marsman

I started calling myself a Dom in 2003 when Mars was very close to the Earth.

My main submissive partner met me on old collarme.com. She is still with me, but she has health problems that now limit her ability to play.

I used to have another masochist play partner. She was with me off and on for 18 years but then accidentally died.(The autopsy found methamphetamine and fentanyl.)  

I am in good health. I don't do drugs except for caffine.  I learned how to lose 40 pounds and keep it off.

On that other FL site I am marsman2

One good book for beginners is Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns by Philip Miller and Molly Devon.

A public dungeon is a good place to take classes, meet people and and learn.  Munches are another place to meet people.

There is a BDSM events calendar for Northern California at:

https://www.erobay.com/calendar/Calcium40.pl?Op=ShowIt&CalendarName=Community

There is a data bug in the "Interests" area.

"Bondage" appears twice in the "Interests",

once in "BDSM 1" and again in "BDSM 3".

Be be sure to update both in the same way until one is removed...

It is easier to fall in love with someone than it is to live with someone.

  --Marsman