manuel19613


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	About manuel19613 READ MY JOURNAL BEFORE CONTACT Dominant White spanish male seeking subs to play with. Also seeking a female sub for 24/7 long term relationship. I am financialy sercure, and successful in my work life. The sub or slave I am seeking must be prepared to tavel, I will be doing this in the future and your place will be beside me. Ok after having being a member on Collarme for about two weeks I need to make a couple of things clear. 1. I do not do one night stands. 2. Getting to know the women is of prime importance to me. I am seeking a life partner, who at times can enjoy vanilla activities out in the "real world". Enjoy a sub or slave on a casual basis is fine, but not without getting to know you. If you cannot be bothered, then I am not either. I am not involved in causing permanent damage either physically or emotionally. I will get to know who you are before starting anything.That means questions and answers from both sides, like in the real world. I enjoy talking with anyone, by email, chat, or online here. For those Dom's (who think they are) who contact me seeking advice, that's suitable as long as their questions are detailed and make sense. I understand that many women here feel that some Dom's are here for a cheap thrill, I do not seek that form of entertainment. For my lifestyle to work, it is about commitment and loyalty. Other activities I will speak of only with those I find intertesting. I am a firm but fair Dom who is willing to teach. I am not your master and will not treat you as such. Sir is the appropriate form of address. I will tell you when you can call me anything different. If you have got here to this point of my profile, many thanks. Good luck and happy hunting. Be Well Manuel (D)

Hello all
I hope that everyone enjoyed Santa's visit and that the New Year did not destroy you to much, lol. Naughty girls get present's too, so if you didn't get any you must have been very bad. Get on your hand and knees and I'll spank your arse, I have a secret hot line to Santa's underground dungeon, lol, lmao!!

I got an email from a sub the other day wondering what sort of WATERSPORTS I enjoyed, swimming, skiing, oh be still my quaking heart, lol.

Another new year is here; let's see what mischief we can get up too.

Be well
Manuel

So it has been ages since I wrote anything for my journal, well life does get away from all of us at times. A sub wrote to me explaining that maybe I was being slightly assertive when asking people writing me to include more than a two word hello or that they should making it a little interesting.
1) Me an assertive,lol,lmao, can't be true,lol.
2) By interesting I mean anything more than- "hello"- end of message.
Hey I loved that a spunky sub wrote an interesting thought out message, made my day.
If any subbies feel that I have scared them off, well then, that is not what was meant.
I love speaking to all, except maybe some of the ones on chat, but apart from that, I enjoy all communication.
Hope all are well.
Be Well
Manuel an assertive Dom, lol.

Well I am back after a break from this site, you know work commitments, the holiday period, blah blah blah.
What is surprising is the number of ads on this site that seem fraudulent, pictures of porn actresses for Pete's sake! lol.
Well hey each to their own little pleasures, send me a message, I fell chatty.
Be well
Manuel (D)

Here's a question folk's-
Is omission a lie? This was asked of me by a sub this week. Yeah I know, don't yell so loud, she is new to the l/s, inexperienced and seeking (aren't we all) the truth. So we cannot fault her, at least she asked.
Omission's like these are usually the one's I find.
1) Married
2) Fantasy not reality
3) Abuser's
4) Attached and seeking fantasy
There are many more I know, these are the one's I have come across. I wonder if some believe that because of our l/s omission is ok. I understand that we are all online and precautions need to be made, taking care of ourselves is priority number one,is it not. But- (you know by now there is always one of these) if you are unprepared to speak the truth, clearly, upfront, then how do any of us, Dom and sub expect to connect?

There are always some who will abuse any trust given, they are in the vanilla world also.

I suppose it will depend on what it is you hope to achieve- a group of friendship's, acquaintances, more? Did I hear MORE! That's the one for me.

Be well
Manuel (D)

Integrity- Is based on a moral inventory that all should have, it will differ from person to person because it is personal and individual.
There have been recent contacts who have no MORAL INVENTORY which means they are dishonest and in my opinion have little integrity. I DO NOT respond to individuals like this.
Here are my rules for contact, for those who don't get IT!
1) No picture NO response
2) Short message NO response
3) Married or attached NO response
4) Dishonesty NO response
5) Disrespect NO response
6) Not answering my questions -Immediate block.
And you guessed it folks, I will immediately block all sub's, Dom's and any other's (and there are those) who attempt this form of communication with me.
The reasons are simple- I have a busy work schedule that means MY time is valuable.
I do NOT communicate with player's and those wishing to pretend to be something they are not, (other than what is on their profile), and not having the honesty to be up front.

