?

Thanks for looking!Kiss

     To blog or not to blog, that is the quandry. 

      I'm looking for TLC, Tender Loving Cruelty.  I want to serve you and be rewarded.  Corrected and disciplined when necesary, but it would be grand to be kept because there was that basic chemistry that binds us together.  Does that mean I want to be in love with you?  Or that I want you to be in love with me?  Interesting concept for D/s, isn't it?

      Light to moderate pain would be nice.  You know, spanking, nipple torment, maybe even some light whipping.  No CBT, please.  I've been kicked in the nuts so I know it is not an erotic experience for me.  It HURTS, and not in a good way.

      OK, now it's time to get some things done.  Feel free to drop me a line. 

 

 

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