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About mapbenz
Hi, I am looking to meet a submissive female for friends and to grow with, and with time, a long term relationship with the "ONE". Although I have Dom traits, I still want a woman who can hold her own, someone who can stand on her own feet when needed and does not need a man to "take care of them". Submissiveness does not mean stupidity. Submissiveness does not mean bowing down to Any who walk in and announce Themselves as Master. That title must be earned out of respect and trust. Outside of a sexual relationship, I believe more in the master/sub relationship in that the man is head of the family and has the responsibility of making sure his house is in order and safe. The "One" will have my love and that feeling of being needed and cared for. My very Soul will be hers as hers will be mine. I am looking for a long term, open minded relationship. You must care about others and have a heart of gold. I also am the type of person that is outgoing, cares about friends and family and will help those in need. If this you , I would like to chat and learn more about you and your desires. I am always looking to meet new friends..... |
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I do not want a woman that requires micro management.
I do not need a woman that can not have a loving Dom/Sub relationship.
I do not want a woman that can not have a vanilla relationship combined with the sometimes complicated lifestyle of a Dom/Sub
If you need these things, friends are fine but nothing else could come of it.
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Please dont email me if you can not have a decent conversation! Only looking for a woman that has a brain! |
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Wow, never thought it wold be a year since I have wrote anything here. Well Back in Fl, Any one in Ft. Myers, feel free to write. |
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A new year has come!!! Just let it go, take a risk. |
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Is this you?
You have the intellect to understand the idea of quantem computing if someone explained it to you. You understand the real world. You would give all that you could to someone you loved. You have passion. You care about others. You want someone else to take control, to heal the wounds, to care for you. You could go on a long weekend in the middle of Alaska or fit in at the most upscale country club. You have balance. The reason you are here is because this is in your heart, not an experiment from the mind of a child. |
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Today I deleted my photo, if you want one, just ask. |
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A young slave asked me why I do not have my interest listed as other Doms in my profile (nipple play, whipping, ect) The reason is that is part of why I am here, of course I am dominate and I have a varied interest listed in the interest section, why point them out again? If you wish to ask me more details about my interest, do. They may not be yours and that is ok.
Also, there is a time to be romantic, loving and caring and a time to be a Strong Dominant, Firm, a time to be Strict, Harsh, and Unbending. Not allowing your ways to overcome mine, knowing what I do is for the best. I don?t have any interest in saying I want to "spank you" in my profile or journal. If you read most woman's profiles, what do they say, "Don?t send me one liners about how you want to beat me? I agree with them, at least as a point of first contacting someone. The reason I agree with that is, if you can?t put everything you want on the table besides the obvious, you will never find what you?re looking for. The second reason; it shows some intellectual capabilities. Any dumb ass can say I want to beat you, kneel down so I can F*ck you. What they are really saying is, "Hey I can?t get a real woman, so ill go after a woman who is stupid enough to fall for my b.s." So does that make sense? I have a strong preference for longer term relationships, even just friends, although I suppose the right person might entice me to play... |
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Are you 5 miles or 5000 miles away? Wanted: just a woman who wants to not worry. Will allow the man to take on the things in the world that cause the heart to become cold. There is so much more than the sexual side of the dom/sub relationship, its about one person caring and protecting for another and the other honoring the one that protects. With this, a trust and a friendship grows and from that a deep connection that could never be put into words forms and two souls are joined forever |
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I just read something in my own profile I do not like. "Submissiveness does not mean bowing down to Any who walk in and announce Themselves as Master." I have an issue with the word Master. I am who I am, not a Master, just me. So, if you have to call someone Master, I don?t think it's me, at least in a 24/7 way. I am not talking about play either. Does that make any sense to any woman out there? I guess the same goes for submissive. You are naturally that way. Maybe it's the whole title thing! |
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OK, just to clarify a bit. I am seeking a REAL WOMAN. A woman who's submissive,with a sexually submissive wild streak inside that has longed to come out. A woman that wants to give herself and be free..
SHE is many things: Passionate, intelligent, professional, well educated and can lead a vanilla life outside. She must want to explore the outside world and while the art of bdsm is great, more has to exist for a long term relationship to last. So...
Is she out there? |
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