When I started on this site I believed that Dom's (males) where the main contributors to the dissatisfaction that many felt about honesty, not so.

Be well
Manuel

Communication - easy idea, difficult concept. It is so easy to show manner's when dealing with anyone. Here on this website or anywhere else in life.
If you don't particularly want a contact then a "no thanks, your not what I am looking for" is the appropriate response. It does show how you have been raised. It also show's character. Some thing lacking in today's society.
I have had some wonderful responses from sub's (even when they are saying no thanks).
This also show's a level of commitment to finding that right Dom. Those that show a total lack of manners are just perpetuating the environment in which we all live. Not caring for an individual's feeling's seems to be the way we are going. Impatience when not getting what we want immediately. Rudeness abounds, with a lack of regard and can I say (and I will) a disproportionate level of aggression to one's fellow man.
Folk's deal with the possibility that KARMA will never give to you if you are not prepared to give to the world and your fellow man (and most definitely woman).
If no respect is given, then you have no respect for yourself. That to me means that, those individual's are unacceptable as Dom's or sub's.
You may have all the technical experience in the world. That does not make you a great sub or Dom's. It makes you someone with knowledge., and someone with an ignorant use of knowledge is what?
We have seen these sort of people through out our world history. What did they achieve? Mayhem.
Cherish your own heart and soul before you cherish other's. Show respect even when not given it. Light the candle within your soul and never allow any to extinguish it.
Shine on folk's
Be well
Manuel (D)

Question- When is privacy not important?
Answer- Never.
Enough said.
The quest continues, again, I have spoken to some interesting people, some interesting in a spectacular way. I wonder how many sub's are truly interested in the L/S or are attempting to find a fantasy realm where they belong but which is unrealistic? Yeah I know, many will say that they are very aware of their needs, wants and desires. Yeah, but does that make them realistic?
I believe true happiness is the coming together of two minds with one purpose. Compromise is the only way that this will be achieved. It just so happens that in this L/S the Dom leads the way.
For those that are wondering, no I am not saying a sub lead's. They never do. Not with me anyway.
For those that are contacting me- be interesting for pity sake.

Be well
Manuel (D)

Hello to all you seekers of the truth.
1) Is everyone here all the same? Do all have an agenda of mis-truths, mis-trust and anger?
Answer- No we are not all the same, some are though. Beware those that promise the world and deliver nothing more than words without substance. A Dom by definition is a person whose word is beyond "proven" question. He or She has a level of integrity that will not allow hurt by action or inaction unless it is called for. For those that disguise their true intentions, karma is a wonderful thing.
For those subs who think the best defense is an offence- think again. Happiness comes from opening your heart and taking the hit's from those who would deal with you in an inappropriate manner. You will know them soon enough, then you can discard those that do not improve your existence. I will now get off my pulpit.
Be well
Manuel (D)

Well the world rolls on and all is well. For those people who have contacted me and we connected, my thanks, you know who you are. For those that commented positively about me venting my spleen - my thanks, you know who you are.
For all the beautiful women on collar me "you are all beautiful,make no mistake on that", expect nothing but the best, it is deserved, and it will come to you. The ultimate truth is that all have the right to achieve their expectations, whatever they are. You are the only one that can modify and adapt those expectations if they are unrealalistic.
Be well.
Manuel (D)

Well I have spoken to some wonderful people here on Collarme, and of cause some idiots. You get that every where.
Many women are having difficulty communicating with Dom's, well nothing new there either.
When will the male of the species get it! Don't know, and don't know if I care. Except it makes it extremely difficult to speak to women who have been abused, and make no mistake, this is a form of abuse.
For those that don't get it.

1. Resepct
2. Dignity
3. Commitment
4. Loyality
5. Humour
6. Empathy

If you don't have or care about these emotions, you are a waste of space i.e you are part of the problem.
Anyway I have vented my spleen.
Be well

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