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Male Submissive, 27, jkhgf, Alabama
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About manoh
Have you asked yourself "Why" are you here?. Not what you are looking for but Why.
We all know - more or less - WHAT we are looking for. But WHY?.
I am here because I would like to meet people. I want to meet you. Send me a message. Get things started. Do not leave collarme and sulk because you did not find what you are looking for.
I would describe myself as an empathetic sadist more so than purely "dominant". (do they have empathetic sadist as a category :) ) I enjoy spanking. I would enjoy spanking you. I understand that it takes courage and trust to receive a spanking. Equally that yearning to survive, to endure. That you do not want to hear "is that enough". You want him to decide how much and it needs to be more than you can take but you take it anyway. The reality being that at first a safe word is essential but you look forward to the time when you trust him 110% and so you no longer have a safe word because you know he knows. ! :)
I am looking for someone who enjoys life. Fit enough to go for a walk, ride or sail. Age is not really all that important and nor is marital status or anything else.
You may note that I have not filled in the list of check boxes about what I like. I suspect we may have different interpretations of those lists. If you like flea markets, fine dining and museums, well that's great because I can take you there. At the flea markets I might dress you as a school girl and we might buy a collar but be blowed if we are going to buy old crockery and rusty tools. If that is what you wannt then maybe a vanilla dating site is for you. We can engage in fine dining but again I might dress you in very high heels and choose you meal for you. If you simply want to go to a nice restraunt then consider listing yourself elsewhere. I am yet to think of what I could do at a museum. Put you on display?
I am perplexed by many of the profiles I read here that proport to be from submissive women and yet they come with a long list of instructions for anyone who wishes to contact them. If this is you then I suggest you ask yourself "Is submissive really you".
Someone who is submissive yearns to look after the details. To make someone happy. To submit and sacrifice. This is not a bad thing. There are vanilla submissives. People who sacrifice to make others happy. Who look after people and so on. And there are kinky subs. Who get fulfilment from serving, sacrificing, sometimes the challenge of bondage or spanking, enduring some humiliation and so on.
And there are "dominants" and so on and we enjoy giving subs the opportunity to ... well sub and sub well.
We will know pretty quickly if we get on together and if we don't then we will just go our separate ways. A key thing about BDSM is communication and with the freedom to communicate honestly comes a way to explore the things we both enjoy and an understaning of what might turn one person on and do nothing for another.
Contact me and lets see where we go from here.
Remember you are the sub. Put in the effort to send a message. If I have sent to a message to say "hey look here" you will notice it is not full of detail nor demands. But it is an invitation to contact me so warm your fingers and type some keys and send me a message and lets see what happens I am sure it will be enjoyable.
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